Nobody here is throwing out God's standards, except maybe some of the OSAS people.
What? You have invented almost all your standards...you know...calling things as you think they are...just like God does.
On the contrary, we affirm God's standards and know we can't possibly measure up to them in our own right and through our own efforts, apart from Him.
You claim to already have everything. That's why you continue to seek for them.
Forgiveness is being freed/loosed from the debt and dominion of sin. It is very much about freedom. You don't seem to understand forgiveness very well and even go so far as to say the cross is not about forgiveness.
Freedom to sin? No, the bible speaks of freedom FROM sin. So you got that wrong too. And the cross is about redemption of the whole world...and something to crucify the old sin nature with for believers.
It's like you are robbing the promises to the inner man to serve your corrupted nature. Instead realize what the power of the cross is for.It's as though you are robbing Peter to pay Paul (no pun intended). It is like you are robbing the foundations of the gospel in order to pay it all forward into the perfecting part of it, thus leaving no foundation behind.