My agnostic friend says: "I don't need it." - How would you respond?

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Lambano

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It's against the bible to be friends with unbelievers and the Holy Spirit told me that this yr, but you can help unbelievers if they're willing to listen to you and be there for them in that way because you care. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers for what does light have to do with darkness." God said that for a reason. They can pull you down.
9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people—10 not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. (1 Corinthians 5:9-10)​
 
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Thanks for your post and that link, I'll check it out.
Tell me what you think about this.

It seems to me that ultimately there is no leak-proof rational apologetic for the existence of God.
Reason being, it requires faith to come to God. If it was subjective truth, there would be no other reasonable option.

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Depends on what one accepts as evidence!
The fact that nothing comes from nothing is in itself proof of a creator.
 

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Depends on what one accepts as evidence!
The fact that nothing comes from nothing is in itself proof of a creator.
It's just not direct evidence like saying "Here I am!"
It's indirect evidence pointing to it. Something "like this world" has to come from a God/creator.
If a television was put in your living room but you didn't put it, it must've been someone else who did it!:)
 

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It's against the bible to be friends with unbelievers and the Holy Spirit told me that this yr, but you can help unbelievers if they're willing to listen to you and be there for them in that way because you care. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers for what does light have to do with darkness." God said that for a reason. They can pull you down.
Sorry @St. SteVen, you put a sad smiley on my post, what r u sad about?
 
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It's against the bible to be friends with unbelievers and the Holy Spirit told me that this yr, but you can help unbelievers if they're willing to listen to you and be there for them in that way because you care. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers for what does light have to do with darkness." God said that for a reason. They can pull you down.
Did you read the OP (opening post) or only the topic title?

Should I tell this friend of 35+ years that we are through being friends because the Bible tells me so?
I was Best Man at his wedding a month ago. He's better than any Christian friend I have ever had.
The rest of the story is in the OP.

Matthew 9:10-17 NIV
While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate with him and his disciples.
11 When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?”
12 On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.
13 But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’[a] For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”

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Depends on what one accepts as evidence!
The fact that nothing comes from nothing is in itself proof of a creator.
Agree. I know my friend shrugs that one off. He looks to science for answers.
I checked out a couple of those articles yesterday. Thanks again.
I couldn't understand the Mathematics one, but the GHZ and CHZ one was fascinating.
That might serve useful.

- The unexpected applicability of mathematics to nature

- Galactic habitable zones and circumstellar habitable zones



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Hold on @St. SteVen, I want to discuss that Scripture I quoted more clearly or thoroughly on the forum.
I hope you read the OP as well.

Here's a question for you.
What did Jesus mean when he said he would build his church and the gates of hell would not prevail against it?
Does that mean we should keep to ourselves?

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An Agnostic is different from an atheist. Among atheists there are strong atheists,those who are certain no thing like a god exists due to lack of evidence. While weak atheists,so called,are much like A gnostics. They don't believe there to be a god however,they are open to proof there is.

For the OP question,why argue with the Agnostic? When life isn't providing proof of a power higher than their consciousness,what means is available to convince them? Only God calls them out of their autotheism. (seeing self as god)
 
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I'd say that pretty much shows where you are at.

It's a BIG mistake to make people projects. And then abandon them when you don't get what you want.

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Yes i came to totally understand where he was at after many years, that their was no hope for him at all in fact.
I had been wasting my time with him totally ! It's called casting pearls before swines.
I know exactly were he is coming from and it has totally got nothing to do with Christ Jesus at all in fact period !
His religious turn around ? if you could call it that, in support for Christians now has nothing at all to do with Christ Jesus i can assure you of that and his blind prejudice hatred for Islam is pathetic, for he does not truly have a handle on what it truly is at all, but for the obvious ? that threatens moronic weak minded people like himself ? but when it comes down to reality he is just shadow boxing and people like him are totally useless in taking on Islam in fact ! For he does not truly know his enemy in fact, and he is like a 5yo who will get in the ring with a master, he does not stand a chance at all ! as he thinks his aggression will win out.

Look i know this dude Mick form 1971 and he is a totally carnal person and totally oblivious to the Holy Spirit in fact, just as that stupid woman my mates dad was on about, for it's people like that that drive people out of the church in droves in fact, for they make it hell to go and endure their disgusting display of false piety ! and stupid rants that are devoid of the Holy Spirit totally.

