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Sorry it's getting to you Helen.
I am kind of ' in between ' with things here as God is using certain things- for example, the thread on 9/11 - all the conspiracy and opinions- it got me thinking about all the threads about end times and I started to consider the real purpose of the book of revelation. I mean there is very little application in the discussions, and to me it's vital in our Christian lives. So I decided to use a study guide and work through the book of revelation- Tom Wright has written one that I am really getting a lot out of , it offers history, context and application.
I am no longer interested in many of the threads- the arguing is boring.
However I still think this place has something to offer. I hope you don't leave Helen xx
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A couple of days ago I put this thread up in jest. Beacuse I was on the brink of leaving the site for a while. It helped .

But actually today has got to me again.
I know it is MY problem.
But I joined this site because it was a lovely spiritual place to come.
But not any more.

“Things of the Sprit “ are not the top priority here.
Arguing doctrine is.
Proving some one else is wrong, is.

It my problem. People joining here now would know no difference.
I remember the glory of the former-house...

I come, I read down the subject titles , and new posts, there is nothing that stirs my soul.
I see little that glorifies God.

Yep, just something I need to work through. Get over. Or leave.

“Watering down the negative “ is not happening ...wisdom tells us - “when to hold and when to fold”.

Oh gosh,
This talk scares me and starts me to feeling sad about something that hasn't even happened yet! I of course, would understand Helen, if you, or any of our little group left here, and why you left. Would you tell us where you've gone? I don't even want to think about it, and I will not as, it just pulls me down :(
Have a blessed day ♥
 
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Oh gosh,
This talk scares me and starts me to feeling sad about something that hasn't even happened yet! I of course, would understand Helen, if you, or any of our little group left here, and why you left. Would you tell us where you've gone? I don't even want to think about it, and I will not as, it just pulls me down :(
Have a blessed day ♥

Oh don't worry.
If I quit looking at this Site I wont be joining anything else. There is nothing better 'out there'.

And PM's are always here ...just feeling a bit low and disappointed with the lack of genuine spiritual input on here , the doctrinal arguments win every time 'these days'. But, I've been in this mood before, it may pass. :)

( the sad thing to say is, there is more Christian uplifts on Facebook many days, than on here!! And that is really scraping the bottom of the internet barrel!o_O
 

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Lets all vote for the person who puts up the most negative posts on this site!!

Mentioning no names...but watch where my eyes swivel to ....

Yay, and the winner is....o_O


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Wow! I think that's about as nasty as it gets--so glad it made you feel better.
 

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This brings up something interesting.

Forums almost all enable the like/thumbs up function.

I believe I've only seen one forum that ever in a dislike/thumbs down function.

Discussion and debate is not a popularity contest.

Another function is ranking. That is where you give each post a numerical value, positive or negative.

Again, that forum that enabled dislike is the only one I have seen that a lot ranking.

Again, discussion and debate is not a popularity contest.

Enabling those things makes them the topic of discussion. Also can lead membership to be all of one mindset. Meaning that form is doomed.

Just like shout boxes do not work. They become everybody says what they think and debate becomes impossible.
 
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nasty as it gets--so glad it made you feel better.

If you read post # 20 and #23 you would know it has not...not one bit.
I was being light hearted in post #1, but I no longer am.
Im about as low as a person can get.

Have a good day.
 
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If you read post # 20 and #23 you would know it has not...not one bit.
I was being light hearted in post #1, but I no longer am.
Im about as low as a person can get.

Have a good day.

Hi Helen my name is Rich in case I have not introduced myself. I know that you are my sister in Christ Jesus even though you do not know me, for I have felt The Holy Spirit present in some of your post. Do not be discouraged by what you read on message boards, for our hope is found only in Him. Let us continue to let our Light shine before man despite what goes on around us. Hope this lifts you up on this day that The Lord has made. Let us be glad and rejoice in it.
 

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Hi Helen my name is Rich in case I have not introduced myself. I know that you are my sister in Christ Jesus even though you do not know me, for I have felt The Holy Spirit present in some of your post. Do not be discouraged by what you read on message boards, for our hope is found only in Him. Let us continue to let our Light shine before man despite what goes on around us. Hope this lifts you up on this day that The Lord has made. Let us be glad and rejoice in it.

Thank you.
You are one of the bright lights that has joined this Site lately.
I need a good smack.
..it's just that I have never seen the Site quite as lifeless as this.
Sites always come and go...but this negative phase has lasted much longer than usual. Maybe I tried too hard 'in my own strength' to lighten things up around here, looking for some of the Lords wonderful victory to shine through it.

Sorry that I had my sad face on 'in public'.
I should have just 'sucked it up.'

I know the truth is that the sun is always shining even on a miserable dark day.
God wins.

Bless you.
 

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Ooooh Enoch are you giving Bygrace a slap on the back of her hand !!!! :D:rolleyes:
No. Actually ByGrace has brought up a very good point. This site is indeed getting overwhelmed with threads which are not too edifying or actually focusing on Bible study and Bible truth. What I do is simply search out the ones worth looking at and leave the rest.
 

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Thank you.
You are one of the bright lights that has joined this Site lately.
I need a good smack.
..it's just that I have never seen the Site quite as lifeless as this.
Sites always come and go...but this negative phase has lasted much longer than usual. Maybe I tried too hard 'in my own strength' to lighten things up around here, looking for some of the Lords wonderful victory to shine through it.

Sorry that I had my sad face on 'in public'.
I should have just 'sucked it up.'

I know the truth is that the sun is always shining even on a miserable dark day.
God wins.

Bless you.
The sad reality is there are fewer and fewer healthy Christian sites.

