Does the "husband of one wife" requirement mean that polygamy was common in the early church?

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There is the theological side and the history side of the concept of polygamy.

The scriptures never condemn polygamy and the Mosaic Law regulated it and Yahweh took credit for King David’s wives.

In the Hebrew culture it was considered a blessing of God to have many wives and children.
As I said Martin Luther said he could not condemn polygamy because the scriptures did not.
As it is now it is not a sin to have more than one wife but for Christians it is best to just have one.
But in that case...

Even Monogamy cannot teach as much as good children of God, and polygamy is more difficult.
 

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I read in the Koran that if you can't treat your wives with equal love, then you can't have many wives, I think this passage is about a person's honesty.

However, I found it very reasonable.

Think about Abraham,Even if he wanted to give equal love, his wife would not agree to the question of inheritance.
We must never use the book of darkness to try and make a point .
Remember muhammed was an anti christ who led billions over time to their own death .
There is only ONE GOD and ONLY ONE WAY TO THIS GOD , HIS name BE JESUS THE CHRIST the SON OF GOD.
SO lets never use the words from a book of darkness . Might make some think
its okay to be muslim . No sirs and no mams . And broken clocks are still right twice a day .
 

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We must never use the book of darkness to try and make a point .
Remember muhammed was an anti christ who led billions over time to their own death .
There is only ONE GOD and ONLY ONE WAY TO THIS GOD , HIS name BE JESUS THE CHRIST the SON OF GOD.
SO lets never use the words from a book of darkness . Might make some think
its okay to be muslim . No sirs and no mams . And broken clocks are still right twice a day .
Go away from me, if you don't understand it, then stop talking about it.

Just as the Christian make something wrong, doesn't mean the Bible is wrong.
 

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We must never use the book of darkness to try and make a point .
Remember muhammed was an anti christ who led billions over time to their own death .
There is only ONE GOD and ONLY ONE WAY TO THIS GOD , HIS name BE JESUS THE CHRIST the SON OF GOD.
SO lets never use the words from a book of darkness . Might make some think
its okay to be muslim . No sirs and no mams . And broken clocks are still right twice a day .
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We must never use the book of darkness to try and make a point .
Remember muhammed was an anti christ who led billions over time to their own death .
There is only ONE GOD and ONLY ONE WAY TO THIS GOD , HIS name BE JESUS THE CHRIST the SON OF GOD.
SO lets never use the words from a book of darkness . Might make some think
its okay to be muslim . No sirs and no mams . And broken clocks are still right twice a day .
Did God treat Abraham's two sons differently?
God gave one child the Bible. Why can't he give another child another book?

Wouldn't it be OK if I said that God changed his face and used the same word to see if people really knew him?

I said this you will not understand and understand.Because your understanding comes from hearsay.

Religious matters never fully represent the content of the book.

Just as love others as yourself.
If, as the Koran says, if you cannot love your wife equally, you cannot have many wives.

God or the Bible or the Koran never gave people a standard answer, but let people think about it.
 
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Did God treat Abraham's two sons differently?
God gave one child the Bible. Why can't he give another child another book?

Wouldn't it be OK if I said that God changed his face and used the same word to see if people really knew him?

I said this you will not understand and understand.Because your understanding comes from hearsay.

Religious matters never fully represent the content of the book.
you all been brainwashed . the RELIGOIN OF ISLAM , muslims , THEY AINT ishmael .
Rather odd i see black ones , white ones , asian ones ,
You all been decieved by clever men who long ago went to work to merge these religoins .
AND EVEN IF THEY WERE
HELLO the flesh profits nothing
EVEN Jews who cried abraham is our father , Yet believed NOT JESUS the CHRIST the SON OF GOD
were told and warned .
THE MUSLIM religoin does not in any way serve teh same GOD we do .
They can holler all day WE BELIEVE MOSES
we beleive abraham . YEAH RIGHT
if they beleived MOSES , if they were truly OF abraham
THEY HAD DONE the works OF abraham . NOT DENIED JESUS CHRIST . YOu all are being heavily decieved .
I knew what you were up too when you mentioned the koran .
TRYING to plant that ol familar doubt and get us to see a lie . You will be held accountable TO GOD my friend .
LEST You repent of course . NO more talks about the koran unless you are exposing it .
 

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Did God treat Abraham's two sons differently?
God gave one child the Bible. Why can't he give another child another book?

Wouldn't it be OK if I said that God changed his face and used the same word to see if people really knew him?

I said this you will not understand and understand.Because your understanding comes from hearsay.

Religious matters never fully represent the content of the book.

Just as love others as yourself.
If, as the Koran says, if you cannot love your wife equally, you cannot have many wives.

