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It is good to do things with joy, and with faith in the Lord. Only you misunderstand me; if I did things out of concern for losing something, I would be dead set against what I'm telling you. If I seek to save my life, I will lose it. I do not say we are not 'eternally saved' because I think we should try harder to save our lives. I say we are not 'eternally saved' because that is what our Lord tells us; we have a race to run, a prize to attain. 'Eternal salvation' is a doctrine of Christendom, the doctrine of Christ is that of eternal life, which is a type of life, that we enter now. When we abide in Him, thus knowing him and having eternal life, we are safe.
We are to lose our lives to run after him and seek him.
A person that is 'truly saved'? I was on this bus, and it was going from one town to the next, but there were many stops on the way. To get where I need to go, I would have to stay on the bus until the end of the line when he asks everyone to come off. I decide to come off earlier. So I was never on the bus?
The idea that because one becomes born again he loses his free will and cannot fail is the equivalent of saying that indeed, since you did not get to the end of the bus line, you never even boarded the bus.
The Bible doesn't depict salvation as a 'done deal', you got it just believe it! It depicts it as a race! Grace is received as a gift if we repent, but for a purpose, that we would run the race!
If, indeed, grace is simply 'unmerited favor', then tell me this, can 'unmerited favor' labor?
The power of God within us labors, as Paul says it did within him, so that we would have both the will and the doing of what pleases God. If grace is unmerited favor, and that favor is eternal, then God would indeed be partial.
I still disagree!

But I am enjoying discussing this with you, you obviously think things through well and reason logically, so ta!
Here's my deal. Yes, we are to 'run the race' and 'strive to become righteous' and 'press on'....but to what, for what? What, as Christians, should we long to hear at the end, when our lives finally bring us face to face with Jesus? "Well done, good and faithful servant...enter into the joy of your Master"
Once saved, our lives and every motivation for every deed, thought and action we do; comes from love and gratitude. To make those actions and motivations about continued assurance makes very light of what Jesus did on the cross.
The bus analogy...it's good....but I see it differently. Let's just say a person decides to jog beside the bus...all the way (let's just forget for the sake of argument that they couldn't possibly keep up!). If they did that they could honestly say that they followed the same route...that they saw everything the people on the bus did...that they stopped at the same stops...etc. The difference is...at some point they will flag and fall away, because they were striving to complete that journey on their own steam. Those on the bus are riding the grace...they are not under their own steam, but that of the Holy Spirit...and that's why they make it to the end and the ones off the bus don't. But up until the point that the runner falls away, he would be able to answer and swear to the same answers as those on the bus....there was just one very significant difference....he was never on it in the first place...he never had access to the very thing that would see him to the end...the Holy Spirit.
But despite whether you think that Salvation once received can be lost by a person deliberately turning away, we must not doubt that what is given us from Jesus is complete.
Jesus sacrifice was total, perfect and complete. He did not give us grace as a tool for us to achieve our own salvation. It's not a free gift then....what if a wife gives her husband a lawn mower...go out and do the work yourself....or is the greater gift for the husband to come home and find that the gift itself was a mown yard? We cannot lessen Jesus' gift. We cannot imagine we have what we need to achieve, or uphold our own salvation. The Bible repeatedly tells us the we cannot. The verses below show two things....the completeness of Jesus' work on the cross, and the assurance we can have in that gift of grace:
[27] He has no need, like those high priests, to offer sacrifices daily, first for his own sins and then for those of the people, since he did this once for all when he offered up himself.(Hebrews 7:27 ESV)
[9] then he added, “Behold, I have come to do your will.” He does away with the first in order to establish the second. [10] And by that will we have been sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all. ( Hebrews 10:9-10 ESV)
[11] And we desire each one of you to show the same earnestness to have the full assurance of hope until the end, [12] so that you may not be sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit the promises. (Hebrews 6:11-12 ESV)
[By Faith]
[11:1] Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.
(Hebrews 11:1 ESV)
[31] because he has fixed a day on which he will judge the world in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed; and of this he has given assurance to all by raising him from the dead.”
(Acts 17:31 ESV)
[2] that their hearts may be encouraged, being knit together in love, to reach all the riches of full assurance of understanding and the knowledge of God's mystery, which is Christ,
(Colossians 2:2 ESV)
We are to have full assurance...in Christ...who has triumphed once and for all.
Here's the thing. We are told repeatedly that a true Christian must live to bear good fruit, that we must strive to righteousness, to become more Christ like. But we are also told that man alone, is helpless to do such good things:
[26] And they were exceedingly astonished, and said to him, “Then who can be saved?” [27] Jesus looked at them and said, “With man it is impossible, but not with God. For all things are possible with God.” (Mark 10:26-27 ESV)
When we are born again we are given the Holy Spirit and that Spirit remains with us, enabling us to live the life we need to, that we now desire to because of our new hearts.
I could go on...for quite a while to be honest! I feel passionately about this....we cannot take away from the work of the cross, from the assurance we now have because he rose. Can't you see...the very reason we are even capable of living a life that makes us more Christ like, is
because we already have our salvation. First Jesus gives us justification, then he helps us walk our sanctification and that leads to our ultimate glorification. Everything is from him! Yes, we have to consciously pick up the Bible, but only through the Spirit do we embrace what it says. Yes we have to consciously call our hurting friend, but it is only through the Spirit that we know what to say. Yes we have to consciously decide to attend church, but it is the Spirit amongst us that allows us to truly glorify and praise Jesus! We do all this, because of salvation...not to uphold it. The bible goes on and on about us striving, about us doing good things, about everything we do giving glory to him....but it also tells us that the
only way we can do this, is by the new heart that he gives us when he saves us...once for all!