Hi whiteknucle.God will not, CANNOT, force one will upon another, simply because that would not be love, and God BEING love, He cannot 'work' outside of love.God doesn't use the same weapons or ways that the darkness uses, and that's where I think a lot of people go sideways of God, because they think that God is just a better man ( human ) than the rest of us.You say that God can , as otherwise no one would get saved.....Think what you're saying !.........If God indeed could force our will, every single person would have been saved already, as it is God's will that all men be saved.The Lord can most certainly help us to arrive at right decisions , but we need to listen to Him, agree with what He's saying, and then go about doing it.Also remember, a commandment is not the same as a DEMAND.....Love does not demand, in order to get it's way.If we want to have a quick look at how love is described, check 1Cor 13........It's quite specific, letting us know, that we can do all good things, but it profits us nothing, if His Love is not in us.GOD IS LOVE, not darkness nor hatred, no matter how many places in the bible He is described that way. Love is Love and Love, loves......What else can love possibly do, but love?No wonder God tells us, that His ways are so much higher than ours, we can't comprehend Love, which is that big.In Him Pia