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But back to me. I personally have never been attracted to females. And I can remember back as far as age 5. I can remember my first crush and all. Now, where did all of this come from, I don't know. But I also know that one of my parents was once practicing homosexuality, long before I was born, before becoming a Christian. It may have been a "generational curse" or "genetic predisposition". Whatever name you put on it, it's the same thing. But, SSA is all I know. I have tried to imagine what it would be like to be "straight", but that's as far as I can go with it. The thought of heterosexual intercourse is, to put it bluntly, disgusting to me! The same as homosexual sex would be disgusting to you. I can and do appreciate the beauty of women--some I greatly admire. So, I don't hate women. But the thought of being intimate with them is a line I don't cross. Why? Because I feel deeply that I would not be being true to myself. Call it "selfish" all you want. But unless you are in my shoes, you simply cannot understand my conviction in the matter. If I was to have intercourse with a woman (hypothetically speaking), it would simply be going through the motions--mechanical. Because I can't relate to a female on that level. A man, on the other hand, I can relate to physically and emotionally. Every part of my being is involved in loving a man. And it's not something I try to do. It just comes natural. This was before I ever did anything with a male. I felt deep down inside that I could love another male on all levels, just as if I had already done it.


Thankyou for being honest 7...I know it can't be easy.
I very much want to encourage you, tell you to keep your faith in God, keep searching for Him and His truth.
You are right, we are all born with sin. The homosexual issue can be a red flag for many Christians, probably because it's a sin that can be fairly easily seen. But it should not be singled out over all other sins...sexual sin (even with 'straight' people) runs rampant in our Churches, and too often it is ignored...it shouldn't be.
My point is that even though we are 'born this way' doesn't, for one second give us the right to succumb to it. I know it must be so hard for you, as sex is such a huge part of our lives...but if it can't be in a covenantal relationship that God approves of, well, I'm sorry, but it's just wrong. It's as wrong as the preacher who is cheating on his wife, the decon father having a porn addiction, the treasurer stealing money...and all the while saying they love Jesus.
If we truly love Jesus, we fight every day to flee from sin. That may not ever change your 'feelings' towards men, but at the end, when you stand before your Lord you can honestly say "I fought it Lord, I fought it for you and through you."
Our lives can be hard....I've struggled with a chronic illness for over half my life. And the one thing I've learned? Life is short, our hardships are short, and heaven and Jesus are eternal, and worth every second I suffer....in fact, I can honestly tell you that I am closer to my God because of it.
Keep looking up, keep fighting it, keep your eyes on the 'prize!' I know it's hard, but you have many people willing to pray for you, support you...you only need to ask!
 

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That's a tough one Fire 7... I'm sure it would be hard for anyone to really understand how you feel unless they've had similar experiences... I personally can't relate to having feelings for men (but in the past I have been a dog when it came to women)... I just want to say thanks for your willingness to be so open... I believe there's nothing that opens the door to God working in our lives more than a willingness to walk in the light about the truth of our inward selves with each other... may the Lord bless us in every way and cleanse the inside of our cup... we're all in the same boat... a boat that without the Lord would sink... so all Glory to Him!!!

Aloha Nui!!!
 

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Not that I owe you an explaination, as you are not God. But for the sake of Truth (which I am committed to above all else) and conversation (since I brought up the issue), I will say that you have a point on some things that you have said, and I appreciate your input.

One thing I have to diagree with you on, however, is the idea that no one can be born gay. I don't know why so many Christians and ministers insist on this idea. But it is totally false. It may be true in some cases that someone was just influenced by their peers and indulged in homosexuality because of peer pressure. I have seen this happen (well, heard of it). There have also been homosexuals who have given into heterosexual peer pressure--had relations with the opposite sex and regretted it later. So this idea that gay people are all about recruiting is also false, because straight people recruit just as much. I think, just to be faur and give the other side the bnefit of the doubt, that it is 50/50. I think that some people are gay by societal influence, while others are gay because of genetic disposition (there are reasons I believe this--not just because I want to). It may be a "theory", but isn't the bible itself a book of theories? Where is the proof that every stopry in the bible actually happened? So, apparently, you can't always base truth on facts.

