Hi Laura, My heart goes out to you. My question to you is ,Have you Shared Jesus with him ? The love of Christ can change his heart! Pray for him. Ask God to soften his heart so he can see the TRUTH about Christ. I live by faith and prayer.God has been so good to me in answering my prayers. Ithink the hard part is excepting that his answers are not always yes. However His will is always in our best intrest. Ask God to show what is right. No one can give you that answer but him. I will pray that you find peace in your situation . God loves you. With love -your sister in Christ