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And before you knock implicit Scriptural teaching

Your model falls far short of "implicit scriptural teaching" it is nothing more than wild-extrem-inference trying to eisegete mythology into the text that does not even remotely allow for your agenda-driven-inserts.


Finally – your moronic insistence that this is ONLY talking about evangelists is SQUASHED by the verses themselves.
Paul writes, “If ANY man” – not “Any evangelist”.

Sadly your insistence on not actually reading the chapter -- leaves your response fully debunked by the text itself. Your argument is "with the text" -- as usual.

2 I (Paul as evangelist) gave you milk to drink, not solid food; for you were not yet able to receive it. Indeed, even now you are not yet able, 3 for you are still fleshly. For since there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not fleshly, and are you not walking like mere men? 4 For when one says, “I am of Paul,”(Evangelist) and another, “I am of Apollos,” (an evangelist) are you not mere men?

5 What then is Apollos? (An evangelist) And what is Paul? (an evangelist). Servants (evangelists) through whom you believed, even as the Lord gave opportunity to each one. 6 I (as an evangelist) planted, Apollos (an evangelist) watered, but God was causing the growth. 7 So then neither the one (evangelist) who plants nor the one (evangelist) who waters is anything, but God who causes the growth. 8 Now he (the evangelist) who plants and he (another evangelist) who waters are one; but each (evangelist) will receive his (the evangelist's) own reward according to his own labor. 9 For we (Evangelists) are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.

10 According to the grace of God which was given to me, like a wise master builder I (As an evangelist) laid a foundation, and another (Evangelist) is building on it. But each man (each evangelist) must be careful how he builds on it. 11 For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. 12 Now if any man (evangelist) builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, 13 each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it because it is to be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work. 14 If any man’s work which he has built on it remains, he will receive a reward. 15 If any man’s work is burned up, he will suffer loss; but he (the evangelist) himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.
 
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Matt. 18:32-35 and Luke 12:58-59 are additional verses that support this doctrine.

None of them mention the death of the person or someone getting forgiveness after they die.

Details matter.

While it is true that toss the person into the torturer's prison - the lake of fire, the wages of sin, the judgment that casts into fiery hell -- occurs in after the "first death" and after the second resurrection of Rev 20... it is not true that we see there "forgiveness".

Interesting how ALL of your denials resound like the clanging nonsense of the Jehovah’s Witnesses and other pseudo-Christian sects.

Your "emotionalism" noted. But do you have an actual "fact" to respond with??

THEY say, “There is no Trinity because we don’t see that in Scripture!”

Which is what you do each time I point out that you are referencing texts that do not mention your hoped-for myth that the person is dead while they are being purified.

Why do you keep following their model?? Since you claim to know that doing that is wrong.

YOU say, “There is NO evidence to show that those being spoken of in 1 Cor. 3:12-15 are dead!”.

And all you have to do is show the text where it says they are dead.

“The DAY” being spoken of here shows us that they have DIED and are being judged.

No it does not - you simply inject extreme inference each time you "need it".
But the text with "the day" does not say "in the day the person is burned with fire" -- another one of the salient points in your own argument MISSING from the text. And then you pretend that "we are not supposed to notice".??

Does that little trick of yours have an end to it??

Do you believe that only LIVING people will be judged??

Certainly not - but the text does not say "on the day they are judged they are purified with fire" - and we all know it.

Hebrews 12:1 states explicitly that it is appointed for ALL to DIE once and after this the judgement.
READ your Bible . . .

No .. it does not.
Read your Bible.
Hebrews 9 says that -- and it does not say "after this comes the judgment where they are purified by fire" which is the salient point in your own argument - MISSING from the text (A text that you seem to be unaware of where it is located - oddly enough).

As for the “Fire” spoken of in 1 Cor. 3:12-15 – YOU keep stating that the person doesn’t suffer. Verse 15 says that he DOES suffer.

I keep saying that 1 Cor 3 - say the "WORK" is burned - and never says the PERSON is burned.
The "person" (who is an evangelist in the case of 1Cor 3) only suffers the loss of his WORK not lasting because as hay and stubble it his teaching is removed from the church.

Obviously.
YOU keep stating that the person is NOT burned.
Verse 15 says that he is saved – but only as THROUGH FIRE . . .

The fire that burned his WORK - his doctrine, his teaching, which is by that fire - removed from the church.

Obviously.
Your denials of the other verses I presented are equally-desperate. Because they implicitly teach that there is forgiveness for some sins AFTER death.

You quote a text saying "NO FORGIVENESS in the next life" -- to make your "THERE IS forgiveness in the next life"...

