I appreciate the "in love" part!
My response should be received in the same spirit, even though I will disagree with you. My wish is not that you conform to my view, nor that I conform to your view, but rather, that we both conform to whatever Jesus' view is. I'm sure we can both agree on that!
There is no "time stamp" apart from your claim that there is one!
Yes, the 2nd Coming follows the "Great Tribulation," which is the historical punishment of Israel in the NT era. However, the AoD was the ancient Roman Army that came up against Jerusalem 66-70 AD. That is when the historical Jewish Punishment began. And that Punishment Jesus defined as an *exile.* The Jews have been exiled in what is called the "Jewish Diaspora" for nearly 2000 years! This is why it is called the "great" tribulation, or the "great distress." All 3 synoptic versions mention this, and all 3 synoptic versions focus on the fall of the temple as the event that precipitates this great Jewish punishment in history.
One of the 3 deadly sins is human pride. If you lay this aside, maybe you will see that I'm telling you the truth?
You're right that some would see the AoD, and Jesus indicated that it would be his Apostles who see this. Actually, he was referring to their *generation,* who would see this. Most of them would be martyred before that took place.
But Jesus did *not* say the same Apostles would see the 2nd Coming. Obviously, that's impossible!