If you know what the term means you know that the suggestion was not that Paul contradicts himself. I’m sorry, but English or Greek doesn’t make a difference here.
Well I would disagree. It does make a difference. My point was, it is clear Paul is not using the rhetorical device you are suggesting or the Greek would tip us off due to the use of mey subjunctives. The only other option is that Paul is contradicting himself or is confused. That was my point. I think the English bears it out fairly well in that there is nothing in the language that indicates Paul is comparing/contrasting or is suggesting something he knows not to be true. Rather, he is encouraging them to understand these points as he goes along in the argument.
Just like in his views on slavery in his views on gender/family relations Paul was not much of a social revolutionary, but (up to a point, which was idol worship) wanted Christians to accept the rules of the society they lived in, whilst at the same time sowing subversive new ideas.
I agree. And because I believe Paul was an inspired, inerrant author, I think we should continue to live in the culture in such a way where we express Christ-like submission in ways that are socially appropriate...rather than continually finding ways to use our Christian liberty for purposes of promoting individualism and antinominism. Paul's primary subversive new ideas (as I see it), is that Christians can shine like stars in a dark world as they humbly honor God while surrendering their own rights for the sake of blessing others...especially in areas in which they have people in positions of authority over them. Instead, we have Christians who mock and derride their political leaders, gossip and complain at the local church, are lazy, ungrateful workers in their jobs, and use the grace of Christ which calls them to holiness as a catalyst for personal indulgence and serving the evil desires of the flesh.
I mean, think about it. Which is more "subversive" in our day and age?
Not seeking recognition, saying "no" to the lusts of the flesh that the Bible says are ungodly, and actively, gladly seeking how you can serve others in submission based on the roles God has placed you in life....
or embracing cultural norms on sexuality and personal "rights" and arguing that the Bible has taught these things all along...its just taken us 2000+ years to figure out what Paul really meant.
The subversive idea is that husbands must love their wives rather than viewing them as a mere commodity. Whenever Paul elevates women he doesn’t follow 1th century mainstream thought. That is what would have made his original audience listen up and that is what should get our attention. And yes, when you love somebody – at least in my emotional world - you submit to them. That Paul connects the two is obvious in that he clearly isn’t a fan of begrudging/merely outward submission (Eph. 6:5-9).
I agree that Paul cuts against 1st century thought in the treatment of women. That DOESNT mean that Paul doesnt really accept the first proposition (wives submit to your husbands) and is just spouting what everyone already accepted. It seems you want to argue, "Yeah, Paul said wives should submit to their husbands, but thats only because everyone believed that and so he HAD to say that. The real point he is making is "husbands love your wives." The first is a concession, the second is the subversive, Spirit-guided command." Well, to me this just seems like cherry picking. It seems like a grand assumption that a person can read into the mind of Paul and see what his real emphasis and focus was on, while somewhat dismissing the other commands as merely cultural concessions.
I think this is a poor hermeneutic. I dont think Paul's command for wives to submit to their husbands was merely a cultural concession. Rather, he gives rationale that the church submits to Christ as spiritual justification for this command. So even if the real cultural shock would have been felt in Paul's command for husbands to love their wives as Christ loves the church and gave himself up for her (which I dont know that it would have been quite as shocking a statement as you imply), it doesnt mean the call for women to submit to their husbands is not equally a command from the Lord. Again, I think a lot of these new approaches to hermeneutics which says, "I know what Paul was really thinking. Here was the real situation in his culture, so this was merely just Paul being a product of his culture...but THIS statement is really what the Spirit wants us to grab hold of and run with." No, I think we just take the Bible as it is and when it says "men lusting after other men" is evil before God, then we should accept it. When it says, "honor the king." We should accept it. When it says, "Husbands love your wives, and wives submit to your husbands" then we should accept it.
And Eph. 5:32 seems to point to that very direction. But contrary to Augustine (who thought the head covering referred to “a hidden sacrament”), you seem to read the text quite literally when it comes to gender relations, whilst still accepting that women, too, are made in the image of God and happily discarding the plain instruction for women to cover their head as a merely cultural thing. Why? Did you ever take into consideration that your very own cultural views and traditions may have affected your reading?