And we were simply "not supposed to notice"?? Seriously??
 

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None of them mention the death of the person or someone getting forgiveness after they die.

Details matter.

While it is true that toss the person into the torturer's prison - the lake of fire, the wages of sin, the judgment that casts into fiery hell -- occurs in after the "first death" and after the second resurrection of Rev 20... it is not true that we see there "forgiveness".

Which is what you do each time I point out that you are referencing texts that do not mention your hoped-for myth that the person is dead while they are being purified.
Define "death". You shift between spiritual death and physical death. Calvin was just as confused.

And all you have to do is show the text where it says they are dead.

Again, the same false dichotomy. Those in purgatory are (ultimately) saved. Their bodies died, but they are spiritually alive. They are not spiritually dead as you seem to insist. Those in hell are spiritually dead.

No it does not - you simply inject extreme inference each time you "need it".
But the text with "the day" does not say "in the day the person is burned with fire" -- another one of the salient points in your own argument MISSING from the text. And then you pretend that "we are not supposed to notice".??

Does that little trick of yours have an end to it??

The bulk of Newman’s extraordinary work is devoted to the exposition of a series of analogies, showing conclusively that the Protestant static conception of the Church (both historically and theologically) is incoherent and false. He argues, for example, that notions of suffering, or “vague forms of the doctrine of Purgatory,” were universally accepted, by and large, in the first four centuries of the Church, whereas, the same cannot be said for the doctrine of Original Sin, which is agreed upon by Protestants and Catholics.

Protestants falsely argue that Purgatory is a later corruption, but it was present early on and merely developed. Original Sin, however, was equally if not more so, subject to development. One cannot have it both ways. If Purgatory is unacceptable on grounds of its having undergone development, then Original Sin must be rejected with it. Contrariwise, if Original Sin is accepted notwithstanding its own development, then so must Purgatory be accepted.​
Development of Doctrine: A Corruption of Biblical Teaching?

Certainly not - but the text does not say "on the day they are judged they are purified with fire" - and we all know it.
Because you deny a final purification in 1 Corinthians 3, and we all know it.
No .. it does not.
Read your Bible.
Hebrews 9 says that -- and it does not say "after this comes the judgment where they are purified by fire" which is the salient point in your own argument - MISSING from the text (A text that you seem to be unaware of where it is located - oddly enough).
I keep saying that 1 Cor 3 - say the "WORK" is burned - and never says the PERSON is burned.
The "person" (who is an evangelist in the case of 1Cor 3) only suffers the loss of his WORK not lasting because as hay and stubble it his teaching is removed from the church.
But you keep saying nothing is burned. Now you say "WORK" is burned. Make up your mind.
Obviously.

The fire that burned his WORK - his doctrine, his teaching, which is by that fire - removed from the church.

Obviously.
What verse says that? Where does Paul separate works from the person? It looks to me like another one of your man made traditions.
You quote a text saying "NO FORGIVENESS in the next life" -- to make your "THERE IS forgiveness in the next life"...
It's very annoying when you quote people out of context.

Matt. 12:32 – Jesus says, “And anyone who says a word against the Son of man will be forgiven; but no one who speaks against the Holy Spirit will be forgiven either in this world or in the next.” Jesus thus clearly provides that there is forgiveness after death. The phrase “in the next” (from the Greek “en to mellonti”) generally refers to the afterlife (see, for example, Mark 10.30; Luke 18.30; 20.34-35; Eph. 1.21 for similar language). Forgiveness is not necessary in heaven, and there is no forgiveness in hell. This proves that there is another state after death, and the Church for 2,000 years has called this state purgatory.

in the next. But you don't like scriptural implications, you want explicit proof text for every doctrine, belief and practice. This policy is not in the Bible, it's a man made tradition.

And we were simply "not supposed to notice"?? Seriously??
I notice that every line in your post misrepresents BoL or the doctrine of purgatory...seriously.

The doctrine of purgatory originated, in primitive form, with Judaism. Why don't you go pick on them.
 
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You're welcome, Mary! I'd like to address a few of your points.

First, I never said that Calvin, my pastor nor the elder of my church "couldn't discern the truth of those 'main points' of scripture." I don't believe that. Twisting someone's words is a form of deception. This should concern you.

If people were killed for disagreeing with Calvin, that was WRONG! Nothing in the New Testament says that Christians should be killed for disagreeing with a church leader or the leader of a denomination.
Thank you PW. It does concern me that I may have misunderstood your statement. Could you please clarify this statement from you: "I completely disagreed with one of the main points of Calvinism. The pastor and I had several discussions about this in which I openly (and intensely, but respectfully) disagreed with him. I also openly disagreed with one of the elders of the church about this.."

