So Joseph married Mary but didn’t have sex?

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One of the reasons that there are 30,000 denominations is that they were started by people that were uneducated on the scriptures, the languages, the culture, and the history. The Bible calls it the blind leading the blind.
wanna know what they all had in common as well as those who sat under them . They trusted in men .
My advice is a fast return to the bible again . And they aint the only ones t rusting in men , in presidents on either side of the aisle
and in leaders of churches that teach a unifying false love either .
Many have been trusting in men . whether it be the left or the right , whether it be a prostestant or catholic .
And now they will merge under the very clever workings of another god
who by means of an ecumeincal harlot will convince them all the time and hour and dire need to do so , IS NOW .
And i wont be captilizing that god either . Many simply are not gonna make it .
Because they had their hopes in this life and in men of this world and thus were led into
the agenda for to find their common ground . As i said many have had their hopes and trusts
in this world , its kingdom , its men , an d yet many of them believed those men and that kingdom
to be of GOD . YET IT NEVER WAS . He who loses HIS LIFE in THIS WORLD shall find it
but those who do not do so , Will not find life . Many have always desired a god
and a jesus that fed what it is and what it was they TRULY desired . THEIR LIFE in THIS WORLD
and thus they sat under men OF the world and hoped and trusted in Such .
 

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Well the dictionary of the language is the starting point. And then the context and then the interpretation.
why look at THAT . as i said many educated formal doctrines make such a claim .
YET as usual they teach it from their own learned version .
As for me , OH YEAH i shall stick to the BIBLE and unto GOD and HIS CHRIST , HIS SPIRIT f or my learning .
Seems they all have their versions of the greek and of whatever scholars wise wise , or so called wise , learning .
And now in this late and last hour , this formal education , this trusting in mighty renown scholars
Will lead them all to the merger by once again , ITS CONTEXT and its versions of such words .
Namely their version of this inclusive love and its peace . Not this sheep . ME sticks to the bible
and unto the GOD who did inspire them words . Pray that many others will go and do likewise .
 

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wanna know what they all had in common as well as those who sat under them . They trusted in men .
My advice is a fast return to the bible again . And they aint the only ones t rusting in men , in presidents on either side of the aisle
and in leaders of churches that teach a unifying false love either .
Many have been trusting in men . whether it be the left or the right , whether it be a prostestant or catholic .
And now they will merge under the very clever workings of another god
who by means of an ecumeincal harlot will convince them all the time and hour and dire need to do so , IS NOW .
And i wont be captilizing that god either . Many simply are not gonna make it .
Because they had their hopes in this life and in men of this world and thus were led into
the agenda for to find their common ground . As i said many have had their hopes and trusts
in this world , its kingdom , its men , an d yet many of them believed those men and that kingdom
to be of GOD . YET IT NEVER WAS . He who loses HIS LIFE in THIS WORLD shall find it
but those who do not do so , Will not find life . Many have always desired a god
and a jesus that fed what it is and what it was they TRULY desired . THEIR LIFE in THIS WORLD
and thus they sat under men OF the world and hoped and trusted in Such .

We should find a good church but God tells us He put religious leaders their to shepard you.

 

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We are rehashing the same old thing.

You said we are “rehashing the same old thing,” but the reason it feels repetitive is not because I am repeating myself. It is because you keep returning to the same claims even after they have been shown to contradict one another. Each time I address one contradiction, you restate the same point in a slightly different form, which forces the discussion back to the same underlying issues. The repetition is coming from your claims, not from my responses.

To show this clearly, here is the sequence of contradictions you have introduced:

Your very first claim:

...the scriptures does not imply in any way a virgin birth.

required you to argue that Matthew 1:25 implies Joseph had relations with Mary. That is the debate about heos. Without heos implying reversal, you have no grammatical basis for denying the virgin birth. In response, I pointed out that Matthew states outright that Mary was a Virgin for the conception and birth of Jesus:
  • 1:20 — “That which is conceived in Her is of the Holy Spirit.”
  • 1:23 — “Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son…”
And your reply to that was not to defend your claim from Matthew, but to change the subject entirely by appealing to Isaiah 7:14, 8:3:

...read Isaiah chapter 7... The virgin in question is Isaiah's wife and it is clear that Isaiah had sex with her and virgin in Hebrew can mean a lady that has not had a baby yet.

