You might be surprised at how commonly sensible the whole thing is. I don't mean to shatter the "hopeless romantic" concept (
being an avowed one, myself), but God has put together a wonderful state of things that is also very manageable. I would've given a year's wages 40 years ago for the information given in the video I posted. It's very thorough without getting vulgar or provocative in the slightest. I would recommend it to young couples, especially.
I did have some advantages with my father being a (Senior Chief Petty) Officer and a gentleman - lol.
My wife is very grateful to my dad considering all the female health complications she's had. I understand that it's very common for men to be either unsympathetic or even to make sport of such things. I'm genteel to a fault (
I know—that's redundant) in that regard. My mother had difficulty, as well.
As far as experience is concerned, I guess I don't need to tell you at this point that God has much better things than physical intimacy waiting for those who love Him. ;)

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