You should be slow to make inferences from what a person says, especially if you know little or nothing about the person. We are all, frail, corruptible people... until we are overcomers as Jesus was an overcomer. That means me too. I try not to say the wrong things, but sometimes I have been found not walking IN the Spirit as I should be and out come words from my mouth [or writings] that miss the mark. Paul is the one wrote this:true
But I do not see how this relates to what you said.
You seemed to infer Paul was different than Jesus, Even though he commanded us to be like him.
The example you showed here does not show any difference in the way these men lived and their focus, the things we were told to emulate
"Quench not the Spirit." I Thess 5:19