As a man with SSA (notice I don't call myslef homosexual, because I'm on the fence in the matter), aside form science and research, I can personally tell you that I don't just like men because I want to like them. If that was the case, I would've given it up a long time ago. Do you really think I want to feel like a social outcast, lonely, isolated, ashamed, different? I heard of a story of a gay man who, when he was a young boy, and his family would go to the neighborhood swimming pool, he would sink himself to the bottom of the pool and hold his breath, hoping that when he floated to the top, he would be "normal", This is one story of countless stories of people trying their hardest to be something they're not, and eventually giving up and saying, "This is me, I'm just going to have to live with it." You might say "You're just not trusting in the power of God to heal you." Well, tell that to the many people who have cried out to God in fasting and prayer, asking Him to take the feelings away from them, only to wake up with the same SSA, eventually having to classify themself as a "gay christian." Also tell that to Michael Bussee, one of the founders of "Exodus International", the largest "exgay" organization in the nation, who strived for years to live the life of a heterosexual Christian (married and all), only to later have to admit that his exgayness was a lie--in turn, exposing the dishonesty in the organization, and inspiring other ex ex gays to speak out against the ex-gay movement.

But back to me. I personally have never been attracted to females. And I can remember back as far as age 5. I can remember my first crush and all. Now, where did all of this come from, I don't know. But I also know that one of my parents was once practicing homosexuality, long before I was born, before becoming a Christian. It may have been a "generational curse" or "genetic predisposition". Whatever name you put on it, it's the same thing. But, SSA is all I know. I have tried to imagine what it would be like to be "straight", but that's as far as I can go with it. The thought of heterosexual intercourse is, to put it bluntly, disgusting to me! The same as homosexual sex would be disgusting to you. I can and do appreciate the beauty of women--some I greatly admire. So, I don't hate women. But the thought of being intimate with them is a line I don't cross. Why? Because I feel deeply that I would not be being true to myself. Call it "selfish" all you want. But unless you are in my shoes, you simply cannot understand my conviction in the matter. If I was to have intercourse with a woman (hypothetically speaking), it would simply be going through the motions--mechanical. Because I can't relate to a female on that level. A man, on the other hand, I can relate to physically and emotionally. Every part of my being is involved in loving a man. And it's not something I try to do. It just comes natural. This was before I ever did anything with a male. I felt deep down inside that I could love another male on all levels, just as if I had already done it.

And for the sake of theory: if you say that it's impossible for a person to be born gay, you are contradicting the bible right there. Because the bible even says that man is "born in sin, and shaped in iniquity..."




Fire I understand where you are coming from but your logic is not making much sense to me.

One thing the so called gay Christians will never bring up is the fact that if you firmly believe you were born that way then you are saying that it was God's will to make you born sexual immoral. Seriously think about what you are saying and to all the Christians who support homosexuals think about what you are listening to. The bible is filled with stories how God finds sexual immorality as offending and immoral as it can possible get. How many hundreds of words do we have to read about sexually immoral people and how they are a abomination,how they won't inherit the kingdom of God,how they deceive and poison Gods word,etc. Sodom and Gomorrah was the only bible story in which God was so angry he burned them up with fire and brimstone. He was so angry he didn't even want anyone to even look at those people being burned.

Telling my you are born that way is frankly so insulting to God's way of thinking it is beyond absurd. The idea that God would find homosexuality so repulsive and immoral yet make millions of people homosexual at birth as if it was something he thought is good and right. is crazy.

How many millions of men can use the same argument for sleeping around with women as "they were born that way" because they were always worked up and wanted to have sex. It seems totally logical if a man wakes up with a erection that has to mean that God is saying we need to be having sex on a daily basis.

Everyone has sexual desires straight or homosexual. Nobody is controlling our body or our mind,making us pick up the phone,and calling people to have sex with them. Nobody is picking us up out of bed,driving us down the road,and putting us into a room with another person to have sex with them. Everything you do is by your own action and yours alone. You have the free will to say NO to a person if it is against your Christian beliefs. You have the free will to not sleep around and have homosexual relationships even if you desire them. We are all faced with sexual desires yet we do not act on them because we know it is not only morally wrong in society but it is morally wrong in Gods eyes.

