Is it ever ok to lie?

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Is it ever ok to lie?


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One could answer 'no' truthfully if they believe Romans 2:28-29.

And no this specific dress doesn't make you look fat.

Depending on personality....
Honey who cares about the dress? We know you are fat and lucky me, I have more of you to love. :)
 
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Cristo Rei

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Holding? No.



What? I didn’t kill anyone.



What? I was killed for helping a Jew. Well, I wonder what Jesus would have to say about that.



All body’s shall die. Some sooner than others.

You were honest to the Nazi soldiers.
Now your dead along with the Jews you were protecting...:p
Hypothetically
 

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No, it's never Okay to Lie...

If it were ever Okay for Jesus to Lie, then it would be Okay to Lie. It was never Okay for Jesus to Lie...

Well iv debunked everyone else who has said that. I can't be bothered doing it again just look back on our posts.

The Nazi example is a great one. Your actions would see the death of innocent people at the hands of evil ones just because you thought it was right to be truthful
 

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Well iv debunked everyone else who has said that. I can't be bothered doing it again just look back on our posts.

The Nazi example is a great one. Your actions would see the death of innocent people at the hands of evil ones just because you thought it was right to be truthful
Are you a Christian? There is no one Good; no, not even one...
 

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We used to kick around the following example. Suppose you have Jewish friends over for dinner. A knock on the door reveals a German gestapo agent, looking for Jewish people. He asks, "Do you have any Jewish people here?" Do you tell the truth or do you lie?

The answer to the question, and the rationale for lying can be understood if we frame the question differently. Suppose he asked, "Will you help me kill the Jews by telling me where they are?" The obvious answer is "No, I do not wish to help you and participate in genocide." In this way, we understand that often times there is a hidden question behind a question and in order to tell the truth with regard to the hidden question, we are sometimes force to lie with regard to the explicit question. By saying, "No, there are no Jews living in this house," (which is false) I am also saying, "No, I do not want to help you commit genocide." (which is true.)

If a woman asks her husband, while he is watching TV, "does this dress make me look fat?" What is the hidden question? It might be, "are you willing to stop what you are doing in order to notice me?"

Maybe.

True.
Our (or my) first reaction is that it's never ok to lie.
Satan is the father of lies after all.
But the subject requires a bit more thought and you have provided some valid reasoning.
Thanks for sharing
 
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Cristo Rei

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Holding? No.



What? I didn’t kill anyone.



What? I was killed for helping a Jew. Well, I wonder what Jesus would have to say about that.



All body’s shall die. Some sooner than others.

Gestapo - We're killing all Jews. Are you hiding any in your house?

You - Yes in my basement

Result - Dead Jews and dead you for hiding them. Evil wins
 

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Given that all are created in God's image, I say yes. Even so, it's not about someone else's deserving or undeserving, but whether one tells the truth under any circumstance and trusts that God will be absolutely faithful and will work things out for His own glory, which... He will, as He always is/does.
Human life is meant to know truth and so every human person deserves to know it.
But God takes care of that in the end. That's why I qualified my statement with " always". In court we give an oath. Then I've given the court the right to know what I know. I may be morally obligated to communicate truth. Genocidal Nazis don't deserve to know what I know. My moral obligation is to the Jewish lives and I may be obligated to not just lie but kill the Nazi soldiers if that ability is in my tool box.
 

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not sure if it's okay to lie but
there are lies in the bible that is made righteous i still don't really get it
Revelation 12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him.

when you lie you decieve right?
for now i will just do what i can
and the bible teaches us all things
 

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No, it's never Okay to Lie...

If it were ever Okay for Jesus to Lie, then it would be Okay to Lie. It was never Okay for Jesus to Lie...

Jesus didn't inherit the limitations that death imposes on everyone else. Jesus had supernatural powers at His disposal.

Besides it was a difficult task, if possible even, to look Jesus in the eye and lie. You can't lie to someone able to know your thoughts.


Jesus knew a person's thoughts. That being so, when Jesus asked to know their thoughts it was to teach them not because He didn't know. Was Jesus using deception as a means to teach?
 

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One could answer 'no' truthfully if they believe Romans 2:28-29.

And no this specific dress doesn't make you look fat.
I don't understand. Can you help me? What do you mean to say as it concerns the Romans passage?
 

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Jesus didn't inherit the limitations that death imposes on everyone else. Jesus had supernatural powers at His disposal.

Besides it was a difficult task, if possible even, to look Jesus in the eye and lie. You can't lie to someone able to know your thoughts.


Jesus knew a person's thoughts. That being so, when Jesus asked to know their thoughts it was to teach them not because He didn't know. Was Jesus using deception as a means to teach?
If Jesus didn't inherit the limitations that Death imposes on everyone; then how did he die? I'm not trying to change the subject, but I think it's important to remember that according to the Chalcedonian Creed, Jesus is %100 Human. As a Human Being, it was never okay for Jesus to Lie, and as Human Beings, it is never okay for us to Lie...
 

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I don't understand. Can you help me? What do you mean to say as it concerns the Romans passage?
That you wouldn't have to lie to the Nazi, as a jew in their mind isn't a jew in yours.
 

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Gestapo - We're killing all Jews. Are you hiding any in your house?

You - Yes in my basement

Result - Dead Jews and dead you for hiding them. Evil wins

All body’s will die.
Better to save ones soul forever, than worry about their body.
 

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Human life is meant to know truth and so every human person deserves to know it.
Well, there is meant to be no lying, as is the case with all sin, and will someday once again be as such. When Jesus comes back, all will be set to right, never to be set wrong again.

Genocidal Nazis don't deserve to know what I know.
I say they do, because it is not ours to sit in judgment of anyone.

My moral obligation is to the Jewish lives and I may be obligated to not just lie but kill the Nazi soldiers if that ability is in my tool box.
Your obligation is not to do what God commanded us not to do.

Grace and peace to you.
 

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say they do, because it is not ours to sit in judgement
Then they deserve to know what they are and the iconic legacy of evil they will leave behind.

Well, there is meant to be no lying, as is the case with all sin, and will someday once again be as such. When Jesus comes back, all will be set to right, never to be set wrong again.
True. Lying would not be able to happen because nothing is hidden before sin. Unfallen human life with nothing to hide possessed the ' internal gaze'. Jesus could see what a person was made of because of the internal gaze'. Part and parcel to life before sin.


Your obligation is not to do what God commanded us not to do.
Not being willing to give my life for my neighbor is a sin.
 

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Is it ever ok to lie?

Some people think so.
The Brit TV "historian" Dan Snow said he told his two young daughters that there were British female combat pilots in WW2, which of course is a lie.
He rightly drew lots of flak from people who said "How can we ever believe anything he says ever again?"
His lame excuse for lying to his daughters was to make them believe women can be anything they want to be.

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Some people think so.
The Brit TV "historian" Dan Snow said he told his two young daughters that there were British female combat pilots in WW2, which of course is a lie.
He rightly drew lots of flak from people who said "How can we ever believe anything he says ever again?"
His lame excuse for lying to his daughters was to make them believe women can be anything they want to be.

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I think our first instinct is that it's never ok to lie but if you go through the thread you will find examples where maybe it's not so bad to lie.

The famous example was this.
Say your protecting a family of Jews in WW2 and the Nazis knock on your door asking if you've seen any Jews. Do you lie? If not they will kill the Jews and you for protecting them

Does evil deserve to know the truth?
It's another tricky topic, there is more to it than meets the eye