I will add this, and I will probably get crucified for saying it.
In your podcast, you said "God doesn't hate the wicked...no," but is this true? Sure, there are those who constantly seek to brainwash us into believing this while telling us, "God hates the sin, but loves the sinner," but, again, is this true?
From what I see in scripture, God hates both iniquity and the worker of iniquity.
For example, we read:
"But unto the Son he saith, Thy throne, O God, is for ever and ever: a sceptre of righteousness is the sceptre of thy kingdom. Thou hast loved righteousness, and hated iniquity; therefore God, even thy God, hath anointed thee with the oil of gladness above thy fellows." (Hebrews 1:8-9...quoting Psalm 45:6-7)
"The foolish shall not stand in thy sight: thou hatest all workers of iniquity." (Psalm 5:5)
In what we just read, we see that God hates both iniquity and all workers of iniquity.
Prior to salvation, we are "by nature the children of wrath" (Ephesian 2:3), and if we refuse to repent due to our "hardness and impenitent hearts," then we are "treasuring up unto ourselves wrath against the day of wrath and revelation of the righteous judgment of God, who will render to every man according to his deeds" (Romans 2:5-6).
In his mercy and grace, God has extended towards us a way of escape by sending his Son into the world to redeem us, but if we refuse his gracious offer, then his wrath continues to abide upon us.
"He that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life: and he that believeth not the Son shall not see life; but the wrath of God abideth on him." (John 3:36)
Because we don't see sinners the way that God sees them, as those who are "by nature the children of wrath," we have no urgency to see them saved through the preaching and receiving of the gospel.