So I approached the prophetess, and she conceived and gave birth to a son. Then the Lord said to me, “Name him Maher-shalal-hash-baz; Isaiah 8:3 NASB

But that does not rescue your argument; it contradicts it again. You said Scripture “does not imply a virgin birth,” yet Isaiah 7:14 explicitly describes a virgin conceiving and bearing a son, and Matthew cites that prophecy as fulfilled in Mary. Your attempt to avoid Matthew’s wording by collapsing Isaiah 7:14 into Isaiah 8:3 requires treating two different women and two different children as the same.
Next, you asserted:

I am not implying reversal.

and I pointed out:

"If you’re not implying reversal, that means you agree that Matthew 1:25 does not imply Joseph “knew Her” afterward. That removes the only linguistic basis for your claim."

You recognized that your denial of the virgin birth and your denial of reversal cannot both be true, which led to your contradictory statement:

I am not debating heos.

But that contradicts both your earlier denial of the virgin birth and your later claim:

No contest on Joseph holding off making love to Miriam until after Yeshua was born.

because if Joseph and Mary were abstinent until the birth and then had marital intercourse afterward, the only way to assert sex afterward is to argue that heos implies reversal. You cannot claim Joseph “held off” until after the birth — which necessarily affirms Mary’s virginity at the birth — while also claiming you’re “not debating heos.” And you cannot deny the virgin birth without relying on the very reversal you say you’re not implying.

And the contradiction becomes even sharper when you add your next statement:

“No the verse does not imply a change. The norm does. The culture does. The scriptures do not give any information on that.”

Here you deny reversal (“the verse does not imply a change”) while simultaneously asserting reversal (“the norm does, the culture does”). You are rejecting reversal in the text while importing reversal from sociology. That means you are denying reversal and asserting reversal at the same time — and still claiming you’re “not debating heos,” even though your argument depends entirely on the reversal you say you’re not implying.

These positions cannot all be true at once.

And your later statements introduce an entirely separate set of contradictions:

Of course what was conceived in her was of the Holy Spirit...

The Holy Spirit was involved but Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit.

Yahweh produced a Son if it was not from His seed then Yeshua is not the Son of God.

These cannot all be true at the same time.

If the conception was of the Holy Spirit, then the conception was not the result of sexual intercourse. Matthew explicitly says the conception was “of the Holy Spirit,” and Luke says “the Holy Spirit will come upon you and the power of the Most High will overshadow you.” Those are descriptions of divine agency, not sexual reproduction. They rule out the idea that Yahweh impregnated Mary through a physical act.

Your claim that “Scripture does not imply a virgin birth” contradicts your own admission that Joseph abstained until after the birth and that the conception was caused by the Holy Spirit. If Joseph had no role in the conception and abstained until after the birth, and the conception was caused by the Spirit, then Mary conceived and bore a son without intercourse — which is precisely what Isaiah 7:14 describes.

Your attempt to avoid this by saying “Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit” confuses identity with agency. Matthew and Luke are not describing who Jesus eternally is; they are describing who caused the conception. The Father is the eternal source of the Son; the Holy Spirit is the agent of the Incarnation. Those are different categories, and collapsing them does not resolve the contradiction.

Finally, your claim that “Yahweh produced a Son… from His seed” contradicts every relevant passage. Isaiah, Matthew, and Luke all describe a non‑sexual divine act. Nothing in the text supports the idea that Yahweh impregnated Mary through intercourse, and your own denial of reversal in Matthew 1:25 removes the only grammatical basis for claiming She had intercourse with Joseph.

You are denying the virgin birth while simultaneously affirming every textual element that implies it. Your statements about the Holy Spirit, Joseph’s abstinence, Yahweh’s “seed,” and the meaning of heos contradict one another at every point.

