ok brother, thank you...... looking carefully at Romans 14:14, it seems to be talking about meat and drink. Under the Law, God had commanded that some things were to be deemed ritually unclean to consume, but under grace all things are considered clean and permissible to consume, as long as doing so doesn't cause someone else to stumble. Those laws/ordinances no longer apply, and one is free to eat or not eat according to their faith and conscience.
I would have a lot of trouble accepting that some things in life are not evil or unclean. I don't think that can be what Paul meant because it would contradict other things that are taught in scripture:
Mar 7:21-23
For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders,
Thefts, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, lasciviousness, an evil eye, blasphemy, pride, foolishness:
All these evil things come from within, and defile the man. (defile means to make unclean)
I mean, our hearts in Christ tell us that something like murder is evil and that things like lewdness and lust is unclean and ought not to be done, we just know that because His laws are written on our hearts. We are in a spiritual battle and the first "weapon" is get our thoughts to agree with God's word and then we have solid ground from which to begin fighting the good fight, in whatever area we happen to be dealing with. Depending on every person's unique situation, we all find some things are easier to walk away from than others. And in cases of bondage the Lord will work in our life, if we seek and allow Him to. But the beginning of freedom I believe is to "only acknowledge your sin" as the Lord pleaded with His people. We need to acknowledge our sin as sin, agreeing with the Lord, and seek Him to deliver or heal us, because Jesus said "blessed are you who mourn now for you will be comforted". Agreeing with the Lord about a sin doesn't mean condemning ourselves. And He is only going to condemn if we don;t agree with Him or care about it. We do need to be contrite....a humble and contrite heart He will not despise or turn away. Focus on Jesus, not on the sin, and over time He will work in us and we will one day realize we've come through the other side, or He may give an instant deliverance or healing at some point. If we focus on the sin, rather than on the Lord that is like Peter turning his gaze off Jesus to the wind and waves and that makes it all look impossible causing us to sink. WITH God, all things ARE possible.