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Hope2day4ever

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I would like to ask the males a question here. My husband and I went through a lot and he was struggling with a "man" coping skill if you get what I mean. It was dangerous I will leave it at that. When I found out, he agreed to go to counseling, he did his homework so to say, He had backed off or stopped but picked up other things. He even got baptized and agreed to go to an ealuation at a hospital that treated what he was going through. Maybe a year into this, possibly 3 months after he gave his life to God in church, I asked him if he believed. He had shaken his head.
His former collegue was/is a homosexual and he visited us on his way back from his tour of 50 states on his own.
The two were quiet and I get along good with homosexuals because they don't hit on me
and its like talking to a girl with a (edited by mod) Why would he have done all that if he didn't believe?
 

Hope2day4ever

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I would like to ask the males a question here. My husband and I went through a lot and he was struggling with a "man" coping skill if you get what I mean. It was dangerous I will leave it at that. When I found out, he agreed to go to counseling, he did his homework so to say, He had backed off or stopped but picked up other things. He even got baptized and agreed to go to an ealuation at a hospital that treated what he was going through. Maybe a year into this, possibly 3 months after he gave his life to God in church, I asked him if he believed. He had shaken his head.
His former collegue was/is a homosexual and he visited us on his way back from his tour of 50 states on his own.
The two were quiet and I get along good with homosexuals because they don't hit on me
and its like talking to a girl with a (edited by mod) Why would he have done all that if he didn't believe?
My apologies. Truly sorry.
 
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RandyDawson

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Why would he have done all that if he didn't believe?

If he really has a relationship with the Lord then he will turn away from his sinful desires which will be swallowed up by his desire to walk with the Lord and serve Him.

Our soul is purified by obeying the truth through the Spirit (God's Word is Truth) - 1 Peter 1:22-25
This included embracing God's warnings that - if we forsake Him then He will forsake us

2 Timothy 2:12 (2 Chronicles 15:2)
If we deny Him, He also will deny us