And all of these contradictions expose the deeper problem with your stated method: you say

...the dictionary of the language is the starting point. And then the context and then the interpretation.

but you never actually follow that sequence. You stop at the dictionary definition and then override the context with assumptions about “norm” and “culture,” even when the context directly contradicts those assumptions. If you applied your own method consistently — dictionary → context → interpretation — every one of your claims about Mary, Joseph, Yahweh’s “seed,” and the virgin birth would collapse under the actual context of Isaiah, Matthew, and Luke.

Yes — the dictionary gives the range of possible senses. That’s the starting point, not the ending point. And that’s exactly why your argument fails: you keep stopping at the dictionary instead of applying the context.

If you really follow your own sequence — dictionary → context → interpretation — then apply it to the actual passages:
  • Dictionary: ‘almah can mean a young woman.
  • Context: Isaiah 7:14 describes the ‘almah whose child is Immanuel.
  • Interpretation: That woman is not the prophetess of Isaiah 8:3, whose child is Maher‑shalal‑hash‑baz.
Two different contexts → two different women → two different children. Your method, if you actually used it, would force you to stop claiming they’re the same person.

The same applies to heos.
  • Dictionary: heos marks a limit.
  • Context: Matthew is explaining Joseph’s non‑involvement in the conception.
  • Interpretation: The boundary does not imply reversal — just as Michal did not start having children after her death.
You say the dictionary is the starting point. Correct. But you keep treating it as the ending point.

And if you applied the same sequence to Matthew’s own wording — “that which is conceived in Her is of the Holy Spirit” (1:20) and “a virgin shall conceive and bear a son” (1:23) — you would have to acknowledge that Matthew himself presents Mary as a virgin for both conception and birth, which directly contradicts your claim that “the scriptures does not imply in any way a virgin birth.”

And your “Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit” line shows the same mistake.
  • Dictionary: “conceive,” “beget,” etc. have a range of meanings.
  • Context: Matthew and Luke explicitly say the conception was caused by the Holy Spirit.
  • Interpretation: The Spirit is the agent of the conception; the Father is the eternal source of the Son. You’re collapsing identity and agency because you’re ignoring context.
So again: Matthew says the conception was “of the Holy Spirit,” and Luke says "the Holy Spirit will come upon" Mary and "the power of the Most High will overshadow" Her. Those passages describe divine agency, not a sexual act by Yahweh. How can you claim Yahweh had sex with Mary when Matthew and Luke explicitly attribute the conception to the Holy Spirit?
 
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required you to argue that Matthew 1:25 implies Joseph had relations with Mary. That is the debate about heos. Without heos implying reversal, you have no grammatical basis for denying the virgin birth. In response, I pointed out that Matthew states outright that Mary was a Virgin for the conception and birth of Jesus:

Maybe you are not reading my responses so read carefully. Because I have answered this more than once.
YESHUA IS NOT JOSEPH SON. THE BIBLE DOES NOT INDICATE THAT MIRIAM AND JOSEPH EVER HAD A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. IT CAN BE ASSUMED AFTER YESHUA'S BIRTH THAT SHE HAD SEX WITH HER HUSBAND. NO REASON TO ASSUME THEY DID NOT. NORMAL HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP AND CULTURAL NORMS. NO WAY TO PROVE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.
 

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  • 1:20 — “That which is conceived in Her is of the Holy Spirit.”
  • 1:23 — “Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son…”
And your reply to that was not to defend your claim from Matthew, but to change the subject entirely by appealing to Isaiah 7:14, 8:3:

No I answered these directly. I do not attempt to avoid anything.
I confirmed that Matthew said “That which is conceived in Her is of the Holy Spirit.” Now what it means is not certain. It is a single statement and it does not change the rest of the Bible's storyline that Yeshua is the Son of Yehweh. It is like in Luke it says you have to hate your mother and father to be a disciple of Yeshua. That is a contradiction of the rest of the Bible. Longing for singular verse to form your beliefs is the wrong way to form religious beliefs. Like that answer or not....that is it.

As far as.....Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son…I have answered this one too. Miriam said she had not known a man, so she had a hymen intact. So a virgin has sex and she conceives.....Norm sequence of things. The scriptures do not say she was a virgin after conceiving. This is my answer like it or not.
 