I am also not buying that homosexual tendencies are 50/50. If that was the case we could probably safely assume that 1 out of every 2 people born would have homosexual tendencies and act out on them sooner or later. I think studies have shown that the total number of people who claim they are homosexuals are less then 2% of the population of America. As someone who spent 13 years in Seattle(which has the largest number of homosexuals only second to San Francisco)I can tell you I learned a great deal about them. I also dated a girl for over 3 years who later told me she was a committed lesbian for over 8 years before she met me. I found that the majority of women who were lesbians nearly always started with two best friends drinking alcohol,ended up in the same room together drunk,and started playing around and just keep the relationship going out of mainly sexual pleasure. I have found the majority of gay men had a long history of rejection by women,could never find women interested in them,and out of desperation to be loved decided to explore their bi-sexual side.

I really don't care what the reasons are when someone says they are homosexual. They can say they were born that way or they can say they were just so lonely and someone of the same sex happened to be there at the right time and place. It makes no difference to me if two men are practicing sodomy or if it is a straight male having sodomy with his wife or girlfriend. It is crystal clear God finds them a abomination and they will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. You can read it from the Old testament or the New testament it is all the same. Furthermore you will not find a single word supporting homosexuality or sexual morality in any way shape or form. Christians who do these things straight or gay and Christians who support their sins are not Christians. They are worse than Godless atheists because they know the word and the truth yet disobey and ignore it. Homosexuals are telling God not only do they know they are sinning and rebelling against his word but they are going to make a lifelong commitment to be unrepentant sinners(as in gay marriage).

I know as a last resort you are going to tell me "Jesus loves me anyways". This is a lie. Jesus does not love sin or does he support sin in any way shape or form. Jesus does not love unrepentant sinners who rebel against Gods word. Jesus would not call homosexuals his friends or would he ignore the lifestyle they were living. Jesus would tell homosexuals they must turn away from sexual immorality and live a good and holy life. Jesus met many people including prostitutes and wicked people. He did not ignore their actions and associate with them regardless. He warned them and told them to repent. Once they did repent and were sincere in living a good and Holy life then he welcomed them as friends as he did with Mary. Then he washed away their old life and sins and made them new. Then he loved them.

You will not find a single verse where Jesus says he loves the wicked,he loves sinful people,he loves sexual immoral people and people who disobey God's word.







 

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You will not find a single verse where Jesus says he loves the wicked,he loves sinful people,he loves sexual immoral people and people who disobey God's word.

Hey Thomas. While I would maybe agree with you doctrinally, I'm afraid I have a problem with your last sentence.
Jesus indeed loves the wicked...He died for the wicked. And just because you and I are now seen as righteous in Gods eyes, it is all Christ's work, not ours. We are still sinful people, despite our daily efforts to flee from sin.

I am in no way saying that this gives anyone who claims to be Christian an excuse to continue sinning. You are right when you say that anyone who claims to love Jesus but sins willfully anyway, cannot truly have been given a new heart.

But we must not make people feel like they have to reach a certain standard before Jesus is willing to take their sins from them. Religion is what we have to do for our 'gods' and Christianity is what our God has done for us....sinful people that we are. That is why His grace is so amazing!
 

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I know as a last resort you are going to tell me "Jesus loves me anyways". This is a lie. Jesus does not love sin or does he support sin in any way shape or form. Jesus does not love unrepentant sinners who rebel against Gods word. Jesus would not call homosexuals his friends or would he ignore the lifestyle they were living. Jesus would tell homosexuals they must turn away from sexual immorality and live a good and holy life. Jesus met many people including prostitutes and wicked people. He did not ignore their actions and associate with them regardless. He warned them and told them to repent. Once they did repent and were sincere in living a good and Holy life then he welcomed them as friends as he did with Mary. Then he washed away their old life and sins and made them new. Then he loved them.

You will not find a single verse where Jesus says he loves the wicked,he loves sinful people,he loves sexual immoral people and people who disobey God's word.

