Yikes! I understand what you're saying, but you have to look at all of Romans. Paul said that
apart from the law, we are made righteous (by grace through faith in Jesus Christ). When we are born again, something radical happens to us! We are no longer under the guidance or tutelage of the law, which was given to show that we are sinners in need of a Savior. Now, we are guided from within by the Holy Spirit!
Romans 3:21-24--But now, apart from the law, God’s righteousness has been revealed — attested by the Law and the Prophets — that is, God’s righteousness through faith in Jesus Christ, to all who believe, since there is no distinction. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. They are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.
It's not that the law has been abolished. The Law is still very much in effect, and those who live by it will be judged by it, meaning those who refuse the free gift of salvation by grace through faith. And those who live without it will perish without it because they do not see their need for a Savior to deliver them from their sins.
But Christians live on a completely different plane--by grace through faith! We are now to walk according to the Spirit, i.e. filled with and controlled by the indwelling Holy Spirit.
Romans 8:1-4--Therefore, no condemnation now exists for those in Christ Jesus, because the Spirit’s law of life in Christ Jesus has set you free from the law of sin and of death. What the law could not do since it was limited by the flesh, God did. He condemned sin in the flesh by sending His own Son in flesh like ours under sin’s domain, and as a sin offering, in order that the law’s requirement would be accomplished in us who do not walk according to the flesh but according to the Spirit.
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