I am not sure I know how to answer this. The article you gave me to read makes pretty much the exact same argument about how headcovering was cultural, but the principle of submission is not. I would encourage you to read it again as they did a very good job explaining why headcovering is a symbol of a grander principle at work in the local church. So, my argument is that the PRINCIPLE Paul is arguing for (submission, specifically for women in the local church in this instance) is still valid. The MEANS by which that principle was expressed in the first century (headcovering) would not make sense today and therefore we should find culturally understandable ways to express that timeless principle of gender roles and submission. It seems to me your argument is that both the principle of submission AND the practice of headcovering were cultural practices. I find that impossible to accept given the statements Paul makes:
“Now I commend you because you remember me in everything and maintain the traditions even as I delivered them to you.” (1 Corinthians 11:2, ESV)
“But I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God.” (1 Corinthians 11:3, ESV)
“That is why a wife ought to have a symbol of authority on her head, because of the angels.” (1 Corinthians 11:10, ESV)
To summarize my view, Paul is encouraging the Corinthians to continue the tradition of women using headcoverings, a cultural practice expressing submission in worship. He uses a number of rationale to explain why this "tradition" should be continued. The tradition was a cultural expression of women submitting to male authority during the worship services in the local church (not all the time). Paul's rationale is that it is important for women to express this kind of submissive demeanor in worship and uses creation and cultural understandings of hair length and their meaning as important for communicating this submissive attitude. Basically, Paul is saying, "no women would shave their heads, right? Everyone would think they were a prostitute! How we present our heads matters to how we are perceived by those around us. Thus it is important that we present our heads in this way before the Lord because the angels and present and this attitude of submission is what God desires based on his creative order and plan. Moreover, if you do not do this, you are out of step with all the other churches of God." So again, Paul is talking about cultural practices of hair length and head covering to point to a universal principle of the importance of submission of women to men in the leadership practices of the local church.
Ha, thats a phrase I have not heard before. :)
Of course “killing one another” implies that all the involved parties kill. And when my husband and I promised to love one another, we meant that I shall love him and he shall love me. If you insist that “ἀλλήλοις” doesn’t indicate reciprocity you clearly are in denial:
The question here about the word allelon is whether or not it must indicate complete reciprocity. The clear answer to this is NO. On some occasions, yes, it calls everyone to participate with everyone else. Your example shows this in "love one another." Everyone is to love everyone else. In other cases, the word indicates either "everyone to some" or "some to others" and NOT everyone to everyone. Consider the following:
“So the disciples said to one another, “Has anyone brought him something to eat?”” (John 4:33, ESV)
-Based on your argument that this word must mean everyone to everyone, then we must imply that every single disciple said this phrase to each of the other disciples, rather than some of the disciples saying to some of the other disciples, "Has anyone brought him something to eat?"
“If I then, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet.” (John 13:14, ESV)
-Based on your view of this word, Jesus must be saying that John must wash Bill, Joe and Suzie's feet, Bill must wash John, Joe and Suzie's feet, Suzie must wash John, Bill, and Joe's feet and Joe must wash Bill, John, and Suzie's feet. Clearly that is not the case. A person only needs their feet washed once. Everyone washes some, not everyone washes everyone.
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2, ESV)
-This is not teaching that every christian must bear the burdens of every other Christian. Some have burdens and those without are to help bear those burdens. Some helping some. Not everyone bearing everyone.
“In the meantime, when so many thousands of the people had gathered together that they were trampling one another, he began to say to his disciples first, “Beware of the leaven of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy.” (Luke 12:1, ESV)
Now this must be quite a sight if everyone is getting trampled and those who are getting trampled are likewise trampling on those who are trampling on them! No, clearly some are getting trampled and others are doing the trampling.
“And there arose a sharp disagreement, so that they separated from each other. Barnabas took Mark with him and sailed away to Cyprus,” (Acts 15:39, ESV)
Based on complete reciprocity, they must have split in four directions. That clearly isnt the case. The context tells us Barnabas and Mark went away from Paul together.
“Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices” (Colossians 3:9, ESV)
Again, the implication here is not that everyone is A is lying to B and B is lying to A. No, some are lying to others in the body and they need to stop.
“And out came another horse, bright red. Its rider was permitted to take peace from the earth, so that people should slay one another, and he was given a great sword.” (Revelation 6:4, ESV)
One final example, the killing done here is not person A killing all the other people on the earth and all the people on the earth are at the same time killing person A (along with everyone else). No, some are killing others.
So you see, the command to "submit to one another" is not "everyone to everyone" in this instance (and the context clearly bears that out). It is not saying that person A submits to persons B, C, D and person B submits to A, C, and D and so forth. No, the context shows that everyone needs to be willing to submit to those in positions of authority over them (wives, husbands: slaves, masters: children, parents, etc). This has clearly been shown from the use of this term "submit to one another" from extrabiblical literature found in the Dead Sea Scrolls.
Qumran scholar Nathan Jastram remarks, "There is now good evidence from the Dead Sea Scrolls that shows that to 'submit to one another' means that each member of a community is to be subject
to the other members of the community that have authority over him" ("Man," 78).