The love of God VS the wrath / fear of God. Guess which is the main doctrine in the Bible.
Psalm 111:10
10 The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom;
The most important doctrine in the NT: Hell Fire!
Your argument puts God’s love on one side and His wrath and fear on the other, as though the Bible makes us choose which truth gets to live and which one has to be buried. Scripture does no such thing.
God is love. “He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love” ~1 John 4:8. But that same God is holy, righteous, and just. “God is angry with the wicked every day” ~Psalm 7:11. The Bible does not blush at either truth, and neither should we.
The cross is where this false division dies.
At Calvary, God did not set aside His wrath to show love. He satisfied His justice through the death of His Son. “Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness” ~Romans 3:25. That word “propitiation” means wrath was dealt with. Not ignored. Not softened. Not explained away. Dealt with by blood.
That is why Romans says God is “just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus” ~Romans 3:26. Love did not cancel justice. Justice did not cancel love. Both met in Christ.
And the fear of the Lord is not some ugly Old Testament leftover that love came to erase. Scripture says, “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” ~Proverbs 9:10. If a man has no fear of God, he has not become spiritually mature. He has not even started where wisdom starts.
Jesus Himself said, “Fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell” ~Matthew 10:28. That was not Moses. That was not a prophet under the law. That was the Lord Jesus Christ.
So we had better be careful about preaching a love that Jesus never preached. The love of God is not sentimental permission to make peace with sin. The love of God sent the Son to save sinners from the wrath they deserve. “Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him” ~Romans 5:9.
That is the question Scripture presses on the conscience: saved from what?
If there is no wrath, the cross becomes theater. If there is no judgment, mercy becomes decoration. If there is no fear of the Lord, sinners will never tremble at His Word, never flee to Christ, and never understand why grace is amazing.
God’s love is real. God’s wrath is real. The fear of the Lord is right. And the gospel is the only place where guilty sinners can find mercy without God ceasing to be just.
So the issue is not whether love is important. The issue is whether we will let Scripture define God, or whether we will carve away the parts of God that make modern ears uncomfortable.