What was that "main point of Calvinism" you completely, intensely but respectfully disagreed with them on?

Mary
 

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BobRyan said:
None of them mention the death of the person or someone getting forgiveness after they die.

Details matter.

While it is true that toss the person into the torturer's prison - the lake of fire, the wages of sin, the judgment that casts into fiery hell -- occurs in after the "first death" and after the second resurrection of Rev 20... it is not true that we see there "forgiveness".

note: each time I point out that you are referencing texts that do not mention your hoped-for myth that the person is dead while they are being purified.

Define "death". You shift between spiritual death and physical death.

No I don't. I consistently stay with physical death.

The point remains. Or do you have a solution for purgatory given the details?
 

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BreadOfLife said:
YOU say, “There is NO evidence to show that those being spoken of in 1 Cor. 3:12-15 are dead!”.

And all you have to do is show the text of 1Cor 3 where it says they are dead to make you case. And of course you cannot do that.

Again, the same false dichotomy. Those in purgatory are (ultimately) saved. Their bodies died,

You have inserted the statement you "need" to see in 1 Cor 3. There is no "their bodies died" in 1 Cor 3. There is no "the person is purified by fire while dead or while body is dead" in 1 Cor 3.

And what is more - the 1 Cor 3 text is only talking about evangelists. Context matters.

The point remains.
 

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“The DAY” being spoken of here shows us that they have DIED and are being judged.

No it does not - you simply inject extreme inference each time you "need it".
But the text with "the day" does not say "in the day the person is burned with fire" -- another one of the salient points in your own argument MISSING from the text. And then you pretend that "we are not supposed to notice".??

Does that little trick of yours have an end to it??

The bulk of Newman’s extraordinary work is devoted to the exposition of a series of analogies, showing conclusively that the Protestant static conception of the Church (both historically and theologically) is incoherent and false. He argues, for example, that notions of suffering, or “vague forms of the doctrine of Purgatory,” were universally accepted, by and large, in the first four centuries of the Church, whereas, the same cannot be said for the doctrine of Original Sin, which is agreed upon by Protestants and Catholics.​


Irrelevant - we are looking at the specific example of 1 Cor 3 given by Catholics to make the case for purgatory. It is either there or it is not. Period. Newman is not helping you find what you need in the the chapter given by Catholics as the Bible source for the doctrine.

The point remains.

Protestants falsely argue that Purgatory is a later corruption, but it was present early on and merely developed.

And in this case the Catholic suggestion is that "early on" is in 1Cor 3... so now "show it".

There's "the rub".
 

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Do you believe that only LIVING people will be judged??

Certainly not - but the text does not say "on the day they are judged they are purified with fire" - and we all know it.

Hebrews 12:1 states explicitly that it is appointed for ALL to DIE once and after this the judgement.
READ your Bible . . .

No .. it does not.
Read your Bible.
Hebrews 9 says that -- and it does not say "after this comes the judgment where they are purified by fire" which is the salient point in your own argument - MISSING from the text (A text that you seem to be unaware of where it is located - oddly enough).

As for the “Fire” spoken of in 1 Cor. 3:12-15 – YOU keep stating that the person doesn’t suffer. Verse 15 says that he DOES suffer.

I keep saying that 1 Cor 3 - say the "WORK" is burned - and never says the PERSON is burned.
The "person" (who is an evangelist in the case of 1Cor 3) only suffers the loss of his WORK not lasting because as hay and stubble it his teaching is removed from the church.

Obviously.
YOU keep stating that the person is NOT burned.
Verse 15 says that he is saved – but only as THROUGH FIRE . . .

The fire that burned his WORK - his doctrine, his teaching, which is by that fire - removed from the church.

But you keep saying nothing is burned. Now you say "WORK" is burned. Make up your mind.
What verse says that? Where does Paul separate works from the person? It looks to me like another one of your man made traditions.

I find your logic "illusive" just then.

1 Cor 3 - has the very distinction between the person (the evangelist) and his works (his teaching) that you are denying.

1 Cor 3
But each man must be careful how he builds on it. 11 For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. 12 Now if any man builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, 13 each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it because it is to be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work. 14 If any man’s work which he has built on it remains, he will receive a reward. 15 If any man’s work is burned up, he will suffer loss; but he himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.

