Yeah I kind of know "Want" because I'm in want. It's my wants that are destroying my soul. But how to stop being in want is a another question.
it is like the lady who complained to the town elder that her house was too small. He tells her to make her house bigger she must first go and let the goat in the house; then the pig, then the chickens. Her house gets really full, then he advises her to start removing them, right, wherein the house becomes bigger than it was, relatively
So iow the hole can be filled by...ha well, fasting. As strange as that sounds. Fast for three days and alla sudden fruitcake is delicious, see. Fasting produces appreciation, and thus to thankfulness. The hole is lack of gratefulness for all that one has, not lack of something needed; although the first will lead to the second, eventually, if it is not addressed.
when you can be grateful for a stale fruitcake--or pick whatever is your least favorite food, in that analogy--the hole just disappears. Go spend a month in a cave and find joy in just being, even while cold and hungry, and then an evening in the hood or whatever, a roach motel, becomes relative paradise, see.
you become aware of all the things you are currently not appreciating