Amen, Amadeus! I've seen some of your autobiography on another thread and am happy that the Lord has been with you. I'm sure many shall consider it a mark of wisdom that you've had a long, and no doubt wonderful marriage. Our marriage in the Lord is another mark of wisdom, as with all wisdom, not a wisdom of ourselves, but has been a growth in that relationship of the Lord that precedes all our expectations. We are continually reminded that we are not of ourselves, and that the Lord is much greater than our lowly suppositions of him. It is living in mystery that makes love possible, to ourselves, our family, and to all others.