All Cat's are Grey (Not Gay)

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What do you mean?
Glad you responded. If the pot's not stirred, it'll burn.....and stirring consists of various challenges cuz the wine skins are mostly old and struggling with new wine.
 

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That’s not what I found when I reviewed our past conversations. I’ve complimented you and tried to encourage you.
Yeah in connection with your Christian belief system, which in your view is reaching out in love, but in my experience your over controlling.
 
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“Yahweh of the Jew” is the God of Israel; the God and Father of the lord Jesus Messiah.
See the problem here is that you are relying on a belief and I am relying on the facts. Did you offer anything proving? other than your personal feelings on the matter. You just said YAHWEH is the God of Israel and Jesus is the Son of that God. Like I said, you're offering me a belief and nothing more.
 

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When I stated that the reason for leaving Christianity was because of Christians, I never explained what exactly was happening. So I will explain why now.

They never showed any genuine interest in regards to anything that was a interest of mine. They dodged me at every turn to develop a real connection of having someone in my life who wants to know me. Worse than that was how they would keep me at arms length and prevent me from being apart of their own interests. You know far too many believer's treated me in this way before they even knew about my feelings with my daughter, so I can't say to myself they knew something that would warrant this continual defensive attitude. It was me who let that cat out of the bag, and even after so, they still treat me exactly the same way.

Yes you do.
To be a Christian, or a servant of God, is not to observe who the servants are and what they are doing. It's about learning to be a servant of God, what to do and how to do it.
 

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It means when you realize Christ died for your sins.... it's not just a saying. And you ask the Lord's forgiveness and believe on Him. The Lord promises us the Holy Spirit when we do that.
I don't want someone to die for my sins. Does that make sense for someone to die for your sins? No wonder the world is full of human beings who share no responsibility, because someone died for them. It's seriously immature.
 
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To be a Christian, or a servant of God, is not to observe who the servants are and what they are doing. It's about learning to be a servant of God, what to do and how to do it.
That's the idea, but it never works out like that. Ultimately it's a problem with acting out of a belief based ideology. Yep, whole human race is in mass chaos because they can't let go of believing.
 

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See the problem here is that you are relying on a belief and I am relying on the facts. Did you offer anything proving? other than your personal feelings on the matter. You just said YAHWEH is the God of Israel and Jesus is the Son of that God. Like I said, you're offering me a belief and nothing more.

The biblical facts.

Post in thread 'Go to my brothers and tell them'
Go to my brothers and tell them
 
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When I stated that the reason for leaving Christianity was because of Christians, I never explained what exactly was happening. So I will explain why now.

They never showed any genuine interest in regards to anything that was a interest of mine. They dodged me at every turn to develop a real connection of having someone in my life who wants to know me. Worse than that was how they would keep me at arms length and prevent me from being apart of their own interests. You know far too many believer's treated me in this way before they even knew about my feelings with my daughter, so I can't say to myself they knew something that would warrant this continual defensive attitude. It was me who let that cat out of the bag, and even after so, they still treat me exactly the same way.

Yes you do.

I have no idea how life has treated you.
 
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When I stated that the reason for leaving Christianity was because of Christians, I never explained what exactly was happening. So I will explain why now.

They never showed any genuine interest in regards to anything that was a interest of mine. They dodged me at every turn to develop a real connection of having someone in my life who wants to know me. Worse than that was how they would keep me at arms length and prevent me from being apart of their own interests. You know far too many believer's treated me in this way before they even knew about my feelings with my daughter, so I can't say to myself they knew something that would warrant this continual defensive attitude. It was me who let that cat out of the bag, and even after so, they still treat me exactly the same way.

Yes you do.
People's behaviors led you to turn your back on the Holy Spirit.

No.
 
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I don't want someone to die for my sins. Does that make sense for someone to die for your sins? No wonder the world is full of human beings who share no responsibility, because someone died for them. It's seriously immature.

