In an odd dither this morning

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Blessings in Christ Jesus! When one comes to the end of themselves, that is when The Lord begins. That is when we are able to do all that He has asked of us. It is He that loves through us as One. It is His design and it is perfect, for He is perfect. You are not alone in this, there are many. And for these He patiently awaits. "Come to me and I shall give you rest".
 

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Hello,

My understanding of God's redemptive plan is for people to walk the length and breadth of God's intended earth. Now my understanding of what God had said to Abraham in Genesis !2:1 is paraphrased this way: -

12:1 Now the Lord had said to Abram:

"Get out/Walk away from of your country,
From your family
And from your father's house,
To/And go walk towards a land/an earth that I will show you.​

Then in Genesis 13:14-17, God said the following to Abraham: -

Genesis 13:14-17: – 14 And the Lord said to Abram, after Lot had separated from him: "Lift your eyes now and look from the place where you are — northward, southward, eastward, and westward; 15 for all the land/earth, which you see, {that} I will give to you and to your descendants forever/for a long period of time {which is at the vanishing point in the future}. 16 And I will make your descendants as the dust of the earth; so that if a man could number the dust of the earth, then your descendants also could be numbered. 17 Arise, walk in the land/about the{/my} earth, through its length and its width, for I give it to you/for Me to give it."​

Now in this passage there are two parts: -

The first is the promise of giving the land which Abraham had seen during his lifetime to his descendants after him some time in the future which is called the Promised Land for a finite period of time.

The second is about the inheritance of the earth for Abraham and his descendants if they will walk the length and breadth of God's Earth, within the constraints of God's "statutes," so that, at some future time, the descendants of Abraham who walk within the constraints of God "statutes," will receive as an inheritance, the Earth as God intended it to be.​

And yes that means that we, as Abraham's descendants, whether we are natural or grafted, living our lives in both holiness and righteousness to the best of our abilities with a willingness to repent of our not meeting the mark of both holiness and righteousness as we walk within God's earth during our individual lifetimes.

When we consider Abraham's life we can see where he failed to meet God's standards in holiness and righteous, but because he "believed" God's promises to him, God countered it as righteous towards Abraham future inheritance of the earth.

We to can receive the same promises from God as a natural or grafted descendant of Abraham if we believe God's promises to us and live to the best of our ability within His requirements for the fulfilment of the promised future inheritance of the whole earth in communion with God, walking and talking with Him face to face.

What does this mean? We are to walk with God as we live out our lives during this present time.

That does not mean that we are to beat ourselves up when we fall short of the mark, i.e. sin, but when we recognise that we have fallen short of the mark, that we go with a repentant heart back to God and repent of our "sins" to Him asking for forgiveness. And to ask for His help to accept the Holy Spirit within our lives to guide us as we communion with the Holy Spirit as we start the walk once more within God's "earth."

If our hearts are towards serving God in all that we do, even when we fail to do so, God's Grace will abound towards us as we reach out to grab His hand once more to walk with Him.

Shalom
 

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Maybe righteousness is doing what's decent and the hearts motions can be wrong but...ah, I don't know...
Righteousness is doing and thinking rightly. Doing no harm, but going beyond that to positively doing good -- in words and actions. When you take your focus off yourself, this is not as difficult as it may appear. Here is what the Lord presented as righteousness IN PRACTICE (Luke 4:18,19):

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised, to preach the acceptable year of the Lord.

This would not just be words but also actions.
 
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You know...its possible that righteousness is just not what I've thought it is or should be. I discovered that prayer isn't what I supposed it to be, so...its possible. Maybe righteousness is doing what's decent and the hearts motions can be wrong but...ah, I don't know...
I have realised if I were to see God's love in its entirety I would be a blithering mess of tears. I also have seen if I were to see the extent and real nature of my shortcomings I would also be a blithering mess.
God in his mercy reveals both in packages as I am able to process and my ability to process is contingent on my willingness to obey him, for example, I have learned that my focus on me and my interest shoots my ability to love others in the foot and not only that, it blinds me to what love actually is; it leaves me with a fantasy all the while mouthing religious stuff and compounding the deception.