I do agree that nobody is born gay, it is a behavior that is developed. I disagree with you about Jesus not loving unrepentant sinners.

For all have sinned; all fall short of God's glorious standard. Yet now God in his gracious kindness declares us not guilty. He has done this through Christ Jesus, who has freed us by taking away our sins. Romans 3:23&24

But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. Romans 5:8

For God in all his fullness was pleased to live in Christ, and by him God reconciled everything to himself. He made peace with everything in heaven and on earth by means of his blood on the cross. This includes you who were once so far away from God. You were his enemies, separated from him by your evil thoughts and actions, yet now he has brought you back as his friends. He has done this through his death on the cross in his own human body. As a result, he has brought you into the very presence of God, and you are holy and blameless as you stand before him without a single fault. Col.1:19-22
 

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For the people who say that no one can be born gay, what do you say about animals that are homosexual??? And before you try to dispute this FACT, feel free to look it up. Don't take my word for it, but several studies have shown that many species in the animal kingdom are genetically homosexual--from lions to birds. Some penguins even have homosexual families--where two male birds will raise a chick.

So what ydo you say about these gay animals? Do they have a homosexual spirit in them? Are they going to hell?

And what also do you say about human beings who were born as hermaphrodites, with both sexes, having to choose which one they feel most comfortable with?

What also happens to the soul of a person who gets a sex change procedure done on them? What if they accept Jesus AFTER they got the sex change? Are they damned to hell because they are living as the opposite sex? And what if a christian gets a sex change and changes his or her mind later on?

The Bible has spoken clearly and specifically about the sins of MANKIND. Diverting the subject to some other species doesn't change the fact that homosexuality IS FORBIDDEN. God considers it an abomination and those who practice it have no part in the kingdom of heaven.

You can justify this abhorrent behavior any way you want, but it doesn't wash with scripture or with God. It is a sin and it WILL be punished.
The basic nature of sin is to do things any way but God's way and to justify the filth any way that seems good.

The solution is to repent of it, turn away from it and honor God.
 

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I do agree that nobody is born gay, it is a behavior that is developed. I disagree with you about Jesus not loving unrepentant sinners.

For all have sinned; all fall short of God's glorious standard. Yet now God in his gracious kindness declares us not guilty. He has done this through Christ Jesus, who has freed us by taking away our sins. Romans 3:23&24

But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. Romans 5:8

For God in all his fullness was pleased to live in Christ, and by him God reconciled everything to himself. He made peace with everything in heaven and on earth by means of his blood on the cross. This includes you who were once so far away from God. You were his enemies, separated from him by your evil thoughts and actions, yet now he has brought you back as his friends. He has done this through his death on the cross in his own human body. As a result, he has brought you into the very presence of God, and you are holy and blameless as you stand before him without a single fault. Col.1:19-22

(1 John 3: 3 - 9) “Surely everyone who entertains this hope must purify himself, must try to be as pure as Christ. Any one who sins at all breaks the law, because to sin is to break the law. Now you know that He appeared in order to abolish sin, and that in Him there is no sin; anyone who lives in God does not sin, and anyone who sins has never seen Him or known Him. My children do not let anyone lead you astray; to live a holy life is to be holy just as He is holy; to lead a sinful life is to belong to the Devil, since the Devil was a sinner from the beginning. It was to undo all that the Devil has done that the Son of God appeared. No one who has been begotten by God sins: because God’s seed remains inside him, he cannot sin when he has been begotten by God.”





You notice what John fist says in this verse? “Must purify himself, must try to be as pure as Christ.”



Then John goes on to say: “Now you know that He appeared in order to abolish sin, and that in Him there is no sin; anyone who lives in God does not sin, and anyone who sins has never seen Him or known Him.”



(1 John 3:8) “He who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work”
 

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Fire I understand where you are coming from but your logic is not making much sense to me.

One thing the so called gay Christians will never bring up is the fact that if you firmly believe you were born that way then you are saying that it was God's will to make you born sexual immoral. Seriously think about what you are saying and to all the Christians who support homosexuals think about what you are listening to. The bible is filled with stories how God finds sexual immorality as offending and immoral as it can possible get. How many hundreds of words do we have to read about sexually immoral people and how they are a abomination,how they won't inherit the kingdom of God,how they deceive and poison Gods word,etc. Sodom and Gomorrah was the only bible story in which God was so angry he burned them up with fire and brimstone. He was so angry he didn't even want anyone to even look at those people being burned.

