If someone came to you and told you. that you where going to hell, what do you think you would do if you where not a christian, I know what I would say. And than why should they listen to you. God loves you so you are going to hell, Really good message about God,
You haven't really read my posts about the gospel, have you?
No Christian worker in their right mind, unless they are a zealot, would say that right up front to an unsaved person. That is the very reason why many unsaved people are "ruined" for any further gospel approach! We don't put the net right in front of the bird! Before we can say that if they are not prepared for the judgment, they
could go to hell, only when they have been tested concerning their goodness in the light of the Ten Commandments and realise that they are not good, and then asked if they were found guilty in the judgment would they go to heaven or hell, they would usually answer "hell" themselves, and all you have to do is to agree with them. Then once they realise that if there is a judgment they would probably go to hell, I would ask them how they felt about that, and usually they would answer that they don't feel good about it, but a little scared. Then I can show them the way out through what Jesus did on the cross for them - that He took the penalty for their sin so when they come to judgment they will have no fear of it because they have their "parachute" so they can "land" safely and not fall right down into the pit of hell because of their sins.
But if you present God's love first, all you are doing is giving them a mental image of a fuzzy wuzzy lovey dovey God that they can feel comfortable with instead of the God of the Bible who is a God of justice which needs to be seen first; and this mental image of God is idolatry, because it is not the God of the Bible. I wonder if your God is your comfortable mental image of God instead of the true and living God of the Bible?
This could explain your opposition to the gospel that I am presenting and supporting.