The thing with him is that there is no point in trying to converse with him on any subject in depth because he will not pick up ? but only come from another stupid pathetic angle and claim that, that's were i am coming from ? it's like talking to a total moron !
So if i said white he will say i said black basically.

When he comes saying his support for Christianity now, it's just pathetic dribble, as he has just chosen a side ! that's all now, and you know why that is, it's because he sees Christianity as something that he can walk all over, because he sees such, as weak minded stupid moronic foolish people that he can manipulate in fact, but he knows that he can not dominate over Islam like that. so he fears Islam but sees Christianity as not a threat to his pursuits, as he is a far right radical extremist who's only interest is to rip off everyone he can period for himself, that's typical of Builders, for they work so as to undermine everyone totally 24/7
The only thing he sees regarding Christians is opportunity to kick them around because he despises them in fact !

I have seen him rip people off 24/7 because they trusted him, his workers and people who got him to build a house etc put trust in him in good faith ? but No ! it comes down to the Law ? He is a business man ? and if he can get away with anything he will try every trick in the book come hell or high water and if one trust him, he totally has no regard for such people at all and totally despises them for such, he looks down on such people totally 100% with so much hatred, i have seen him in a total 100% rage because someone trusted him regarding a business dealing.

So i believe that when people get caught in such a trap regarding business over the years they become a person with no moral fiber what so ever and they just become a walking lie dispenser 24/7 because that's all that they do all day long. i have seen many of them turn into much ! No regards to wife of family at all ! it's all about number one !
 

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For the OP question,why argue with the Agnostic? When life isn't providing proof of a power higher than their consciousness,what means is available to convince them? Only God calls them out of their autotheism. (seeing self as god)
From my discussion (not arguing) today with my friend, I talked about the importance of personal revelation as the best evidence.
Personal revelation, as in how God reveals himself to each individual.

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It's against the bible to be friends with unbelievers and the Holy Spirit told me that this yr, but you can help unbelievers if they're willing to listen to you and be there for them in that way because you care. "Do not be yoked with unbelievers for what does light have to do with darkness." God said that for a reason. They can pull you down.
Totally !

For they only work so as to tempt you into the path of Sin.

Most Godless people believe that Christians are only such as a goody two shoes idiot ? so they will spend all their time working to provoke one, so they can try and claim the upper hand.
Then they will say, See goody two shoes is just as carnal as them ?
We have played the moron with such and such got angered just the same as any idiot will ? but ! The thing is they lack Grace ! for they are bastards in fact for they do not have Christ Jesus within them and they are Lost like a Brat ! for they have no life within them that is worthy of God ! for they are Slaves to Sin, their world is full of delusions and deceptions ! but one who is born again has life in abundance for you are Saved. So the Kingdom of God is yours.
 

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Hold on @St. SteVen, I want to discuss that Scripture I quoted more clearly or thoroughly on the forum.

Still holding my breath.

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It's right here: The Lord's Pearl's New Thread

(Ms. Lord's Pearl has not yet learned to shamelessly promote her own threads.)
 
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General report from my "sinful" get-together with my friend yesterday.
Things pretty well continued in our usual vein of mixed discussion, including spiritual things.

We talked about the CHZ and the GHZ.
I didn't press the point just wanted to see where he was at with it.
I also talked about the importance of personal revelation as the best evidence.
Personal revelation, as in how God reveals himself to each individual.

Toward the end of our day together I was asking God when we would have meaningful discussion.
What I heard was, "This is it." This happened during the discussion about a personal revelation of God.
He then shared with me the revelation that his wife had. (one of them) So, he totally gets it.

I suppose we need to pray that God gives him that personal revelation.

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Religion is frightening.

The concept of God is terrifying.

The idea of Someone knowing every thought in your head and emotion in your heart who will someday hold you accountable for every choice you make and judge you accordingly can be paralyzing.

There is a reason I never try to convert anyone.

Its too much responsibility for me, unless I feel strongly called to do it.

(Which I do not)
 
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Religion is frightening.

The concept of God is terrifying.

The idea of Someone knowing every thought in your head and emotion in your heart who will someday hold you accountable for every choice you make and judge you accordingly can be paralyzing.

There is a reason I never try to convert anyone.

Its too much responsibility for me, unless I feel strongly called to do it.

(Which I do not)
Very interesting post.
You make some good points.

Were you raised in the church?
How did you arrive at your current view?

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