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@TitusTwoWife inspired me to start this thread from her home ministry thread, as well as a vid from Akkad Daily, who pointed out that today's boss babe women have taken on the role of husband. In short, good men tend not to want to be wives. The answer to the common lament, where are all the good men, is simple; they're avoiding bad women who ask such a question. Like a cake, a good man is not found in a state of nature. A cake has to be made and so does a relationship with a man.
The pathway is to stroke a man's ego, which today's feminist women refuse to do on principle! The principle makes their quest self-defeating. I'm reminded of the song, If I Knew You Were Comin' I'D 'VE Baked a Cake. Like field of dreams, if you build it, they will come. The good man will appear before your very eyes.
Excerpts from the lyrics:
Denzel Washington revered his wife when he won an acting award. This is what all women want but sadly, today's women want the accolades BEFORE putting in the work of stroking the man's ego. Denzel was a drug addict and his wife stood by her man, saved his life. THEN he became successful and publicly revered his wife.
Women who ask the question, where have all the good men gone, treat having a relationship with a man like a job interview, where she puts herself as the head, usurping the man's role from the start. Such sense of entitlement proves they are spoiled and unworthy. What's that you say?
The pathway is to stroke a man's ego, which today's feminist women refuse to do on principle! The principle makes their quest self-defeating. I'm reminded of the song, If I Knew You Were Comin' I'D 'VE Baked a Cake. Like field of dreams, if you build it, they will come. The good man will appear before your very eyes.
Excerpts from the lyrics:
And spread the welcome mat for you
Oh, I don't know where you came from
'cause I don't know where you've been
But it really doesn't matter
Grab a chair and fill your platter
And dig, dig, dig right in
Denzel Washington revered his wife when he won an acting award. This is what all women want but sadly, today's women want the accolades BEFORE putting in the work of stroking the man's ego. Denzel was a drug addict and his wife stood by her man, saved his life. THEN he became successful and publicly revered his wife.
Women who ask the question, where have all the good men gone, treat having a relationship with a man like a job interview, where she puts herself as the head, usurping the man's role from the start. Such sense of entitlement proves they are spoiled and unworthy. What's that you say?
- A ready made good man doesn't want or need a woman who asks such a question. He's looking for a woman to accompany him on the journey, like Denzel's wife.
- What is your value proposition? What do you offer good men? Certainly not humility or encouragement.
- There are many vids of match makers who give up on delusional women who only seek a perfect man while offering little in return.
- A good man will have expectations of his partner, reject one-way-ships today's feminists seek.
- Ask not what your husband can do for you, ask what you can do for your husband.
- Be careful what you wish for. A high value man has high expectations of those around him. Are women prepared to meet his expectations and pay the consequences when they don't? Or will they dismiss it; categorize such constructive feedback as controlling, abusive, misogynistic?
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