The story of the Pharisee and the publican tells me that empty vessels can take filling while full ones have their reward already.

What you have stated above is worthy of much reflection.
 

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I have realised if I were to see God's love in its entirety I would be a blithering mess of tears. I also have seen if I were to see the extent and real nature of my shortcomings I would also be a blithering mess.

God in his mercy reveals both in packages as I am able to process and my ability to process is contingent on my willingness to obey him

Wonderfully put, Quiet. And absolutely. This is why I mentioned that STG appears to be in a good place right now, because He appears to be convicting her of some things.

This implies that she is able to handle it, and come away from it having grown stronger in some things she was once weaker in.
 

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Righteousness is doing and thinking rightly. Doing no harm, but going beyond that to positively doing good -- in words and actions. When you take your focus off yourself, this is not as difficult as it may appear. Here is what the Lord presented as righteousness IN PRACTICE (Luke 4:18,19):

The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised, to preach the acceptable year of the Lord.

This would not just be words but also actions.
This is the fast God approves of. We deal our bread to the poor. It seems to be common in this current age people are only interested in serving self.
 

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If it's a reoccurring thing, always remember to add in with your prayers that if He would have you doing another line of work to reveal to you what you can do. I may be a little uneasy at first if He finally tells me it is time to do a different line of work, but I trust Him. Even at 55 I believe He will take care of me, but I leave His options open (while nevertheless being careful not to cut ties with my present line of work too quickly).
This is what I need to do, I am 49 and am miserable at my current job I left my last one for, thinking I was making a right choice, I'm not talking about the job that was making me sick due to working with chemicals without protective gear, because the owner was too cheap to supply us with proper PPE, but the job I got after that one, which I left for my current one I'm at for 3 months now, biggest mistake I made.

I pray everyday.

@stunnedbygrace, you seem like a good person, just by reading your posts, I wouldn't worry too much about it, God knows you.
 
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What a wonderful open and transparent Opening Post...I found very honest and refreshing!

So often I find Threads here all all 'heady' and very willing to talk about the bible and around God things. But walking/relational threads are far and few between.

I see the wisdom in loving. That's not a problem. Its the doing the loving that I cannot do. It's useless to think I am truly loving if it's an outward doing while the motions of my heart are not hidden from Him, or from me for that matter.

At one time I was tied up in knots knowing the love verses ...yet there were two people ( husband and wife) which had ridden rough shod over others , they were controlling and legalistic.
I just couldn't "love" them as Jesus commanded.

Sometimes I believe we lock the Lord into our own thinking patterns.

I'd get on my knees , and I'd feel blocked from praying for others because this couple were 'on my back' and in my way when I tried.

One day I just said to God ( similar to what you have said) -
"I CANNOT do this, I can't love them, they should be judged for the hurt they have caused so many people. "

He said (what I believe someone already said above..) - "No Helen, you can't but I can ."

For days it felt no different ( there is that "feel " word again which dogs our steps!! )
I'd kneel down and through gritted teeth, I would bless them and pray for them , and for a change of heart for them etc

Then one day...it became real.

It seems that if we take by faith that God will do what we can't do , (if we only allow Him. ) And He did.

That is actually the definition of Grace in Strong's concordance :-
"God's ability in you, to do what you can't do."

Praise God for Grace!! :)


I don't think its an opinion. I can see that one tablet deals with loving God and the other deals with loving others. Or do you mean that it is opinion that loving God is holiness and loving others is righteousness?

I believe it was just a good guess of your friend.

