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● Gen 2:18 . .The Lord God said: It's not good for Adam to be solitary; I will
make a fitting helper for him.
"fitting helper" is from two Hebrew words.
"Fitting" is from neged (neh'-ghed) which means: a front, i.e. part opposite;
specifically a counterpart, or mate.
The word for "helper" is from 'ezer (ay'-zer) which means: aid.
Note that aid isn't spelled with an "e" as in aide; so that Eve wasn't meant to
be the man's Girl Friday, rather; someone to strengthen him. In other
words: woman's true role is a supporting role rather than a starring role.
I suspect that Adam didn't really have it all that easy in his world, and that
Eve's companionship made his life a lot more tolerable and worth the living.
The companion that God made for Adam was both his counterpart, and his
crutch. In other words: wives are really at their best when they strengthen
their men to go out that door and face the big, bad, mean world.
Woman's potential for companionship is the primary reason that God made
her-- not for her sex appeal nor for her reproductive value; no, for a man's
companionship; which is commonly expressed by cordiality, friendliness,
friendship, goodwill, kindness, civility, concord, harmony, rapport, charity,
generosity, compassion, empathy, sympathy, chumminess, intimacy,
affection, devotion, loyalty, fondness, and love.
From all that, I think we can safely conclude that a woman who tears her
man down instead of building him up is a broken woman; i.e. maladjusted
and out of sync with her maker.
NOTE: According to Dr. Laura Schlessinger, one of the ten stupid things that
men do to mess up their lives is to try and fix a broken woman.
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● Gen 2:18 . .The Lord God said: It's not good for Adam to be solitary; I will
make a fitting helper for him.
"fitting helper" is from two Hebrew words.
"Fitting" is from neged (neh'-ghed) which means: a front, i.e. part opposite;
specifically a counterpart, or mate.
The word for "helper" is from 'ezer (ay'-zer) which means: aid.
Note that aid isn't spelled with an "e" as in aide; so that Eve wasn't meant to
be the man's Girl Friday, rather; someone to strengthen him. In other
words: woman's true role is a supporting role rather than a starring role.
I suspect that Adam didn't really have it all that easy in his world, and that
Eve's companionship made his life a lot more tolerable and worth the living.
The companion that God made for Adam was both his counterpart, and his
crutch. In other words: wives are really at their best when they strengthen
their men to go out that door and face the big, bad, mean world.
Woman's potential for companionship is the primary reason that God made
her-- not for her sex appeal nor for her reproductive value; no, for a man's
companionship; which is commonly expressed by cordiality, friendliness,
friendship, goodwill, kindness, civility, concord, harmony, rapport, charity,
generosity, compassion, empathy, sympathy, chumminess, intimacy,
affection, devotion, loyalty, fondness, and love.
From all that, I think we can safely conclude that a woman who tears her
man down instead of building him up is a broken woman; i.e. maladjusted
and out of sync with her maker.
NOTE: According to Dr. Laura Schlessinger, one of the ten stupid things that
men do to mess up their lives is to try and fix a broken woman.
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