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Your claim that “Scripture does not imply a virgin birth” contradicts your own admission that Joseph abstained until after the birth and that the conception was caused by the Holy Spirit. If Joseph had no role in the conception and abstained until after the birth, and the conception was caused by the Spirit, then Mary conceived and bore a son without intercourse — which is precisely what Isaiah 7:14 describes.

Again already answered this.....Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit and I disagree that Miriam conscieved without sexual intercourse. This is my answer.
 

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Your attempt to avoid this by saying “Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit” confuses identity with agency.

No you are trying to confuse the matter. Was the Holy Spirit involved in Yeshua conception, I would think so but how is not explained and Yeshua is the Son of Yahweh. This is my answer like it or not.
 

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Finally, your claim that “Yahweh produced a Son… from His seed” contradicts every relevant passage. Isaiah, Matthew, and Luke all describe a non‑sexual divine act.

Again I have answered this.....
I do not believe they do describe a non-sexual act. Nothing that specific. The words used point to the normal process of procreation. Nothing that says Yahweh caused Miriam to be pregnant, nothing that says Yahweh miraculously caused Miriam to be pregnant, nothing that said that Yeshua was created or manifested. Just the normal process of impregnating a woman. And finally nothing that says directly that Yahweh impregnated Miriam without sex.
 

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You are denying the virgin birth while simultaneously affirming every textual element that implies it. Your statements about the Holy Spirit, Joseph’s abstinence, Yahweh’s “seed,” and the meaning of heos contradict one another at every point.

And all of these contradictions expose the deeper problem with your stated method: you say

Heos does not chang anything and there is no contradiction. Just in your mind. The phrase "virgin birth" does not occur in the scriptures. We would not be having this discussion if it did. Again I do not care, a real Theologian does not care, they look at what the scriptures say. The don't take a single scripture that contradict the main theme and make that scripture a religion. If the Apostles believed Miriam had a virgin birth, they would have said that.
 

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but you never actually follow that sequence. You stop at the dictionary definition

This not true. We have had this discussion before. The words in antient language can have several meanings. What they mean in a topic or sentence depends on the context of the sentence. Then you have the Koine Greek punctuations to consider.

 

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Here you deny reversal (“the verse does not imply a change”) while simultaneously asserting reversal (“the norm does, the culture does”). You are rejecting reversal in the text while importing reversal from sociology. That means you are denying reversal and asserting reversal at the same time — and still claiming you’re “not debating heos,” even though your argument depends entirely on the reversal you say you’re not implying.

These positions cannot all be true at once.

And your later statements introduce an entirely separate set of contradictions:

I have no reversal or deny and heos does not chang anything.
 

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And your “Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit” line shows the same mistake.
  • Dictionary: “conceive,” “beget,” etc. have a range of meanings.
  • Context: Matthew and Luke explicitly say the conception was caused by the Holy Spirit.
  • Interpretation: The Spirit is the agent of the conception; the Father is the eternal source of the Son. You’re collapsing identity and agency because you’re ignoring context.
So again: Matthew says the conception was “of the Holy Spirit,” and Luke says "the Holy Spirit will come upon" Mary and "the power of the Most High will overshadow" Her. Those passages describe divine agency, not a sexual act by Yahweh. How can you claim Yahweh had sex with Mary when Matthew and Luke explicitly attribute the conception to the Holy Spirit?

Again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again!
Bottom line Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit, it is one liner that contradicts the rest of the scripture and what it means is not explained.
Again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again! Yeshua calls Yahweh His Father over 50 times. The Holy Spirit is never called an agent and the Father an eternal source.
You are coming up with your own terms and idea that are not biblical.

NOW STOP WITH THE LARGE POSTS. ONE THING AT A TIME.
 

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Maybe you are not reading my responses so read carefully. Because I have answered this more than once.
YESHUA IS NOT JOSEPH SON. THE BIBLE DOES NOT INDICATE THAT MIRIAM AND JOSEPH EVER HAD A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. IT CAN BE ASSUMED AFTER YESHUA'S BIRTH THAT SHE HAD SEX WITH HER HUSBAND. NO REASON TO ASSUME THEY DID NOT. NORMAL HUSBAND AND WIFE RELATIONSHIP AND CULTURAL NORMS. NO WAY TO PROVE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.

