Notice who is speaking in Mat 13:55 ... the words are spoken by unbelieving people in Nazareth who regarded Joseph as Jesus' biological father. Context is crucial.
Mark, pointing out that the crowd “regarded Joseph as Jesus’ biological father” doesn’t help your argument — it proves my point.
Matthew’s Gospel makes clear that Joseph is not Jesus’s biological father:
- Matthew 1:18, 20
- Luke 1: 34–35
- Luke 3:23
And if the crowd is mistaken about Joseph’s biological relationship to Jesus, then their statement cannot be treated as authoritative genealogical evidence about James, Joseph, Simon and Judas.
You can’t say:
- “The crowd believed Joseph was Jesus’s biological father,” even though Matthew says that belief is wrong,
- “The crowd must be correct about Jesus's brothers James, Joseph, Simon and Judas,”
That is not “context.”
That is selective acceptance based on the conclusion you want.
And nothing in the text requires “same womb.”
In biblical Greek, adelphos/adelphoi regularly includes cousins, nephews, and other male relatives. So the crowd could easily be using adelphoi ("brothers") in the ordinary Jewish sense of “kinsmen, or relatives” just as Scripture consistently does.
And you're discarding the verses that clarify the relationship of James, Joseph, Simon and Judas to Jesus (Matthew 27:56; Mark 15:40, 16:1; Luke 24:10; John 19:25), while fully accepting the verses that clarify Joseph’s relationship to Him (Matthew 1:18, 20; Luke 1: 34–35, 3:23). You can’t apply contextual correction to Joseph but forbid contextual correction to James, Joseph, Simon and Judas.
That is selective interpretation, not consistent exegesis.
Mary, the wife of Clopas and sister-in-law of Jesus's Mother, is explicitly named the mother of James and Joseph (Matthew 27:56; Mark 15:40; John 19:25) — two of the men named in Matthew 13:55. The earliest Christian writers affirm the same and add that Symeon (Simon) and Jude (Judas) are also her and Clopas's sons.
And you also agreed that Clopas is Joseph’s brother.
So you already accept:
- Clopas is Joseph’s brother
- Mary of Clopas is the mother of James and Joseph
- Early Christian testimony identifies Simon and Jude as their siblings
You’re accepting half of the genealogy and discarding the half that contradicts your conclusion.
There is no verse in Matthew's Gospel that uses adelphos as other than biological siblings or spiritual brethren.
That is demonstrably incorrect. Matthew’s Gospel frequently uses adelphos/adelphoi outside of strict biological siblings or spiritual brothers.
In biblical Greek, and within Matthew specifically, adelphos/adelphoi are used broadly for national kinship, close associations, and community:
- Fellow Countrymen / Kinsmen:
Jesus uses adelphos in Matthew 5:22–24 when He warns against being angry with your “brother.” In this context, adelphos refers to a fellow Israelite, neighbor, or countryman — not a biological sibling and not a modern “spiritual brother."
- Familial metaphor / redefined kinship:
Jesus uses adelphoi in Matthew 12:49–50 metaphorically to describe those who do the will of His Father — including His disciples — as His “brothers,” but in a family‑redefinition context.
- Community‑level kinship (disciples):
Jesus uses adelphoi in Matthew 23:8 to refer to His followers and students as “brothers,” expressing a community‑level kinship among His disciples.
- The Apostles:
Jesus uses adelphoi in Matthew 28:10 when He tells the women to go tell His brothers to go to Galilee, specifically referencing the apostles.
So why are you restricting adelphos/adelphoi to only “biological or spiritual brothers” within Matthew's Gospel when Matthew himself identifies James and Joseph — two of Jesus's adelphoi named in Matthew 13:55 — as sons of Mary of Clopas (Matthew 27:56), not Mary the mother of Jesus? And Mark (15:40; 16:1), Luke (24:10), John (19:25), and early Christian writers all confirm the same genealogy.
That is selective restriction, not consistent exegesis.
If you restrict adelphos to “biological or spiritual brothers only” in Matthew, you end up misreading Jesus’s teaching about ordinary interactions with fellow Israelites, neighbors, and the broader community. Matthew uses adelphos/adelphoi in multiple non‑biological senses, and the rigid rule you’re imposing simply isn’t in the text.