Not trying to be mean but most people go looking for a site that pleases there itching ears.

There are plenty of sites that do suck up to everyone that you would call positive.

There are some sites that dwell on the truth you would call them negative.

Such as ex-Mormon sites whose mission it is to free people from Mormon.

Same with ex-Catholic sites.

I'm sure you would call them negative.

The point being the Bible says we are at war. It is a war for the positive which has to use negative to fight.

My point is the purpose of what is being said is what makes it negative or positive.

All loving and embracing can sound positive but the absolutely negative. As Mother Teresa loved people all the way to hell.

Or God bringing strife down on people that results in them repenting. On the face is negative but in fact is positive.

I am a very positive person. I am positive that the born again should grow in Christ and reach out to others. I am positive that people in Cults need to get out and turn to the solid Bible.

Positive and negative are very subjective too many.

To me they are objective when you look at the goals and the results.
 
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No. Actually ByGrace has brought up a very good point. This site is indeed getting overwhelmed with threads which are not too edifying or actually focusing on Bible study and Bible truth. What I do is simply search out the ones worth looking at and leave the rest.
I agree, and just for the record my post was a bit tongue in cheek !!
 
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The sad reality is there are fewer and fewer healthy Christian sites.

Not trying to be mean but most people go looking for a site that pleases there itching ears.

There are plenty of sites that do suck up to everyone that you would call positive.

There are some sites that dwell on the truth you would call them negative.

Such as ex-Mormon sites whose mission it is to free people from Mormon.

Same with ex-Catholic sites.

I'm sure you would call them negative.

The point being the Bible says we are at war. It is a war for the positive which has to use negative to fight.

My point is the purpose of what is being said is what makes it negative or positive.

All loving and embracing can sound positive but the absolutely negative. As Mother Teresa loved people all the way to hell.

Or God bringing strife down on people that results in them repenting. On the face is negative but in fact is positive.

I am a very positive person. I am positive that the born again should grow in Christ and reach out to others. I am positive that people in Cults need to get out and turn to the solid Bible.

Positive and negative are very subjective too many.

To me they are objective when you look at the goals and the results.

As you already know.
My issue with you is that you don't post Threads that invite discussion..

This site started out for Discussion between Christians.

I know you post where your interests are. I understand that.
But lets face it...and be honest. 20 videos back to back is not looking much like an invitation to discuss anything!

And then, when a person dares to post something not agreeing..( like Willie yesterday) your answer is - "that's not in the bible".
Again, not a discussion but a blanket statement. "closed".

Just saying.

As I said...it is just where I am at the moment. Or more like...where I am not, or should be.
 

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20 videos back to back is not looking much like an invitation to discuss anything!
That's like hiding behind videos.

Did Harry Truman really say "If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen"?
 

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As you already know.
My issue with you is that you don't post Threads that invite discussion..

This site started out for Discussion between Christians.

I know you post where your interests are. I understand that.
But lets face it...and be honest. 20 videos back to back is not looking much like an invitation to discuss anything!

And then, when a person dares to post something not agreeing..( like Willie yesterday) your answer is - "that's not in the bible".
Again, not a discussion but a blanket statement. "closed".

Just saying.

As I said...it is just where I am at the moment. Or more like...where I am not, or should be.
You have a right to your opinion.

I make my position crystal-clear and then wait for comment.

What you seem to want is to develop an opinion the discussion.

But debate is presenting different opinions with supporting statements.

As well, by giving a fully fleshed opinion it gives seekers on an issue something for them to personally analyze and weigh out.

I cannot see how you label that negative.

Actually, I think I have not posted a video for three days. And often post more than half of my comments as other than videos.

An image is not a video. A smilie is an image.
 

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As you already know.
My issue with you is that you don't post Threads that invite discussion..

This site started out for Discussion between Christians.

I know you post where your interests are. I understand that.
But lets face it...and be honest. 20 videos back to back is not looking much like an invitation to discuss anything!

And then, when a person dares to post something not agreeing..( like Willie yesterday) your answer is - "that's not in the bible".
Again, not a discussion but a blanket statement. "closed".Just saying.
As I said...it is just where I am at the moment. Or more like...where I am not, or should be.
Lol, well, sometimes the gentlest answer is --"That is not in the Bible."
Seems like your personal issue should have been discussed in a PM not in a thread.
I've noticed pretty quickly that you disagree with CoreIssue on Christian doctrines and the interpretation of Bible scripture and seem to have got a bit an axe to grind in the last few weeks. It looks like you've been trying to run a campaign against @CoreIssue & the threads he has started bringing up certain topics by different Pastors, Apologists and Theologians.
First I noticed the objections were raised under the pretense that the videos weren't a personal comment, then the complaint was that this forum is for a discussion only & somehow videos aren't fruitful for discussion? Lol! Ok, I guess we should inform the Colleges because discussions often preceed the watching of a video that presents a topic for discussion), ,next then it's been complaining in various places that that you suspect it is the videos CoreIssue posted that are actually slowing down the forum.
Seems to me you oppose the content of the material & the one who posted them, is what seems obvious to me.
It also seems like you want to control what is posted on this forum in the way of Christian beliefs & theology materials and it looks like when the material represents what you don't personally agree with it , it makes you very unhappy. Just sayin.
 
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And then, when a person dares to post something not agreeing..( like Willie yesterday) your answer is - "that's not in the bible".
Again, not a discussion but a blanket statement. "closed".

Referencing the Bible should go hand in hand with your previous comment...

This site started out for Discussion between Christians.
Christians should never have to apologize for challenging another for proof from the Bible