How can any many say what was written on the two tablets or how it was written...no one knows... All we know is that it was then ten commandments. There is nothing said about holiness and righteousness etc etc

It does NOT say what was on the one tablet and what was on the other.
Maybe there was also the laws of the Tabernacle on there too...we are not told. Only Moses knows, and he'd not telling :D
 

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It seems that if we take by faith that God will do what we can't do , (if we only allow Him. ) And He did.

Romans 4:17 (As it is written, I have made thee a father of many nations,) before him whom he believed, even God, who quickeneth the dead, and calleth those things which be not as though they were.
 
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I see the wisdom in loving. That's not a problem. Its the doing the loving that I cannot do. It's useless to think I am truly loving if it's an outward doing while the motions of my heart are not hidden from Him, or from me for that matter.
Yes, it is like reading through those first few verses of Matthew 5 as for instance: "Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth" Matt 5:5. Even if we already believe it, how does one become meek so as to inherit the earth? Go to these other words of Jesus for they show the way to meekness and the way to the love you say you are unable to "do":

"But seek ye first 1) the kingdom of God, and 2) his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." Matt 6:33

So now put all of your efforts in putting those things first! When they really are, first that is, then the love and the meekness and all of the other ways to be blessed by God will all be added to you. How do you do that: How do you make them first? Different people may have different ideas on that point, but God has not made it impossible because He does want people to get there. He will help you!

Simply talk to God each day as you already do, and be certain to always emphasize your desire for His kingdom and His righteousness to be first in your seeking. Ask Him for that as per Matt 7:7-8. Don't do it one time on one day and then forget it. Do it every day and even every time, because as you continue to do it, He will continue to add to you.
 

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Well what I mean is, you truly see it; see it enough that you change the way you are thinking, feeling and acting. For me, I realized that God is only going to reward those who are building His kingdom, not those who are tearing it down. And His kingdom in the earth is made up of believers. So if I am building believers up, I am building His kingdom. If I am tearing believers down, I am tearing down His kingdom.

This is what I mean by "seeing" it. I see exactly WHY I should be always treating others with kindness and respect even if they aren't showing it to me : )

I do see why I should love others. I'm not sure you're hearing me...

I went for years always rehearsing why I should be good and love and not hold grudges and forgive. And I would determine to try harder to be good. But eventually, I would fail again to be good, which would be followed by depression. At some point, I would come out of the depression with a resolve to try again. Then would come the failure at some point again and the depression.

At some point, you have to jump off that depressing and cyclical merrygoround. You have to admit that you give up and that you aren't good. The want to is there but the doing isn't. And I'd rather be honest than deceived.

I'm talking about myself, not making any statements about anyone else. I am not good and I'm certain that I will not jump on that useless merrygoround again. It's too much of a relief to just be honest. At least if I can't be good I can be truthful.
 

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You have to admit that you give up and that you aren't good. The want to is there but the doing isn't. And I'd rather be honest than deceived.

I'm talking about myself, not making any statements about anyone else. I am not good and I'm certain that I will not jump on that useless merrygoround again. It's too much of a relief to just be honest. At least if I can't be good I can be truthful.

Certainly. This is the starting point. Sorry if I misunderstood you. :)
 

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Well, yes. But I personally think He said these words under control. By that I mean, there wasn't resentment there, just an expressing of the truth regarding their spiritual condition and what spiritual forces were behind what they were doing.

SBG is expressing concern over the condition of her heart, and resentments definitely are something the believer has to guard against. Scripture calls it "bitterness," and it can eventually turn us into vipers if we allow it to build up in us : )

I'm not sure I'm expressing concern over the condition of my heart...I was greatly concerned about it during my many years on the merrygoround, but now, I just accept it's my heart and focus on practicing trust.
 
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Yes, and this is where it gets rougher to take. We sense that the Spirit is displeased with us because we are walking in a wrong spirit.

But we all go through this on our way to finally becoming obedient : ) If it didn't hurt and didn't convict us, we would never change.

I'm thinking here...I don't think loving others is an obedience I can learn to do...i think the obedience He wants from me is the obedience of trust.
 
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