The WORK is what is burned.
The MAN is never said to be dead.
The MAN is never said to be burned while dead.
The MAN is never said to be burned .. only his work/teaching/doctrine... hay, stubble, straw (details matter)
The "day" - vs "the night" - in the day it is revealed if the work is fluff or not. Hay, wood, stubble or gold. For each man's doctrine is teaching built on the foundation - which is Christ.

The is about evangelists - their WORK is their teaching and that teaching is built on the foundation of Christ. It has nothing to do with being dead and then "punished" as the RCC says about purgatory.

The point remains.
 

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1 Cor 3 burning of the works (the teaching) of the evangelist that builds with hay, wood, stubble, straw --

And before you knock implicit Scriptural teaching

Your model falls far short of "implicit scriptural teaching" it is nothing more than wild-extrem-inference trying to eisegete mythology into the text that does not even remotely allow for your agenda-driven-inserts.


Finally – your moronic insistence that this is ONLY talking about evangelists is SQUASHED by the verses themselves.
Paul writes, “If ANY man” – not “Any evangelist”.

Sadly your insistence on not actually reading the chapter -- leaves your response fully debunked by the text itself. Your argument is "with the text" -- as usual.

2 I (Paul as evangelist) gave you milk to drink, not solid food; for you were not yet able to receive it. Indeed, even now you are not yet able, 3 for you are still fleshly. For since there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not fleshly, and are you not walking like mere men? 4 For when one says, “I am of Paul,”(Evangelist) and another, “I am of Apollos,” (an evangelist) are you not mere men?

5 What then is Apollos? (An evangelist) And what is Paul? (an evangelist). Servants (evangelists) through whom you believed, even as the Lord gave opportunity to each one. 6 I (as an evangelist) planted, Apollos (an evangelist) watered, but God was causing the growth. 7 So then neither the one (evangelist) who plants nor the one (evangelist) who waters is anything, but God who causes the growth. 8 Now he (the evangelist) who plants and he (another evangelist) who waters are one; but each (evangelist) will receive his (the evangelist's) own reward according to his own labor. 9 For we (Evangelists) are God’s fellow workers; you are God’s field, God’s building.

10 According to the grace of God which was given to me, like a wise master builder I (As an evangelist) laid a foundation, and another (Evangelist) is building on it. But each man (each evangelist) must be careful how he builds on it. 11 For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ. 12 Now if any man (evangelist) builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw, 13 each man’s work will become evident; for the day will show it because it is to be revealed with fire, and the fire itself will test the quality of each man’s work. 14 If any man’s work which he has built on it remains, he will receive a reward. 15 If any man’s work is burned up, he will suffer loss; but he (the evangelist) himself will be saved, yet so as through fire.
 

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Thank you PW. It does concern me that I may have misunderstood your statement. Could you please clarify this statement from you: "I completely disagreed with one of the main points of Calvinism. The pastor and I had several discussions about this in which I openly (and intensely, but respectfully) disagreed with him. I also openly disagreed with one of the elders of the church about this.."

What was that "main point of Calvinism" you completely, intensely but respectfully disagreed with them on?

Mary
There's a difference, Mary, between misunderstanding and misrepresenting. You seem like a somewhat logical person. So, to change what I said was misrepresenting what I said. This is dishonest if it's done intentionally.

As far as the point of Calvinism I disagreed about (and still do), do you understand the 5 main points of Calvinism?
 

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There's a difference, Mary, between misunderstanding and misrepresenting. You seem like a somewhat logical person. So, to change what I said was misrepresenting what I said. This is dishonest if it's done intentionally.

As far as the point of Calvinism I disagreed about (and still do), do you understand the 5 main points of Calvinism?
What was that "main point of Calvinism" you completely, intensely but respectfully disagreed with them on?

Mary
 

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I guess you didn't see my question. Do you understand the 5 main points of Calvinism?
I did see your question. However, me understanding the 5 main points of Calvinism has NOTHING to do with WHAT main point YOU completely and intensely disagree with.....;)

I might owe you an apology. You may have answered my question, which I somehow overlooked, in post #639 when you said this:
Calvin, my pastor, and the elder of my church were emphasizing one side of SCRIPTURAL doctrine. They didn't make up the scriptural doctrine of predestination..... They stressed that aspect of doctrine over free will, which is also a SCRIPTURAL doctrine..... I believe that when it comes to salvation, Jesus chooses us AND we choose Him (by grace though faith).

Is that the main point you are talking about?

Mary

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This is why we need the Holy Spirit to guide us into all truth (John 16:13). We are not to make up our own doctrine (as the Catholic Church has done) just based on what makes sense to the human mind. We HAVE to stick with the Bible, period! Every teacher WILL be held accountable for what he/she teaches--as to whether they teach the truth. In fact, James 3:1 says that teachers will be judged more harshly.
Hi PW.

