GINOLJC, you're 100% correct. Leaders are to LEAD, meaning the first to serve. not do as I say. we have lost this concept of Christ. scripture, Luke 12:35-39 "Let your loins be girded about, and your lights burning; 36 "And ye yourselves like unto men that wait for their lord, when he will return from the wedding; that when he cometh and knocketh, they may open unto him immediately. 37 "Blessed are those servants, whom the lord when he cometh shall find watching: verily I say unto you, that he shall gird himself, and make them to sit down to meat, and will come forth and serve them. 38 "And if he shall come in the second watch, or come in the third watch, and find them so, blessed are those servants. 39 "And this know, that if the goodman of the house had known what hour the thief would come, he would have watched, and not have suffered his house to be broken through".Can you provide references to support this from the Bible?
John 13
14 If I then, your Lord and Master, have washed your feet; ye also ought to wash one another's feet.
The word rule is from Hebrew Mashal meaning
to rule, have dominion, reign
To understand this:
Ephesians 5
21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
Husband has to love his wife whereas the wife has to submit to her Husband. From the wife's perspective, she is still under the dominion of her Husband, though the Husband is not her ruler but is there as one to love her.
To understand the above:
1 Corinthians 11
3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.
4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.
5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
6 For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
7 For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man.
8 For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man.
9 Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
10 For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels.
Eph 5:23 and 1 Corinth 11:3, tell us that a wife is under the authority of her Husband, provided the Husband is under the authority of Christ. This cannot be disputed.
How can you say that a Pastor has authority over the members of the Church. It should be only Christ and cannot be shared by a Pastor!
but here is the conclusion: Matthew 20:28 "Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many". here the word "minister" means to serve. it's the Greek word G1247 διακονέω diakoneo (d̮iy-a-ko-ne'-ō) v.
This is the same word use of the 7 at acts chapter 6 who served tables. so I guess we can "DEACON" Jesus?.
Good eye on that prashanthd. in order to submit one get permission from the submit-er... ;). yes just like in a marriage.
now as for the HEAD, notice no name was used?, only titles...
it's one thing to note in the Eph 5 husband and wife scriptures. it never commands the wife to Love here husband, but the Husband to Love his wife. now outside the common command of Love ye one another, it's not there. but yet to "reverence" her husband.
you know, when one really get into the word of God, all those ..... "Things" ... we learned are really not adding up to what we was taught.
I thank God for "SOME" forums, and I'll leave that there.
PCY.