Homosexuality: Wrong or Right?

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David in NJ

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I wasn't aware he had claimed to have had a child who had gone astray like that.
I do not automatically grant that he is telling the truth about that--that can be a tactic he is using to try get people to feel mercy toward, entertain, his lies when there is no warrant for it--but, certainly, if it really is the case that he has a child who has been deceived by satan, it cannot help his child for him to be equivocating with God's Word on the matter.

@Arthur81 If it really is true your child has erred in this way, your best bet is to tell her or him the truth in love--NOT to equivocate. I highly recommend the materials of Dr. Robert A.J. Gagnon and Dr. Michael L. Brown.
The natural inclination of a parent is to try and advocate for their child.

The LORD Jesus does this for us = Daily

YES, i fully agree that we must warn our children of the consequences of not responding to the Gospel and to turn away from sin.

God is very Gracious with us = LOOK here = Hebrews 12:1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses,
let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.
And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,
 

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The natural inclination of a parent is to try and advocate for their child.

The LORD Jesus does this for us = Daily

YES, i fully agree that we must warn our children of the consequences of not responding to the Gospel and to turn away from sin.

God is very Gracious with us = LOOK here = Hebrews 12:1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses,
let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.
And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,
From my own life, I know God is patient.
God knows when we are confused.
That said, Paul "brought the fire" SO AS TO SAVE lost souls, so as to FORCE them to repent (1 Co 5).
That is the Christianity I believe in.

God has subjected me to horrifying circumstances to make me see what I could not see otherwise.
 
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From my own life, I know God is patient.
God knows when we are confused.
That said, Paul "brought the fire" SO AS TO SAVE lost souls, so as to FORCE them to repent (1 Co 5).
That is the Christianity I believe in.

God has subjected me to terrible circumstances to make me see what I could not see otherwise.
OK my Brother = Peace to You and thank you for your encouragement

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1 Corinthians 5
1It is actually reported that there is immorality among you, and immorality of such a kind as does not exist even among the Gentiles, that someone has his father’s wife. 2You have become arrogant and have not mourned instead, so that the one who had done this deed would be removed from your midst.
3For I, on my part, though absent in body but present in spirit, have already judged him who has so committed this, as though I were present. 4In the name of our Lord Jesus, when you are assembled, and I with you in spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus, 5I have decided to deliver such a one to Satan for the destruction of his flesh, so that his spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
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9I wrote you in my letter not to associate with immoral people; 10I did not at all mean with the immoral people of this world, or with the covetous and swindlers, or with idolaters, for then you would have to go out of the world. 11But actually, I wrote to you not to associate with any so-called brother if he is an immoral person, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or a swindler—not even to eat with such a one. 12For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Do you not judge those who are within the church? 13But those who are outside, God judges. REMOVE THE WICKED MAN FROM AMONG YOURSELVES.

1 Corinthians 11
27Therefore whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord. 28But a man must examine himself, and in so doing he is to eat of the bread and drink of the cup. 29For he who eats and drinks, eats and drinks judgment to himself if he does not judge the body rightly. 30For this reason many among you are weak and sick, and a number [the Lord has put to death].


Souls are on the line. Arthur's "gangrene" cannot be permitted to spread. His error must be utterly and completely destroyed.

Arthur knows his error. When we deal with him according to God's Word, that is the only way he will draw nearer to the Lord. There can be no mercy on the devil's words.

I cut up a member named TinMan pretty good a while back. He(I think?) was extremely militant about LGBT advocacy. He's gone now. I'm not sure I was able to help him. He even had a username that was LGBT-themed. There was a lot of suspicion raised that he was a trained infiltrator. He showed no interest in God or the Bible (except for the usual weoponized quotes) but had registered as a Christian. He really got my goat but I hope and pray he makes it.

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PRAY for one another!

You SEE my posts.
i do not yield to this false love of embracing everyone's viewpoints = just as yourself, to which i am grateful for you!