Telling my you are born that way is frankly so insulting to God's way of thinking it is beyond absurd. The idea that God would find homosexuality so repulsive and immoral yet make millions of people homosexual at birth as if it was something he thought is good and right. is crazy.

How many millions of men can use the same argument for sleeping around with women as "they were born that way" because they were always worked up and wanted to have sex. It seems totally logical if a man wakes up with a erection that has to mean that God is saying we need to be having sex on a daily basis.

Everyone has sexual desires straight or homosexual. Nobody is controlling our body or our mind,making us pick up the phone,and calling people to have sex with them. Nobody is picking us up out of bed,driving us down the road,and putting us into a room with another person to have sex with them. Everything you do is by your own action and yours alone. You have the free will to say NO to a person if it is against your Christian beliefs. You have the free will to not sleep around and have homosexual relationships even if you desire them. We are all faced with sexual desires yet we do not act on them because we know it is not only morally wrong in society but it is morally wrong in Gods eyes.

I am also not buying that homosexual tendencies are 50/50. If that was the case we could probably safely assume that 1 out of every 2 people born would have homosexual tendencies and act out on them sooner or later. I think studies have shown that the total number of people who claim they are homosexuals are less then 2% of the population of America. As someone who spent 13 years in Seattle(which has the largest number of homosexuals only second to San Francisco)I can tell you I learned a great deal about them. I also dated a girl for over 3 years who later told me she was a committed lesbian for over 8 years before she met me. I found that the majority of women who were lesbians nearly always started with two best friends drinking alcohol,ended up in the same room together drunk,and started playing around and just keep the relationship going out of mainly sexual pleasure. I have found the majority of gay men had a long history of rejection by women,could never find women interested in them,and out of desperation to be loved decided to explore their bi-sexual side.

I really don't care what the reasons are when someone says they are homosexual. They can say they were born that way or they can say they were just so lonely and someone of the same sex happened to be there at the right time and place. It makes no difference to me if two men are practicing sodomy or if it is a straight male having sodomy with his wife or girlfriend. It is crystal clear God finds them a abomination and they will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. You can read it from the Old testament or the New testament it is all the same. Furthermore you will not find a single word supporting homosexuality or sexual morality in any way shape or form. Christians who do these things straight or gay and Christians who support their sins are not Christians. They are worse than Godless atheists because they know the word and the truth yet disobey and ignore it. Homosexuals are telling God not only do they know they are sinning and rebelling against his word but they are going to make a lifelong commitment to be unrepentant sinners(as in gay marriage).

I know as a last resort you are going to tell me "Jesus loves me anyways". This is a lie. Jesus does not love sin or does he support sin in any way shape or form. Jesus does not love unrepentant sinners who rebel against Gods word. Jesus would not call homosexuals his friends or would he ignore the lifestyle they were living. Jesus would tell homosexuals they must turn away from sexual immorality and live a good and holy life. Jesus met many people including prostitutes and wicked people. He did not ignore their actions and associate with them regardless. He warned them and told them to repent. Once they did repent and were sincere in living a good and Holy life then he welcomed them as friends as he did with Mary. Then he washed away their old life and sins and made them new. Then he loved them.

You will not find a single verse where Jesus says he loves the wicked,he loves sinful people,he loves sexual immoral people and people who disobey God's word.

I will tell you like some people on here recently told me. Bitterness carries over in your writing--you can't hide it. You sound a little bitter. And the reason you misunderstand my logic is because you misread some of what I said. I didn't say the 50% of the world's populaion was gay. I was saying that for the people who profess to be homosexual (or bisexual), maybe 50% of them were born that way, and 50% were influenced through peer pressure. I really think that the percentage is higher for people who were born that way, but I was giving you all (who believe that no one is born such a way) the benefit of the doubt.

Your logic on how Jesus doesn't love sinners is what I don't understand. I don't even have time to point out all of the holes in this type of logic, but that is LEGALISM at best.