God or the Bible or the Koran never gave people a standard answer, but let people think about it.
YOu must be kidding . YOU THINK GOD gave them that BOOK .
AS if the koran was a gift FROM GOD to them .
please , GOD aint in the business of preaching lies and denying JESUS is the SON of GOD .
you really have been heavily seduced by a lie . But i am here to do all i can
to pull you out of it
AND to keep it from spreading any father into this place .
 

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YOu must be kidding . YOU THINK GOD gave them that BOOK .
AS if the koran was a gift FROM GOD to them .
please , GOD aint in the business of preaching lies and denying JESUS is the SON of GOD .
you really have been heavily seduced by a lie . But i am here to do all i can
to pull you out of it
AND to keep it from spreading any father into this place .
Don't be so sure. Are you sure the Koran says what you describe?

If you can, you can ask God yourself one day:" do you have left only one Bible to the world."
 
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I find it interesting that people like to understand God's word in their own way, but the Bible makes things very clear, You can find the right answer even outside the Bible, maybe I should call it extracurricular reading,

God cannot be born by man, and God does not breed. God creates man, and God does not breed man. The Koran says so.


In the OT, God uses Israel defeats the enemy to teach us there is no other word/God. (The word was God,and the word with God.)

In the NT,God teaches us what these words are through Jesus Christ..

If you want to tell the word is God, then you also right.


If you want to tell God and Jesus are two different things, then you also right.

But the word never change, whatever you understand the word or not.

The word was God,and the word with God.
Now the word is Jesus Christ and God, and the word with Jesus Christ and God.
Jesus and father are one.

God is God.
Jesus Christ is Jesus Christ.

Father is father.
Son is son.

matthew 5:37
But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.

Father is not son.
 
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Don't be so sure. Are you sure the Koran says what you describe?

If you can, you can ask God yourself one day:" do you have left only one Bible to the world."
i have read , some of it . Beleive me IT AINT INSPIRED nor did to come OF GOD .
Its like me saying just cause budda could quoate truths
ALL of a sudden that means HE of GOD . Wrong .
ALL false religoins do have certain phrases in them that can be true
BUT THEY STILL FALSE .
I mean look around at even much of christendom . HOW many do you see
using the name OF JESUS and yet promoting another jesus .
SO lets not fall for the lies of men .
 

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Matthew 19:5
And God said, ‘That is why a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife. And the two people will become one.’

Trying to play the singular mention of wife into this topic as if that is the foundation for some imagined limitation placed upon all men, you're creating more problems than you're solving. What if the text had stated "wives" in that instance? Would you then claim that plural wives is then condoned?

This nonsense belief that Jesus made changes to the moral dynamics for marriage is nothing but a fabricated, false doctrine. If the text had been in the plural, I would also stand in opposition to someone using that as a defense for polygyny for all men. Either way, it's just plain wrong.

What matters is that which scripture shows to us. Had the Patriarchs, most of whom had plural wives, of our faith ever realized plural wives were a sin in any way or that it was against God's intent for ALL of mankind, they of all people would have known that and lived accordingly. That crap someone else quipped about God allegedly winking at that this alleged sin, they are the types who invent morality on the fly through their mean-spirited lives. They are of no consequence.

BTW
 

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when examples of many wives in scripture, things goes really bad like following false gods.

Actually, that is not entirely true. Gideon, who had MANY wives, we are not told one word about his having had issues as a result. The few who did have issues, such as Jacob marrying his wife's sister...well yeah, that is indeed going to result in trouble down the road for ANY man who seeks such.

So, please remain consistent with scripture rather than to swipe across it all with such a broad brush stroke until studying it for what is actually says.

BTW
 
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I remember hearing often how Paul was lucky he didn’t have a wife. yet the Spirit alive in Paul, that spoke in Paul had “one wife”. The body of Christ. “The husband of one wife” if we look at Romans 7 becomes not of the adulterous woman (no more) but of the free woman. How you can’t serve both. Mammon and God at the same time. Making “the husband of one wife” significant in are you rebuilding what was destroyed, or building up in edification fruit unto God. Proverbs speaks a lot of the woman who calls and tempts and perverts the way …in this example Paul could not persecute the body, and at the same time lift up what he once tore down. A double minded man has two wife’s? The wives of trying to please men, and at the same time referring to themselves as a bride whom (her heart) pleases God. The Unstable in all his ways, being tossed about.
 
