Yeah... well there's also the camp that says people who are speaking in tongues are faking it... I actually had a friend that used to go to the same church as me... he wanted to marry a girl that went to a pentecostal church and the pastor at the church we went to actually told them he wouldn't marry them because his fiance went to a church where people spoke in tongues... so there's people that are ridiculous on both sides of that fence...
I was more referring to people assuming beyond the context that was written and then asking a question that was accusational and left you feeling defensive...
Like if you said to me, "I don't speak in tongues and I believe I have the Spirit"
and my response was, "So what you're saying is the gifts of the Spirit are no longer available?"
When what you said was nowhere even close to that... and my question was basically an accusation based on an assumption and words I put in your mouth.
Can't stand that shiz... I could imagine the Phaisees were pulling that shiz on Jesus,
Jesus was like, "It's right to make someone completely whole on the Sabbath"
and the Pharisses were all, "So what you're say is we should disobey God", "So what you're saying is... blah blah blah" (Disclaimer: For anyone that wants to let me know this interaction isn't documented in the bible I know... I'm simply talking about the principle)