I do agree that it's possible that sexual sins are the worst sins that could be committed, because of the consequences. I personally believe that. I can just turn on the news and see the effects of rape and molestation. These are sex acts that are done against a person's will, which is at least equal to murder. I know how it feels to have been with someone intimately that I regretted later, and I knw the very dark and heavy cloud that hung over my head as a result (effects every part of your live). Because sex is such a deep thing, the negative consequences of wrong sex can be far reaching--moreso than any other act. But as you will probably hear many homosexuals explain, there is a difference between being intimate with someone who is not your psychic (not a new age term) equal and being intimate with someone who is, i.e. two consenting adults who love each other. You need not look any further than hetero relationships to know this difference.

Also, your argument on God not putting things on people that he doesn't want them to participate in, is also not very logical. You say that since God hates homosexuality, He would never make a person homo. whether He made it or allowed it, it was still His doing. Remember, G-d is ALL POWERFUL, all knowing, and everpresent. Now either, He is or the bible is a lie. But to fairly weigh this argument, you have to go back to the beginning (as you do with every biblical issue), and by doing this, I'm not diverting from the subject, because it's relevant to this situation. It was (apparently) not G-d's perfect "will" for mankind to fall into sin. Yet it was His plan. Why did G-d even place a seprent in the garden if He knew it what would happen (Would you as a father leave your children home with a babysitter who you knew had a bad track record?--just something to think about)? Why His plan isn't the same as His will, I don't know. But if you are really as serious about the bible as you say you are, you would not that the bible illustrates this theme all through the scriptures. Even the devil can do nothing unless G-d gives him permission. How's that for yor theology?
 

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I will tell you like some people on here recently told me. Bitterness carries over in your writing--you can't hide it. You sound a little bitter. And the reason you misunderstand my logic is because you misread some of what I said. I didn't say the 50% of the world's populaion was gay. I was saying that for the people who profess to be homosexual (or bisexual), maybe 50% of them were born that way, and 50% were influenced through peer pressure. I really think that the percentage is higher for people who were born that way, but I was giving you all (who believe that no one is born such a way) the benefit of the doubt.

Your logic on how Jesus doesn't love sinners is what I don't understand. I don't even have time to point out all of the holes in this type of logic, but that is LEGALISM at best.

I do agree that it's possible that sexual sins are the worst sins that could be committed, because of the consequences. I personally believe that. I can just turn on the news and see the effects of rape and molestation. These are sex acts that are done against a person's will, which is at least equal to murder. I know how it feels to have been with someone intimately that I regretted later, and I knw the very dark and heavy cloud that hung over my head as a result (effects every part of your live). Because sex is such a deep thing, the negative consequences of wrong sex can be far reaching--moreso than any other act. But as you will probably hear many homosexuals explain, there is a difference between being intimate with someone who is not your psychic (not a new age term) equal and being intimate with someone who is, i.e. two consenting adults who love each other. You need not look any further than hetero relationships to know this difference.

Also, your argument on God not putting things on people that he doesn't want them to participate in, is also not very logical. You say that since God hates homosexuality, He would never make a person homo. whether He made it or allowed it, it was still His doing. Remember, G-d is ALL POWERFUL, all knowing, and everpresent. Now either, He is or the bible is a lie. But to fairly weigh this argument, you have to go back to the beginning (as you do with every biblical issue), and by doing this, I'm not diverting from the subject, because it's relevant to this situation. It was (apparently) not G-d's perfect "will" for mankind to fall into sin. Yet it was His plan. Why did G-d even place a seprent in the garden if He knew it what would happen (Would you as a father leave your children home with a babysitter who you knew had a bad track record?--just something to think about)? Why His plan isn't the same as His will, I don't know. But if you are really as serious about the bible as you say you are, you would not that the bible illustrates this theme all through the scriptures. Even the devil can do nothing unless G-d gives him permission. How's that for yor theology?




