Love God, Love others...those are the two main ones that Jesus left us. Not the 10 Commandments and, He actually raised the bar on those ! "You have heard it said...but I tell you ... Such as adultry that, even if you look at a woman with lust building in your head, and allow it to fester and be thought on, it becomes adultry. Same with the one about murder...then 10 say Do No Murder...Jesus said, even if you are angry at a brother without cause you are committing murder so...He gave us new commandments and the top two are to Love God Love Others. You read the Gospels so, you can see it right there...you must read His words.
God Bless and help you understand.