mjrhealth saidAnd would it not be a more selfish thing for them to spend lots of money, on an expensive wedding, get presents from all their friends then brake up a short time later. If its not troubling God should it be troubling you.____________Copper25 says- People may not think about this much in a materialistic society that emphasizes on big money, big stuff, and big celebrations, but you can have a wedding composed simplistic elements. A minister and a couple of witnesses, you don't have to have an expensive wedding, that is just a developed mantality of our culture now a days. And on another note, with an attitude like this, expecting a short ended relationship, how long can it last?