Arthur did yield to us his sorrow/suffering as a parent to which i can say 'I KNOW'.

You can lift UP my (adult) children as well where only 2 have committed themselves to Salvation.
My wife and i are in prayer daily for the other four, hoping and praying that God will save them as HE did for us.

Peace to You my Brother and remember that our prayers can make the difference for Eternity.

The natural inclination of a parent is to try and advocate for their child.

The LORD Jesus does this for us = Daily

YES, i fully agree that we must warn our children of the consequences of not responding to the Gospel and to turn away from sin.

God is very Gracious with us = LOOK here = Hebrews 12:1

Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses,
let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles.
And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us,

Good stuff, Dave. You really hit it outta the park sometimes. Love you, Brother.

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We just don't agree on this, Arthur, and you probably already know that so I'll spare you the details. :)



This is probably the most important thing (to me) for me to respond to.

I think Jesus was trying to express, most likely entirely in hyperbole, that folks should go the extra, extra mile to separate themselves from sin in a way that I'm afraid this generation is largely unwilling to do.



Can't argue with that.



Well, I've had to deal with this in my own immediate family, successfully by the grace and to the glory of God, and not once did it even cross my mind that my only son would be better off without testicles. It wasn't an easy time, and I know that it's much harder for some, but I think it is a grave mistake to buy into the popular notion that issues involving sex and gender are too sensitive to be addressed aggressively. Much of the aggression will have to be expended in prayer (which few are apt to do) and sometimes the outcome will be negative and often protracted over a long period of anguish for all parties involved. I'm not in a habit of appealing to people to struggle against things with which I cannot emphasize.

It is very common today for people to portray that the struggle of LGBT folks is too severe to be upset in any way. I truly believe we do a great disservice to the Spirit of God, and the divine Son who bore a constant struggle against evil that none of us could ever imagine when we adopt such a policy—especially since it is born out of a school of sociology and psychology that takes into account only the faceless entities of the oppressed vs. the oppressors that knows not God.



We have shared with each other before that we do not use the same basic hermeneutical principles. No need to belabor that point, I guess.



I believe that there is absolutely no excuse for sin—ever. Having said that, I might have sinned a thousand times today, even if only by omission. I do not think that if we had a long sit-down about it you would find me compatible with folks who teach what I believe you mean by "sinless perfection."



I don't know of a Biblical way to exclusive immunity to sexual sin.



I don't believe in sexual orientation at all, at least, as it is framed in postmodern science. Long conversation.



I'm not a stickler for context to the extent that many neo-Gnostsics are, but I honestly can't see how this text is applicable to the plight of one who is tempted exceedingly to sins of perversion, or any other sin, for that matter.

As a matter of transparency, I should admit that I do believe sexual immorality of any kind is especially heinous to God, hopefully not because of any Cold War, moralist-for-moralist's-sake baggage I may be toting around, but because the family unit in all of its dimensions is closely tied to the relationship between Christ and His church, and that of the Father, Son, and Spirit (apologies if this treads too close to a prohibited subject). The concept of "knowledge" as intimacy is something I believe God to be very serious about preserving, touching as it does the very plan of redemption with the image of God being restored in man.

I hope my response hasn't seemed unnecessarily antagonistic.

Thanks, again, for your thoughtful appeal. :hearteyes:

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Barney, I appreciate your thoughts on this, expressed in clear writing. I've been tied up some, but I am going to reply to a couple of your points soon. I do appreciate how you approached this. On intimate knowledge, I too have had close experience with males of homosexual orientation, within the church with a friend, and also in the extended family. So I have have great need to study this difficult topic from scripture also. I did not your reply was "antagonistic". :hearteyes:
 

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Barney, I appreciate your thoughts on this, expressed in clear writing. I've been tied up some, but I am going to reply to a couple of your points soon. I do appreciate how you approached this. On intimate knowledge, I too have had close experience with males of homosexual orientation, within the church with a friend, and also in the extended family. So I have have great need to study this difficult topic from scripture also. I did not your reply was "antagonistic". :hearteyes:

Take all the time you need, my friend. Hope you are doing well. :hearteyes:

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I also would not watch a video from scientists who claim the universe is 13.8 billion years old.
I agree with you that modern science isn't perfect. Scientists are basically forced to follow the status quo and anyone who questions it is banished as a crazy whose work is no longer worth the paper that it's written on, until enough findings come out that prove that the mainsteam belief, that you previously would've been mocked for questioning, was wrong:


However, I don't think that is reason enough to dismiss all scientific findings. That said I didn't watch the video.
Harvard President Claudine Gay would be considered by some as a scholar. Not by me.
I agree, she's an antisemite, not a scholar, and she has disintegrated the prestige that Harvard spent centuries building.
 
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I also would not watch a video from scientists who claim the universe is 13.8 billion years old.

I subscribed to Curiosity Stream a couple of years back and then I cued up a video saying that we all came from fungus.

If that's so, I believe we are returning to our former state.

I wonder where the fungus came from?

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Take all the time you need, my friend. Hope you are doing well. :hearteyes:

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I learned in the past few days of an additional extended family member who is gay, and the following is the biblical presentation I am sending to both families involved. I only address the New Covenant verses that apply to the New Covenant believers, Christians. My notes are not new, but trying to assemble them in a reasonable size document took time, and I give them here for all in the thread to read, not just Barney.

Paul's date of writing the 3 books where he speaks of the sin of men going after men sexually:

1 Timothy, 64 AD; 1 Corinthians, 53-57 AD; Romans, 56 AD

Paul was not writing in a vacuum, his writings have a context of culture and history. The philosopher below was a young man when Paul was writing, and we see his observations in the times in which they lived. We NEVER use culture or history to contradict scripture, but it can give clarification and more detail to the biblical writings. No doubt Paul in all 3 books was referring to the same sort of men, and Dio Chrysostom living in Paul's day wrote of these same men as follows.

Dio Chrysostom (40-110 AD)
Sentences lifted from text numbered 133 through 152
"In dealing with brothel-keepers and their trade we must certainly betray no weakness as though something were to be said on both sides, but must sternly forbid them...Such men bring individuals together in union without love and intercourse without affection, and all for the sake of filthy lucre...For evils are never wont to remain as they are; they are ever active and advancing to greater wantonness if they meet no compelling check...Indeed, beginning with practices and habits that seem trivial and allowable, it acquires a strength and force that are uncontrollable, and no longer stops at anything...Now at this point we must assuredly remember that this adultery committed with outcasts, so evident in our midst and becoming so brazen and unchecked, is to a very great extent paving the way to hidden and secret assaults upon the chastity of women and boys of good family...The man whose appetite is insatiate in such things, when he finds there is no scarcity, no resistance, in this field, will have contempt for the easy conquest and scorn for a woman's love, as a thing too readily given — in fact, too utterly feminine — and will turn his assault against the male quarters, eager to befoul the youth who will very soon be magistrates and judges and generals, believing that in them he will find a kind of pleasure difficult and hard to procure. His state is like that of men who are addicted to drinking and wine-bibbing, who after long and steady drinking of unmixed wine, often lose their taste for it and create an artificial thirst by the stimulus of sweatings, salted foods, and condiments."

"...and likewise also the men, leaving(RSV 'gave up'; YLT 'having left'; 'have forsaken' Williams NT) the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust(RSV/NRSV 'were consumed with passion') one toward another, men with men working unseemliness, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was due." (Rom 1:27 ASV)*The Greek reads "males" in place of "men" in all 3 places, with emphasis on sex.

