pandaflower
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Aisha was in fact 6 years old when Muhammad took her to wife.Concerning the Prophet’s marriage to Aisha:
The Prophet (sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam)’s first (and only) wife for twenty-five years was Khadija bint Khuwaylid (Radi Allahu ‘anha). She was a successful businesswoman in her own right, and Muhammad’s employer before their marriage.
Khadija proposed to Muhammad when he was 25 years old. She was fifteen years his senior. They had six to eight children (the precise number is disputed).
Khadija died in November 619 CE.
ʿĀʾishah’s father was Abu Bakr Abdullah ibn Uthman Abi Quhafa, one of the first converts to Islam, and one of the prophet’s closest companions. Following the latter’s death in death in 632, Abu Bakr became the first of the ‘Rashidun’ (the ‘Rightly Guided’ Caliphs).
Two years after the death of Khadija, the Prophet was living alone with three of his daughters. He was approach by Khawlah bint Hakim, who asked if he wished to re-marry. This meeting took place in late 621 CE.
Khawlah suggested two options; ʿĀʾishah, and Sawdah bint Zam’a, a widow, whose husband had died after their migration to Abyssinia – to escape persecution at the hands of the Quraysh of Mecca.
At Mohammad’s request, Khawla first approached Sawdah bint Zam’a and her family. Sawdah agreed to the marriage, but her family objected.
Khawlah then approached Abu Bakr.
Abu Bakr agreed to this marriage, and so ʿĀʾishah and Muhammad became engaged. This was in 622 CE.
They were married some two years later.
In Islam, marriage is a legal contract between a man and a woman. The marriage is invalid without the freely-given consent of both parties; regardless of their social status.
Consent cannot be obtained from those who are legally unable to give it, such as those who, for various reasons, are incapable of sound judgement
Shaykh Seyyed Hossein Nasr defines ‘sound judgement’ as:
‘Possession of a correctly functioning rational faculty, a healthy and upstanding character, an understanding of how to manage property, and sound religion to the degree that one no longer requires custodial care.’ (‘The Study Quran: A New Translation and Commentary).
Under the marriage contract, the husband has sole financial responsibility for the welfare and maintenance of his family. He must meet their every need. His wife – no matter how great her personal wealth – is not obliged to spend so much as a dime (or its equivalent) upon her husband or children. She may own property and assets in her own right, and her husband has no claim to any of this, save by her freely given consent.
By the way, this is why – under Islamic inheritance laws – a husband inherits twice as much as his wife. His financial obligations are so much greater than hers.
A wife is expected to manage the financial affairs of her family; to ensure that the income provided by her husband is not wasted.
ʿĀʾishah had a sister (Asmā') who died around 695 CE, at the age of 100. (cf. Ibn Hajar Al Asqalani’s: ‘Taqreeb al-Tehzeeb’).
Al Asqalani’s narrative is supported by Abdurrahman bin Ebi Zinad el-Medeni’; Ibn Hajar; and Ibn Kathir.
At the time of the Hijri (622 CE), Asmā' was 27 years old. She was 10 years older than ʿĀʾishah. This means that ʿĀʾishah was 17 at the time of the Hijri; and 19 or 20 at the time of her marriage to Muhammad.
I hope you will agree that a young woman of 19 or 20 is more likely to satisfy the requirements of an Islamic contract of marriage than a child of 6 or 9.
Blessings.
He allegedly waited until she was nine years old so to consumate the marriage.
This fact is in the Hadith and according to Aisha herself.
So called Muslim Scholars claim of this being perfectly acceptable at the time is that children developed earlier back then. Which is nonsense. It's an excuse for pedophilia.
Muslims are leaving Islam. Often because Jesus reaches out to them in dreams and visions.
Islams roots are Judaism and Christianity.
Muhammad was an illiterate merchant.
He dictated the Quran to scribes from his death bed. A bed he found himself in because the widow woman whose husband he'd murdered years before was slowly poisoning him. (*Edit to add: The woman was his slave,cook)
Muhammad wasn't too smart.
Muhammad did not write the Hadith.
True Islam - History Hadith 1
True Islam is derived from the Quran and not from the traditions or cultures of Muslim people
www.quran-islam.org
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