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i have read , some of it . Beleive me IT AINT INSPIRED nor did to come OF GOD .
Its like me saying just cause budda could quoate truths
ALL of a sudden that means HE of GOD . Wrong .
ALL false religoins do have certain phrases in them that can be true
BUT THEY STILL FALSE .
I mean look around at even much of christendom . HOW many do you see
using the name OF JESUS and yet promoting another jesus .
SO lets not fall for the lies of men .
@amigo de christo
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i have read , some of it . Beleive me IT AINT INSPIRED nor did to come OF GOD .
Its like me saying just cause budda could quoate truths
ALL of a sudden that means HE of GOD . Wrong .
ALL false religoins do have certain phrases in them that can be true
BUT THEY STILL FALSE .
I mean look around at even much of christendom . HOW many do you see
using the name OF JESUS and yet promoting another jesus .
SO let’s not fall for the lies of men .
@amigo de christo
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you all been brainwashed . the RELIGOIN OF ISLAM , muslims , THEY AINT ishmael .
Rather odd i see black ones , white ones , asian ones ,
You all been decieved by clever men who long ago went to work to merge these religoins .
AND EVEN IF THEY WERE
HELLO the flesh profits nothing
EVEN Jews who cried abraham is our father , Yet believed NOT JESUS the CHRIST the SON OF GOD
were told and warned .
THE MUSLIM religoin does not in any way serve teh same GOD we do .
They can holler all day WE BELIEVE MOSES
we beleive abraham . YEAH RIGHT
if they beleived MOSES , if they were truly OF abraham
THEY HAD DONE the works OF abraham . NOT DENIED JESUS CHRIST . YOu all are being heavily decieved .
I knew what you were up too when you mentioned the koran .
TRYING to plant that ol familar doubt and get us to see a lie . You will be held accountable TO GOD my friend .
LEST You repent of course . NO more talks about the koran unless you are exposing it .
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Trying to play the singular mention of wife into this topic as if that is the foundation for some imagined limitation placed upon all men, you're creating more problems than you're solving. What if the text had stated "wives" in that instance? Would you then claim that plural wives is then condoned?

This nonsense belief that Jesus made changes to the moral dynamics for marriage is nothing but a fabricated, false doctrine. If the text had been in the plural, I would also stand in opposition to someone using that as a defense for polygyny for all men. Either way, it's just plain wrong.

What matters is that which scripture shows to us. Had the Patriarchs, most of whom had plural wives, of our faith ever realized plural wives were a sin in any way or that it was against God's intent for ALL of mankind, they of all people would have known that and lived accordingly. That crap someone else quipped about God allegedly winking at that this alleged sin, they are the types who invent morality on the fly through their mean-spirited lives. They are of no consequence.

BTW
IN case you have not noticed we got one trying to read from the koran .
Sure would like some help . This is the problem
FOLKS ignore the dire deadly stuff and go with its flow
yet bicker amongst themselves about the far lesser important things .
NOW on those f eet . THE KORAN Is of satan as is any other religoin .
I need help exposing this ecumincal whore and harlots lies which has certainly taken even most of christendom .
THE GOSPEL is under attack in favor of a love that preaches UNBELEIF , gives false religoins a pass and even says
THEY too serve the same GOD we do .
ANOTH ER GOSPEL is DEADLY SERIOUS and must FIRST be exposed , THEN return and say what you have to say about this other teaching .
 
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I remember hearing often how Paul was lucky he didn’t have a wife. yet the Spirit alive in Paul, that spoke in Paul had “one wife”. The body of Christ. “The husband of one wife” if we look at Romans 7 becomes not of the adulterous woman (no more) but of the free woman. How you can’t serve both. Mammon and God at the same time. Making “the husband of one wife” significant in are you rebuilding what was destroyed, or building up in edification fruit unto God. Proverbs speaks a lot of the woman who calls and tempts and perverts the way …in this example Paul could not persecute the body, and at the same time lift up what he once tore down. A double minded man has two wife’s? The wives of trying to please men, and at the same time referring to themselves as a bride whom (her heart) pleases God. The Unstable in all his ways, being tossed about.
Lesser importance as of now . WE got a koran preacher in the house .
I sure would like some help t rying to correct this person . OR do you beleive as they do . I SURE HOPE NOT
 
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I find it interesting that people like to understand God's word in their own way, but the Bible makes things very clear, You can find the right answer even outside the Bible, maybe I should call it extracurricular reading,

God cannot be born by man, and God does not breed. God creates man, and God does not breed man. The Koran says so.


In the OT, God uses Israel defeats the enemy to teach us there is no other word/God. (The word was God,and the word with God.)

In the NT,God teaches us what these words are through Jesus Christ..

If you want to tell the word is God, then you also right.


If you want to tell God and Jesus are two different things, then you also right.

But the word never change, whatever you understand the word or not.

The word was God,and the word with God.
Now the word is Jesus Christ, and the word with Jesus Christ.

God is God.
Jesus Christ is Jesus Christ.

Father is father.
Son is son.

matthew 5:37
But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil.

Father is not son.
Wanna hear something scary . When i was in the marine corps i read the book of satan
IT TOO could preach some truths , YOU GONNA TELL ME now that it is okay to read from that book .
THE KORAN is of the darkness as is any other religoius book in them false religions .
STOP , CEASE and dissest from you work now . Or prepare to reap what you sow too .
 
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