I have a hypothetical for you.
Now as Christin men we are taugh to love everyone and to forgive everyone. And that's a good precept, so we do. But how far does it go?
Would you take to yourself a girl for your wife, if she is a previous sex worker? Yes or no?
I got asked this by a girl who had been a sex worker, but praise the Lord, she did find Jesus and that's a good thing. She has changed jobs and vows to never be a sex worker again. But would I take a girl that to wife? No, I would not. She got all mad at me because I said I wouldn't and she went off! Why not? Why be judgmental? Why wont I forgive? and a slew of stuff like that.
My position is, I didnt know her when she was a sex worker so I have nothing to forgive her of, and it's not up to me to judge her. I am a man and have prefrences that suit me as a man. Including, purity, wholesomeness, geez they're supposed to be virgin in White when they're married. How many men have acctually married a virgin? They dont want a woman who is totally ran through and everyone has been with her!
I think she got so mad that I said no, because she figured men should be Christian like and forgive her her past.
While it's good that she found the Lord and was forgiven for her sins, there are still earthly consequences.
A mass murderer may be forgiven of God, but they still have to face the consequences of their actions on earth. The poor girl tried to avoid the consequences of men not wanting her as a wife and woundn't accept that she is still accountable for her poor decisions and she has become less valuable to men who want a wife because of her past.
WHat do you think? Was I too harsh on her? Would you marry her?
Now as Christin men we are taugh to love everyone and to forgive everyone. And that's a good precept, so we do. But how far does it go?
Would you take to yourself a girl for your wife, if she is a previous sex worker? Yes or no?
I got asked this by a girl who had been a sex worker, but praise the Lord, she did find Jesus and that's a good thing. She has changed jobs and vows to never be a sex worker again. But would I take a girl that to wife? No, I would not. She got all mad at me because I said I wouldn't and she went off! Why not? Why be judgmental? Why wont I forgive? and a slew of stuff like that.
My position is, I didnt know her when she was a sex worker so I have nothing to forgive her of, and it's not up to me to judge her. I am a man and have prefrences that suit me as a man. Including, purity, wholesomeness, geez they're supposed to be virgin in White when they're married. How many men have acctually married a virgin? They dont want a woman who is totally ran through and everyone has been with her!
I think she got so mad that I said no, because she figured men should be Christian like and forgive her her past.
While it's good that she found the Lord and was forgiven for her sins, there are still earthly consequences.
A mass murderer may be forgiven of God, but they still have to face the consequences of their actions on earth. The poor girl tried to avoid the consequences of men not wanting her as a wife and woundn't accept that she is still accountable for her poor decisions and she has become less valuable to men who want a wife because of her past.
WHat do you think? Was I too harsh on her? Would you marry her?