is being sad or expressing how you feel bad?

[quietthinker]

It's called being polite which you obviously don't know anything about.

Control A_R is anything but polite....in fact it is oppressive. The lack of recognition of the nature of this behaviour indicates you need to learn. If you would like to know and where it comes from you might look into how CoDependency manifests, what it means and how it impacts yourself and those you interact with.

There are some good authors on this stuff. John Bradshaw in his book on 'The Family' is not a bad place to start....its quiet riveting.

There you go matey, that's the straightest shot I can give you.

 

[Sabertooth]

@lilygrace, I have been involved in and have received deliverance at different times.

Two possibilities exist:

1. You are conventionally sad and wish to express yourself, and
   
2. A demon can mess with you without you recognizing it and make you feel like it is #1.

#2 is especially true, if you never experienced deliverance before. It is very freeing and, afterwards, it is easier to consider whenever you might need it again.

 

[TLHKAJ]

please just leave me alone. i dont want to be here anymore

I'm glad you're here, sis.
*hugs*

 

[Sabertooth]

(BTW, "It might be demonic" is not an accusation. It is a diagnosis.)

 

[TLHKAJ]

@lilygrace, I have been involved in and have received deliverance at different times.

Two possibilities exist:

1. You are conventionally sad and wish to express yourself, and
   
2. A demon can mess with you without you recognizing it and make you feel like it is #1.

#2 is especially true, if you never experienced deliverance before. It is very freeing and, afterwards, it is easier to consider whenever you might need it again.

Sometimes this is all that is needed, brother....

 

[TLHKAJ]

(BTW, "It might be demonic" is not an accusation. It is a diagnosis.)

We all come under attack now and then. And those who are a threat to satan, come under more severe attack.

 

[DuckieLady]

Judgmental Christians who have no love or empathy for their own. I am sorry, no-one can hurt you like another Christian! When yo are sad, or hurt, your fellow Christians should comfort you, lift you up, pray with and for you, not JUDGE!
It only matters what He says about you sister, and He say's YOU ARE LOVED!
xo

^^ This

It's not normal for people to be saying these things... and it's not right. Sometimes people don't want to face the reality that part of living in the world is that there is difficulty in the world. We all go through it. You have lots and lots of people here that care about you. <3

 

[Pearl]

when im sad or say how something hurt me i am accused of having a bad spirit. or a bad spirit is attacking me.

Who is accusing you? We're all sad sometimes specially if something sad happens in our lives, and it's okay to be sad - even Jesus was sad and wept. I sometimes feel sad for no apparent reason but that's okay too. As long as we aren't wallowing in our sadness.

 

[April_Rose]

Control A_R is anything but polite....in fact it is oppressive. The lack of recognition of the nature of this behaviour indicates you need to learn. If you would like to know and where it comes from you might look into how CoDependency manifests, what it means and how it impacts yourself and those you interact with.

There are some good authors on this stuff. John Bradshaw in his book on 'The Family' is not a bad place to start....its quiet riveting.

There you go matey, that's the straightest shot I can give you.

NEWSFLASH!!! You're literally the only one on this thread to think I'm controlling the rest of the people in here know I'm being polite by not wanting to derail her thread,.. you're the one who needs to learn to control your tongue not me and to not derail this thread any further I will not be responding to you any further. My sincere apologies to @lilygrace for the derailing of your thread, everybody else may proceed. *Hugs*

 

[lilygrace]

NEWSFLASH!!! You're literally the only one on this thread to think I'm controlling the rest of the people in here know I'm being polite by not wanting to derail her thread,.. you're the one who needs to learn to control your tongue not me and to not derail this thread any further I will not be responding to you any further. My sincere apologies to @lilygrace for the derailing of your thread, everybody else may proceed. *Hugs*

tbh a lot of this drifted to people everyone seeming t0 derail it, it's probably my fault. I feel agitated
It happened to my other thread about adult children getting own homes, etc.

 

[lilygrace]

tbh a lot of this drifted to people everyone seeming t0 derail it, it's probably my fault. I feel agitated
It happened to my other thread about adult children getting own homes, etc.

i feel like people like playing devil's advocate more than how they really feel

 

[quietthinker]

NEWSFLASH!!! You're literally the only one on this thread to think I'm controlling the rest of the people in here know I'm being polite by not wanting to derail her thread,.. you're the one who needs to learn to control your tongue not me and to not derail this thread any further I will not be responding to you any further. My sincere apologies to @lilygrace for the derailing of your thread, everybody else may proceed. *Hugs*

CoDependency is rampant in society......and very few understand it or care to understand what its nature is let alone do something about it. Little wonder medications are consumed by the truck load.

 

[April_Rose]

tbh a lot of this drifted to people everyone seeming t0 derail it, it's probably my fault. I feel agitated
It happened to my other thread about adult children getting own homes, etc.

No it's not your fault,.. some people just don't know how to hold their tongue. *HUGS*

 

[amadeus]

when im sad or say how something hurt me i am accused of having a bad spirit. or a bad spirit is attacking me.

I am praying for you and your situation now dear sister in Christ!