Notice, where Paul said these males were "consumed in lust", Dio Chrysostom said their "appetite is insatiate"; and where Paul wrote that these males were "leaving" and "forsaking" the females, the philosopher said he "turns his assault against the male quarters", turning from females to males. The two Greek words Paul used in this verse for "burned" and "lust", are found only here in the NT. That indicates just how extreme these males were in their lust. How has the church historically understood this verse, when presented in detailed study:

St. John Chrysostom (347-407 AD) in his homily on this wrote on leaving "For the changing implies possession. Which also when discoursing upon the doctrines he said, They changed the truth of God for a lie. And with regard to the men again, he shows the same thing by saying, Leaving the natural use of the woman." and again on that particular lust - "For he does not say that they were enamoured of, and lusted after one another, but, they burned in their lust one toward another. You see that the whole of desire comes of an exorbitancy which endures not to abide within its proper limits."

St. John C. here points out the fact they were in man-woman relationships engaging in the 'created order' sexual conduct, and then because of the lust here described as "an exorbitancy" they left the females. It is clear that the wickedness here is the extreme lust that caused these males to leave women to go to men. This verse cannot be twisted to condemn simple sexual relations between two males; there has to be more to the story for it to be a sin.

The Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary published in 1871 reads on this verse with similar understanding: "Observe how, in the retributive judgment of God, vice is here seen consuming and exhausting itself. When the passions, scourged by violent and continued indulgence in natural vices, became impotent to yield the craved enjoyment, resort was had to artificial stimulants by the practice of unnatural and monstrous vices."

Here the JFB again emphasizes the extreme nature of their lust, "passions, scourged", then they left the females, and resorted to sex with other males instead of females. Their extreme lust is the sin in this passage and it is not about simple male to male sex. Paul writes again of these very same males, in 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10. There we find further description of the sin described, and the study will look at the word used in both verses, arsenokoites. The word "effeminate(malakos) found in 1 Cor. 6:9 will be examined after arsenokoites.

"Or know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with men(arsenokoites)," (1Cor 6:9 ASV)

"...for fornicators, for abusers of themselves with men(aresenokoites), for menstealers, for liars, for false swearers, and if there be any other thing contrary to the sound doctrine;" (1Tim 1:10 ASV)

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I learned in the past few days of an additional extended family member who is gay, and the following is the biblical presentation I am sending to both families involved. I only address the New Covenant verses that apply to the New Covenant believers, Christians. My notes are not new, but trying to assemble them in a reasonable size document took time, and I give them here for all in the thread to read, not just Barney.

Paul's date of writing the 3 books where he speaks of the sin of men going after men sexually:

1 Timothy, 64 AD; 1 Corinthians, 53-57 AD; Romans, 56 AD

Paul was not writing in a vacuum, his writings have a context of culture and history. The philosopher below was a young man when Paul was writing, and we see his observations in the times in which they lived. We NEVER use culture or history to contradict scripture, but it can give clarification and more detail to the biblical writings. No doubt Paul in all 3 books was referring to the same sort of men, and Dio Chrysostom living in Paul's day wrote of these same men as follows.

Dio Chrysostom (40-110 AD)
Sentences lifted from text numbered 133 through 152
"In dealing with brothel-keepers and their trade we must certainly betray no weakness as though something were to be said on both sides, but must sternly forbid them...Such men bring individuals together in union without love and intercourse without affection, and all for the sake of filthy lucre...For evils are never wont to remain as they are; they are ever active and advancing to greater wantonness if they meet no compelling check...Indeed, beginning with practices and habits that seem trivial and allowable, it acquires a strength and force that are uncontrollable, and no longer stops at anything...Now at this point we must assuredly remember that this adultery committed with outcasts, so evident in our midst and becoming so brazen and unchecked, is to a very great extent paving the way to hidden and secret assaults upon the chastity of women and boys of good family...The man whose appetite is insatiate in such things, when he finds there is no scarcity, no resistance, in this field, will have contempt for the easy conquest and scorn for a woman's love, as a thing too readily given — in fact, too utterly feminine — and will turn his assault against the male quarters, eager to befoul the youth who will very soon be magistrates and judges and generals, believing that in them he will find a kind of pleasure difficult and hard to procure. His state is like that of men who are addicted to drinking and wine-bibbing, who after long and steady drinking of unmixed wine, often lose their taste for it and create an artificial thirst by the stimulus of sweatings, salted foods, and condiments."

