I support freedom and personal choice. I do not want to live under a theocracy. Therefore, religious doctrine should NOT be used to regulate another's behavior, such as same-sex relations or marriage. I DO support laws that protect being victimized by another. For example, murder, assault, abortion, etc. should be ILLEGAL because they adversely affect an innocent, third-party. Same-sex marriage does not.
Frankly, the government should NOT be in the marriage "business". Why should citizens have to pay a fee to the government to get a marriage license? State governments should get OUT. Then, two consenting, competent adults can get "married" within their private organization and they can tell us everyone they're "married" and we can choose to recognize it or ignore it. Courts can continue to deal with marital issues as they are the arbitrator for all sorts of contracts, including marriage.
As well, I will remind my Christian friends that, God gave us free will to make our own choices. Who are we to restrict another's free will by imposing laws against behavior that doesn't affect us in the slightest? While we're at it, I also believe that prostitution, drug use and gambling should also be legal.
ok, I think that I kind of see your point now, after reading a few more of your comments.
I've often said that God does not intervene when man is about to commit a sin (rape, kidnap, genocide, etc..), because at what point does the intervention stop, eg; stealing, verbal abuse, impatience, a dirty thought, ...? Love and devotion to God must be free.
But, this is God's universe, not the governments. The government has a need to recognize God's wisdom, jurisprudence, sovereignty and supremacy, despite the fact that they never will. Meaning, God's laws still hold at any level, or rather, they are always the right judgement, adhered to or not. God does not prohibit capriciously, it is always in the best interest of others.
Homosexuality and overt perversions affects everybody. Kids are influenced, the impressionable always try to emulate the latest trend. Perversions and vices typically escalate in frequency or degree, and are insatiable. Bad behaviour invariably destroys good character, and typically, takes others with them. It is a governments job to recognize God's supremacy, and to protect their citizens from all forms of threats, physical and mental.