Hi to all,
I think it necessary to do a post on maintaining some discernment when trying to encourage or discourage people in their Christian walk.
What normally happens is that there is NO discerning between the inner man and outer man of a person so that either a person is encouraged as a whole...or discouraged as a whole.
But nobody is that whole...at least not until one is mature in Christ. So then discernment is necessary to encourage the right part of us and discourage the wrong part.
Each of us is a duality of an inner man and an outer man. The inner man is created in God's image. The outer man is based on survival in a hostile world that is not covered by God. Our survival (carnal) mechanisms are in the outer man. That's why attacking an entire person is likely to be met with a defensive attitude. Rather we are to appeal to the inner man of a person. Speaking the truth in love. We are to speak to another's inner man from OUR inner man. If the person chooses to defend himself by relying on the flesh...then that is on them.
We are NOT to know others based on the flesh. We are to appeal to their inward man. Only those who are also living from their inward man will respond in kind. That is how we know who is of God and who is still serving their own carnal natures.
I think it necessary to do a post on maintaining some discernment when trying to encourage or discourage people in their Christian walk.
What normally happens is that there is NO discerning between the inner man and outer man of a person so that either a person is encouraged as a whole...or discouraged as a whole.
But nobody is that whole...at least not until one is mature in Christ. So then discernment is necessary to encourage the right part of us and discourage the wrong part.
Each of us is a duality of an inner man and an outer man. The inner man is created in God's image. The outer man is based on survival in a hostile world that is not covered by God. Our survival (carnal) mechanisms are in the outer man. That's why attacking an entire person is likely to be met with a defensive attitude. Rather we are to appeal to the inner man of a person. Speaking the truth in love. We are to speak to another's inner man from OUR inner man. If the person chooses to defend himself by relying on the flesh...then that is on them.
We are NOT to know others based on the flesh. We are to appeal to their inward man. Only those who are also living from their inward man will respond in kind. That is how we know who is of God and who is still serving their own carnal natures.