Regardless of our intentions Jesus died for our sins. Refusing the free offer of salvation means alienation from God for all eternity. So I'm Glad Jesus died for my sins because there is no other hope to avoid condemnation.

There are still consequences for our sins. Look at those who converted while sitting on death row.

There is another cost, and many find it too much to bare. We must surrender authority over our life to Jesus. Because he can't be Lord while we still are under the illusion of control.
 

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I don't want someone to die for my sins. Does that make sense for someone to die for your sins? No wonder the world is full of human beings who share no responsibility, because someone died for them. It's seriously immature.

Perhaps not you....but my life is different because I'm a Christian. And it's a good life....peace with God amongst other things.

I won't say anymore as you just want to reject the Lord it seems.
 
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Regardless of our intentions Jesus died for our sins. Refusing the free offer of salvation means alienation from God for all eternity. So I'm Glad Jesus died for my sins because there is no other hope to avoid condemnation.

There are still consequences for our sins. Look at those who converted while sitting on death row.

There is another cost, and many find it too much to bare. We must surrender authority over our life to Jesus. Because he can't be Lord while we still are under the illusion of control.
Amen.

As I'm reading through the posts in this thread, several scriptures come to mind.

None of us had a choice to be born into this fallen world. And as far as someone dying for our sins ....that wasn't our choice either. The eternal Godhead decided that before the foundation of the world.

Romans 5:8
“But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.”

John 15:13
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”


Ultimately, each one of us have to choose to believe, or not to believe. It comes down to personal experience. Someone can tell you what a ribeye tastes like, but you don't really know unless you taste it for yourself.

Psalm 34:8
“O taste and see that the LORD is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.”


There is plenty of evidence of God's existence just by observing nature.

Romans 1::17-23

17For therein is the righteousness of God revealed from faith to faith: as it is written, The just shall live by faith. 18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who hold the truth in unrighteousness; 19Because that which may be known of God is manifest in them; for God hath shewed it unto them. 20For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: 21Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
 

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I'm sorry you had some bad experiences with Christians. But as for me, that would never cause me to reject my precious Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ. Not only has He forgiven me, but I have the peace of God in my heart and mind. And He gives me strength and help each day... I'm 75 and came to know Jesus personally at 22 years old.
Nor would I sister .
The truth of the entire matter is
IF anyone abandons JESUS it dont matter what excuse they gave , THEY did not desire him .
I been banned from more places than i can count .
Treated like anti christ and even called anti christ by some christains .
BUT IT darn SURE did not cause me to flee CHRIST . people leave for one reason , though they will often make excuses .
THEY either LOVED HIM or they NEVER DID LOVE HIM .
cause i darn sure dont get treated good by a lot of christains .
YET MY FIRE for THE LORD continues and i do all by HIS grace to help all , even those who hate and despise me .
YOUR RIGHT sister . WE DONT abandon JESUS no matter how we be treated by even those who profess to KNOW HIM .
THANK you for such a lovely reminder too . I hope what you wrote to that person
will bring them comfort and perhaps IT did remind them , DONT blame GOD , DONT blame CHRIST
for the actions of people who even use HIS NAME . IT AINT HIM DOING IT , ITS THEM DOING THE EVIL .
 

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not every cat is grey .
But sadly it sure seems like a lot of christain doctrine in churches is grey .
Always trying to blend the black with the white
Not a good place to be either . As for the sheep ITS TRUTH FOR US . not the middle mixture .
 

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Perhaps not you....but my life is different because I'm a Christian. And it's a good life....peace with God amongst other things.

I won't say anymore as you just want to reject the Lord it seems.
When you read what i wrote it gonna make a whole lot of sense .
Anytime one makes excuses for WHY they did not come
The fault was on them . THEY DID not want to come or to know the LORD .
Many always try and put the fault on the others when the fault belongs to them and them alone .
JESUS IS OUR KING SISTER , and HIS SHEEP GONNA HEED , LOVE and FOLLOW HIM .
Now to the trenches and in all that we do and all that we say MAY it HONOR the GLORIOUS LORD who has saved us .