I am not sure why you think I would be a bitter person on this subject. I am not bitter towards you are any other person because your fate is your own destiny and it makes no difference to me either way what you do with your life. Like most people I do care about my Christian faith deeply and like most Christians it is disturbing and upsetting to see how many people have been hijacking the Christian church to tell lies,to call the rights wrong and the wrongs right,and to erase bible verses so they can live a sinful unrepentant life and feel good about doing it. I do not come to these forums for popularity or to make friends. I come here for one reason. That reason is the speak the truth.

Jesus never said he would love you regardless of the way you were living your life. When Jesus came into the temple did he just walk up calmly to the people and say "please leave my fathers house"? No. He got very angry turned tables over,yelled at them,and said they turned his fathers house into a den of vipers,and told them to get out. Is that love?

Jesus said... 6 But he that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone should be hanged about his neck, and that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea. Matthew 18:6 Is that love?

How about these verses...

Matthew 23-13

13 “But woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You turn the key of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. For you do not go in yourselves, nor yet allow those who try to go in to do so. 14 Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You destroy widow’s houses, even while pretending to make long prayers; therefore you shall receive greater condemnation.”

15 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You scour land and sea to make a single convert, and, when he or she is gained, you make them twice as deserving of the pit as you are yourselves. 16 Woe to you, you blind guides! You say, ‘if any swear by the temple, it counts for nothing; but, if anyone swears by the gold of the temple, their oaths are binding’! 17 Fools that you are and blind! Which is the more important? The gold? Or the temple which has given sacredness to the gold?”

23 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You pay tithes on mint, fennel, and caraway seed, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice, mercy, and good faith. These last you ought to have put into practice, without neglecting the first. 24 You blind guides, to strain out a gnat and to swallow a camel! 25 Woe to you, teachers of law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You clean the outside of the cup and the dish, but inside they are filled with the results of greed and self-indulgence. 26 You blind Pharisee! First clean the inside of the cup and the dish, so that the outside may become clean as well.”

27 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You are like whitewashed tombs, which indeed look fair outside, while inside they are filled with dead men’s bones and all kinds of filth. 28 It is the same with you. Outwardly, and to others, you have the look of religious men, but inwardly you are full of hypocrisy and sin.”

29 “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, hypocrites that you are! You build the tombs of the prophets, and decorate the monuments of religious men, 30 and say: ‘Had we been living in the days of our ancestors, we would not have taken part in their murder of the prophets! 31 By doing this you are furnishing evidence against yourselves that you are true children of the men who murdered the prophets. 32 Thus you fill up the measure of your ancestor’s guilt.”





Jesus did not love and embrace someone and at the same time scold and call them hypocrites. If you read the bible and read the teachings of God and Jesus you will find they loved those who follow their words,followed Gods commandments,and refrained and repentant from sin. It is true that both God and Jesus will always have love and forgiveness open and ready for you if you are leading the lives they want you to live and they will always forgive your sins if you confess them. But what about the ones who don't repent? What about those who break God's laws. What about those who ignore the words of Jesus and live a life full of sin and lust? Does God and Jesus love them anyway? Here is what the bible has to say about it....

“As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent. Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne. He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches.” – Revelation 3:19-22


Thou dost HATE ALL who do iniquity. Psalms 5:5


"I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance." Luke 5:32,

If your brother sins, rebuke him . Luke 17:3 -

let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death, and will cover a multitude of sins. James 5:20

One who says, “I know him,” and doesn’t keep his commandments, is a liar, and the truth isn’t in him. 1 John 2:4

Do not have fellowship with sin, but reprove it. Ephesians 5:11 -

Whoever remains in him doesn’t sin. Whoever sins hasn’t seen him, neither knows him. I John 3:6

"Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 7:21.

For if God did not spare angels when they sinned, but cast them into hell and committed them to chains of gloomy darkness to be kept until the judgment; 2 Peter 2:4


"For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven." Matthew 5:20.