"...and likewise also the men, leaving(RSV 'gave up'; YLT 'having left'; 'have forsaken' Williams NT) the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust(RSV/NRSV 'were consumed with passion') one toward another, men with men working unseemliness, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was due." (Rom 1:27 ASV)*The Greek reads "males" in place of "men" in all 3 places, with emphasis on sex.

Notice, where Paul said these males were "consumed in lust", Dio Chrysostom said their "appetite is insatiate"; and where Paul wrote that these males were "leaving" and "forsaking" the females, the philosopher said he "turns his assault against the male quarters", turning from females to males. The two Greek words Paul used in this verse for "burned" and "lust", are found only here in the NT. That indicates just how extreme these males were in their lust. How has the church historically understood this verse, when presented in detailed study:

St. John Chrysostom (347-407 AD) in his homily on this wrote on leaving "For the changing implies possession. Which also when discoursing upon the doctrines he said, They changed the truth of God for a lie. And with regard to the men again, he shows the same thing by saying, Leaving the natural use of the woman." and again on that particular lust - "For he does not say that they were enamoured of, and lusted after one another, but, they burned in their lust one toward another. You see that the whole of desire comes of an exorbitancy which endures not to abide within its proper limits."

St. John C. here points out the fact they were in man-woman relationships engaging in the 'created order' sexual conduct, and then because of the lust here described as "an exorbitancy" they left the females. It is clear that the wickedness here is the extreme lust that caused these males to leave women to go to men. This verse cannot be twisted to condemn simple sexual relations between two males; there has to be more to the story for it to be a sin.

The Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Bible Commentary published in 1871 reads on this verse with similar understanding: "Observe how, in the retributive judgment of God, vice is here seen consuming and exhausting itself. When the passions, scourged by violent and continued indulgence in natural vices, became impotent to yield the craved enjoyment, resort was had to artificial stimulants by the practice of unnatural and monstrous vices."

Here the JFB again emphasizes the extreme nature of their lust, "passions, scourged", then they left the females, and resorted to sex with other males instead of females. Their extreme lust is the sin in this passage and it is not about simple male to male sex. Paul writes again of these very same males, in 1 Cor. 6:9 and 1 Tim. 1:10. There we find further description of the sin described, and the study will look at the word used in both verses, arsenokoites. The word "effeminate(malakos) found in 1 Cor. 6:9 will be examined after arsenokoites.

"Or know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with men(arsenokoites)," (1Cor 6:9 ASV)

"...for fornicators, for abusers of themselves with men(aresenokoites), for menstealers, for liars, for false swearers, and if there be any other thing contrary to the sound doctrine;" (1Tim 1:10 ASV)

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In years past, commentators on arsenokoites would refer back to Romans 1:27 or Sodom. Many today say Paul had the Greek wording of Lev. 18:22 in mind:

"And thou shalt not lie with a man as with a woman, for it is an abomination." (Lev 18:22 LXXE)

First, Paul gives exact quotes from Leviticus five times; so if Paul had two Greek words in Lev. 18:22 in mind, then he would have quoted the simple sentence. The Greek arsenokoites is a compound word arsen/male and koites/bed or sex. The word for "male" is used all through the NT, but the Greek koites Paul uses as the "marriage bed" in Heb. 13:4; for "conception" in Rom. 9:10; and then a very important usage in the vice list as follows:

"Let us walk becomingly, as in the day; not in revelling and drunkenness, not in chambering/koites and wantonness, not in strife and jealousy." (Rom 13:13 ASV)

That word "chambering" says it all; men frequenting prostitutes and/or loose women. It is promiscuity. Again, just as Dio Chrysostom described the males as I quoted earlier, frequenting the brothels and after the brothels were not satisfying the went after males. In 1 Tim. 1:10, Paul lists sins in categories so you get word association help on meaning. He uses arsenokoites between two important words as seen:

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