Don't worry, you don't have to PM me if you don't want to, but if you do I'll gladly read what you're going through.
Ya, reconciliation has to do with forgiveness. Somewhere along the way there was a break in a relationship and you and/or the other party would like it repaired. Sadly, it requires 2 people to restore a relationship and to push it forward, (though a 3rd party can help mediate reconciliation. If you haven't considered this, it could help.) and all you can do is your part. Whether the hurt came from your end or the other person(s'), the establishment of your forgiveness for whatever part they shared in the hurt or break in relationship, is what is most important. That is how you establish you are ready to start over, per say, or start fresh. Now, you can only pray that God would work in their area of hurt so they can reach a place of reconcilable forgiveness as well, even if the forgiveness they need is inward (inward or outward forgiveness has no effective impact on the result of how they reach reconciliation, the hope is that they will anyway). So you can pray, reestablish connection, and verbally state your feelings of forgiveness and want/need to reconcile. After that the ball is in their park.
Say this person hurt you; forgiveness isn't an establishment of trust, which has to be earned and re-earned whenever it is broken. But what forgiveness is saying is, "let's try again and here's hoping things work out better this time." Ya, that's all I got for now.
Blessings in Christ,
M