Luke 11:42
42 “But woe to you Pharisees! For you tithe mint and rue and all manner of herbs, and pass by justice and the love of God. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone.
John 13:15
15 For I have given you an example, that you should do as I have done to you.
John 16:1
1 “These things I have spoken to you, that you should not be made to stumble.
Romans 7:4
4 Therefore, my brethren, you also have become dead to the law through the body of Christ, that you may be married to another—to Him who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to God.
When I used "should," I wasn't speaking from God's side, but from ours. God commands us to obey, yes, but the believer is not compelled by God to do so and, often, chooses not to obey. Hence, I say that a Christian should obey God, not that they will obey Him.
I hope you know that Romans 7:4 is speaking about The Law.....not good works.
We are dead to the Mosaic Law.
Otherwise Matthew 5:20 makes no sense:
20 "For I say to you that unless * your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.
After Jesus, the Civil Law and the Ceremonial Law were abolished.
The MORAL LAW will NEVER be abolished and is in effect to this day.
If the Moral Law is still in effect, we cannot say that a Christian SHOULD obey God.
Why is this difficult to understand??
We do NOT have a choice.
We are REQUIRED to obey God.
When we don't it's a sin, we ask forgiveness, and carry on.
Should means we could choose NOT to obey,,,
sin willfully, and not worry too much because we have a choice.
Now, you may be meaning that God does not FORCE us to obey Him.
IF this is what you mean, then I agree with you.
However, the wording you use is not in keeping with what Jesus taught.
Remember that He taught that those that ACT ON HIS WORDS are wise.
Those that do NOT ACT ON HIS WORDS are foolish and will be carried away in a storm.
Being carried away is not a good metaphor to be connected to.
Better to be like the wise man who acted on the words of Jesus and did not get carried away by a flood/storm.
Jesus said:
Matthew 7:21
21 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter.
Those that do the will of the Father will enter into the Kingdom.
Let's let this be an important point.