It appears to me that you are saying the Holy Spirit has guided you to the Truth? That the Catholic Church has 'made up' doctrine based on what makes sense to the human mind and they have not based their doctrine on what the Bible says? Your doctrine and your Truth is biblically based? Am I understanding you correctly? :)

If we are to stick with "the Bible" which bible are you sticking with? The one with 66 books or 73 books?

Mary
 

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I did see your question. However, me understanding the 5 main points of Calvinism has NOTHING to do with WHAT main point YOU completely and intensely disagree with.....;)

I might owe you an apology. You may have answered my question, which I somehow overlooked, in post #639 when you said this:
Calvin, my pastor, and the elder of my church were emphasizing one side of SCRIPTURAL doctrine. They didn't make up the scriptural doctrine of predestination..... They stressed that aspect of doctrine over free will, which is also a SCRIPTURAL doctrine..... I believe that when it comes to salvation, Jesus chooses us AND we choose Him (by grace though faith).

Is that the main point you are talking about?

Mary

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Well, obviously, you're trying to make a point concerning my beliefs about Calvinism, so your understanding of the topic makes a difference in how I answer your question. BoL has repeatedly accused the "anti-Catholics" on this thread of being ignorant of Catholic doctrine, so I'm asking you if you understand Calvinist doctrine. Calvinists stressing predestination over free will is more or less one of the main points, but it's not the main point I disagree with.

So, just what's the bottom line in your questioning? IOW, get to the point.
 

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Let's be clear about this, the Catholic Church doesn't simply follow scripture. They follow the unwritten "traditions" and whatever the pope says ex cathedra (among other sources). If you've been reading the article I've been posting, you can see that popes throughout the history of the church have contradicted themselves and other popes. This has happened MANY times for hundreds of years. It's clear that the Catholic Church is the one that makes up doctrine and follows the whims of men!
HI PW.

Are you married? Do you have children? Which bible do you read from: 66 or 73?

Did you know Popes are human? Just because they contradict each other doesn't mean The Churches doctrine is contradictory. I thought you had a good working knowledge of The Church?

Mary
 

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Hi PW.

It appears to me that you are saying the Holy Spirit has guided you to the Truth? That the Catholic Church has 'made up' doctrine based on what makes sense to the human mind and they have not based their doctrine on what the Bible says? Your doctrine and your Truth is biblically based? Am I understanding you correctly? :)

If we are to stick with "the Bible" which bible are you sticking with? The one with 66 books or 73 books?

Mary

The Holy Spirit guides us into all truth when that's what we are seeking. If we're only willing to interpret the Bible through the lens of a particular church or denomination, then we will miss the "all" or whole truth.

Have you been a Catholic all of your life?
 
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HI PW.

Are you married? Do you have children? Which bible do you read from: 66 or 73?

Did you know Popes are human? Just because they contradict each other doesn't mean The Churches doctrine is contradictory. I thought you had a good working knowledge of The Church?

Mary
I agree that popes are human, but the Catholic Church says that they are infallible when it comes to matters of doctrine. How can they be infallible and blatantly contradict one another in matters of doctrine? The Bible is the infallible Word of God. Despite what some anti-Christians say, it doesn't contradict itself.

How long have you been a Catholic?
 
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What I have always loved is how both Jews and Catholics come up with "exceptions" whenever one of their doctrines gets a little uncomfortable. Protestants also violate their own doctrines..... but they don't (usually) invent exceptions (excuses) to enable them to continue doing so.
 

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Well, obviously, you're trying to make a point concerning my beliefs about Calvinism, so your understanding of the topic makes a difference in how I answer your question. BoL has repeatedly accused the "anti-Catholics" on this thread of being ignorant of Catholic doctrine, so I'm asking you if you understand Calvinist doctrine. Calvinists stressing predestination over free will is more or less one of the main points, but it's not the main point I disagree with.

So, just what's the bottom line in your questioning? IOW, get to the point.
Nope. Not trying to make a point concerning your beliefs about Calvinism.

Calvin obviously developed his doctrine by reading scripture and discerning the truth from it. His truth. Your pastor and elder defended Calvin's doctrine which means they agreed with Calvin's interpretation of Scripture. You stated you disagreed with all of them which was based on your interpretation of scripture. They believe they have the Truth. You believe you have the Truth. Is that a fair summary?

Obviously both of you can't have the Truth. Only one can.

How do you settle that difference? What makes you right and them wrong? Or vice a versa?

Mary