As has been prayed for you, you too can pray the same prayer for this woman, that God would draw her into His loving embrace so that she would know His love just for her and his purposes for her to bring blessing to all of the people she may interact with on a daily basis so that she become a witness for God as to how people should interact with each other as they are doing God's intended business just for them.
Then after praying the above prayer, start thanking and Praising God that He has heard your prayer for this woman and is already working to show His Glory through this woman as He draws her into His loving purposes.
You can also praise and thank God that He is changing your heart towards this woman and encouraging you to also be a blessing for her in your acts of kindness towards her.
Shalom
PS: - What God is interested in, is our responses when we are faced with circumstance that are not welcomed by us. It is our responses within these circumstances and not the circumstances that we find ourselves in that God looks for as our character is grown to become more loving towards others.
Shalom
PS: - Ps: - Remember our patience with God and God's speed to quietly bring about change does not always mesh well at all. Patience is a key for us to work on.
Fluffy, If God is drawing you to Himself, then I have no need to tell you to be in communion with the Lord about everything, placing before Him all of your concerns and your desires to run away from a developing problem in your life, to seek His advice and direction as to what you should be doing within your circumstances.
My experience is that when I run/move away from a problem, I discover that no matter how much space I put between me and that Problem, that the problem I had, actually followed me to the new location I had chosen to live in. The reality was that by moving, I had not made anything better in my life and I had to face the fact that I had stopped trusting God being my shield and protection which showed me that I had turned away from God and taken things into my own hands.
Now that does not stop God's leading for you to move to another town, but if God gives you that leading, then follow His leading. If God gives you the leading to be still and to remain where you are presently living, then follow His leading and remain put, trudtimh Him for His protection from any harm for your or your family.
As God continues to draw you to Himself, may you become more secure in your relations with the Lord, so that shadows do not cause you to become anxious and fearful, so that your faith and trust in the Lord will not be diminished because of your surrounding circumstances.
May you become more secure in your relationship with your God so that fear loses its grip on your life.
Shalom
