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[JohnDB]

Thank you for your post.

Not knowing about OnlyFans, I am guessing the women who post there believe that raw physical attraction is only way to attract men. Certainly physical attraction does help in the search for a soul mate, but men will court women whom they care about, and who care about them. It is not about ephemeral feelings, but a lifetime of cherishing a spouse.

As for children, family planning does include concern for sufficient resources to take care of everyone. Yet, are we not suppose to trust God to provide for our needs, our family needs, given that we are faithful to Him?

Peace.

OnlyFans is a website that people upload amateur pornography they have made and patrons pay to view it where the content creators then receive and pay taxes on.

We hear a LOT about the success stories but the vast majority of women post up their pictures and make very little (if any) money meanwhile their nudity and pornography is on the internet forever.
Some of these porn "starlets" are hunted and their personal space violated....doxxed and etc.

I'm told (I really don't know) that some pornography on the internet is from 50-60 years ago....some even older. Grandmother's porn for all to see.

So....
That's kinda Just....yuck. there are some things that you want to unsee but can't...
I imagine seeing your mother or grandmother in such a compromising position would be one of them.

But more importantly....who in their right mind would want to marry a prostitute?

And finally,
prudence Tells us to be ready to financially support children we make. Just "waiting on God to provide" is not exactly prident for a "seemingly absentee" God. (He is not absentee but He also doesn't hand out checks like the Government).

I know several instances and people who did as you suggest and the results are NOT working out for them. Just saying....

 

[Dash RipRock]

But more importantly....who in their right mind would want to marry a prostitute?

What if she repented of her sin, got born again and loved the Lord?

Would you reject her as a sister in the Lord?

Mary Magdalene was a hoe, but she turned away from her sin and become part of Jesus' group of personal friends.

I'm told (I really don't know) that some pornography on the internet is from 50-60 years ago....some even older. Grandmother's porn for all to see.

Yeah, you don't know. Got it.

 

[JohnDB]

 

[Dash RipRock]

That reminds me of the little boy that saw the commercial saying "Only you can prevent forest fires"

It really freaked him out as that was a lot of responsibly for a little boy

 

[JohnDB]

What if she repented of her sin, got born again and loved the Lord?

Would you reject her as a sister in the Lord?

Mary Magdalene was a hoe, but she turned away from her sin and become part of Jesus' group of personal friends.



Yeah, you don't know. Got it.

I would not reject her as a sister but most definitely would as a potential spouse.

Decisions and poor choices can be forgiven by God....they might be by different members of mankind. The "EARTH" does not forgive.

Because....
Some of those poor Choices leave scars and mental health issues that don't go away.

Sampson is a perfect example of sins of his youth coming back when he was old to revisit him. And this time THE SINS WERE IN CONTROL.

What YOU or anyone finds acceptable as past behavior in a spouse is highly subjective.

There isn't a magic neon sign that lights up above a prostitute that says "warning Will Robinson; DANGER DANGER DANGER"
You have to discern the character of a person by other means.

 

[Dash RipRock]

I would not reject her as a sister but most definitely would as a potential spouse.

If she gets saved and God leads her to a good Christians man to get married to... it's the will of the Lord

Your sin would have led you to hell just as much as hers would have so you are not any better than she is, except maybe in your mind

What YOU or anyone finds acceptable as past behavior in a spouse is highly subjective.

Where did I ever say prostitution was acceptable?

Did you not understand that when one becomes born again they are a new creation in Christ and old things are passed away?

Or maybe you apply this to yourself and not to others that you think their past sin was so much worse than yours?

 

[JohnDB]

If she gets saved and God leads her to a good Christians man to get married to... it's the will of the Lord

Your sin would have led you to hell just as much as hers would have so you are not any better than she is, except maybe in your mind



Where did I ever say prostitution was acceptable?

Did you not understand that when one becomes born again they are a new creation in Christ and old things are passed away?

Or maybe you apply this to yourself and not to others that you think their past sin was so much worse than yours?

Oh I readily admit I've made past mistakes others will not accept in a spouse to have made in their past.

I'm not saying I'm better or worse. But just that there is not many men who will accept a former whore as a spouse. Even fewer who are Christians.
It's not fantasy I'm spouting....just reality.

We aren't sitting around singing koom buy yah yet....not until Heaven and we aren't there yet.