I tell you, no, but unless you repent, you will all perish in the same way. Luke 13:3

But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin. 8 If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we haven’t sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us. I John 1:7-10 7

Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, 20 idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, 21 envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God. Galatians 5:19-21

7 Even as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities around them, having, in the same way as these, given themselves over to sexual immorality and gone after strange flesh, are set forth as an example, suffering the punishment of eternal fire. (Jude 1:7)

Revelation of John 21:8 8 But for the cowardly, unbelieving, sinners, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their part is in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”" Revelation of John 21:8


4 You adulterers and adulteresses, don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? Whoever therefore wants to be a friend of the world makes himself an enemy of God. James 4:4)




God has always been in control of both the Heavens and the Earth from the start of time. Everything he has done he has done it for a reason. We many never know why he allowed the serpent in the garden to test Eve. I think it is clear from reading the bible that God brings test to his people to see if they are faithful,good,and honoring to him. The book of Job is a prime example of God allowing Satan to test Job. God telling Abraham to sacrifice Isaac was another test. God allowed Satan to test Jesus after 40 days of fasting. In any case God is allowing you to make a choice. It was not Gods fault that men and women did not do what he told them to do. We all have choices to make and it is up to do the right thing. God allows sin because he promised us free will. That free will is to do either good or bad. We can use our free will to honor good,rebuke sin,and live a good life or we can use it to dishonor good and embrace sin. With out sin everyone would be clean and holy regardless of what they were doing.
 

Duckybill

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The issue should not be if someone is born gay. It should be how they are when/if they die.

1 Corinthians 6:9-10 (NKJV)
[sup]9 [/sup]Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, [sup]10 [/sup]nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God.
 

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Jesus never said he would love you regardless of the way you were living your life. When Jesus came into the temple did he just walk up calmly to the people and say "please leave my fathers house"? No. He got very angry turned tables over,yelled at them,and said they turned his fathers house into a den of vipers,and told them to get out. Is that love?

We are told that God IS love, which means that Jesus is love. Not that He shows love, feels love, promotes love...no, He IS love. Which means that whatever His actions, they were ultimately loving actions. If a sinner needed healing and a word of encouragement, Jesus gave it. If a sinner needed harsh criticism, a verbal slap in the face, then Jesus gave it. But always with love, because it was love that desired these people to turn from their rebellious ways.
All the Bible verses you gave, yeah, it totally supports the fact that God does not approve of sin...indeed it is vile to His very nature. But all of us sin, all of us fall short...maybe not all of us suffer from sexual sin, but we all stumble...most likely on a daily or hourly basis. God loves us all, despite it, and God is patient with all, calling everyone to repent up until the very end. Only the greatest of love would make Him patiently endure all the rebellion and sin...even those who harden their hearts until the last moment.

[9] The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance.
(2 Peter 3:9 ESV)


Not all will walk that narrow road, but the call is to all, the love and forgiveness and grace is offered to all...
 

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(1 John 3: 3 - 9) “Surely everyone who entertains this hope must purify himself, must try to be as pure as Christ. Any one who sins at all breaks the law, because to sin is to break the law. Now you know that He appeared in order to abolish sin, and that in Him there is no sin; anyone who lives in God does not sin, and anyone who sins has never seen Him or known Him. My children do not let anyone lead you astray; to live a holy life is to be holy just as He is holy; to lead a sinful life is to belong to the Devil, since the Devil was a sinner from the beginning. It was to undo all that the Devil has done that the Son of God appeared. No one who has been begotten by God sins: because God’s seed remains inside him, he cannot sin when he has been begotten by God.”





You notice what John fist says in this verse? “Must purify himself, must try to be as pure as Christ.”



Then John goes on to say: “Now you know that He appeared in order to abolish sin, and that in Him there is no sin; anyone who lives in God does not sin, and anyone who sins has never seen Him or known Him.”



(1 John 3:8) “He who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work”

Not sure what your post has to do with the context of my post? Christ laid down His life for us while we were sinners and we are made pure because of what Jesus did on the cross, tis what it means to be justified, not guilty.
 

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Not all will walk that narrow road, but the call is to all, the love and forgiveness and grace is offered to all...
Indeed.

Matthew 7:14 (NKJV)
[sup]14 [/sup]Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are FEW who find it.

Jesus gave us clues as to how many FEW is. As it was in the days of Noah ... As it was in the days of Lot ...

Matthew 24:37 (NKJV)
[sup]37 [/sup] so also will the coming of the Son of Man be.