No I answered these directly. I do not attempt to avoid anything.
I confirmed that Matthew said “That which is conceived in Her is of the Holy Spirit.” Now what it means is not certain. It is a single statement and it does not change the rest of the Bible's storyline that Yeshua is the Son of Yehweh. It is like in Luke it says you have to hate your mother and father to be a disciple of Yeshua. That is a contradiction of the rest of the Bible. Longing for singular verse to form your beliefs is the wrong way to form religious beliefs. Like that answer or not....that is it.

As far as.....Behold, a virgin shall conceive and bear a son…I have answered this one too. Miriam said she had not known a man, so she had a hymen intact. So a virgin has sex and she conceives.....Norm sequence of things. The scriptures do not say she was a virgin after conceiving. This is my answer like it or not.

Again already answered this.....Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit and I disagree that Miriam conscieved without sexual intercourse. This is my answer.

No you are trying to confuse the matter. Was the Holy Spirit involved in Yeshua conception, I would think so but how is not explained and Yeshua is the Son of Yahweh. This is my answer like it or not.

Again I have answered this.....
I do not believe they do describe a non-sexual act. Nothing that specific. The words used point to the normal process of procreation. Nothing that says Yahweh caused Miriam to be pregnant, nothing that says Yahweh miraculously caused Miriam to be pregnant, nothing that said that Yeshua was created or manifested. Just the normal process of impregnating a woman. And finally nothing that says directly that Yahweh impregnated Miriam without sex.

Heos does not chang anything and there is no contradiction. Just in your mind. The phrase "virgin birth" does not occur in the scriptures. We would not be having this discussion if it did. Again I do not care, a real Theologian does not care, they look at what the scriptures say. The don't take a single scripture that contradict the main theme and make that scripture a religion. If the Apostles believed Miriam had a virgin birth, they would have said that.

This not true. We have had this discussion before. The words in antient language can have several meanings. What they mean in a topic or sentence depends on the context of the sentence. Then you have the Koine Greek punctuations to consider.


I have no reversal or deny and heos does not chang anything.

I always apply them to the scriptures.

Again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again!
Bottom line Yeshua is not the Son of the Holy Spirit, it is one liner that contradicts the rest of the scripture and what it means is not explained.
Again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again! Yeshua calls Yahweh His Father over 50 times. The Holy Spirit is never called an agent and the Father an eternal source.
You are coming up with your own terms and idea that are not biblical.

NOW STOP WITH THE LARGE POSTS. ONE THING AT A TIME.

I am reading your responses carefully; the issue is not whether you have replied, but that your replies contradict one another, and your latest reply repeats and introduces additional contradictions on top of those already laid out. Repeating the same assertions does not resolve the contradictions already identified in post #304. If you believe one of your statements is consistent with your other statements, identify a single contradiction from post #304 and explain how the statements fit together without conflict. Until you do that, repeating the same claims will not move the discussion forward.
 
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I am reading your responses carefully; the issue is not whether you have replied, but that your replies contradict one another, and your latest reply repeats and introduces additional contradictions on top of those already laid out.

I do not contradict myself.
 

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If you believe one of your statements is consistent with your other statements, identify a single contradiction from post #304 and explain how the statements fit together without conflict. Until you do that, repeating the same claims will not move the discussion forward.

Again stop the large post. I do not contradict myself. If you think I have we can go over them one at a time.
 

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Post 304 is your post.

I do not contradict myself.

Again stop the large post. I do not contradict myself. If you think I have we can go over them one at a time.

Post #304 lists your own statements in sequence; if you believe none of them contradict one another, then choose one specific contradiction from that list and explain how the statements involved fit together without conflict. We can address them one at a time, but you need to identify the first one you believe is not a contradiction.
 

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Post #304 lists your own statements in sequence; if you believe none of them contradict one another, then choose one specific contradiction from that list and explain how the statements involved fit together without conflict. We can address them one at a time, but you need to identify the first one you believe is not a contradiction.

I do not see any contradictions.....like I said I do not contradict myself.