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@Reggie Belafonte Are any of your family into martial arts, though....?
All of us are. not my wife tho, and she did not really like that her baby's learnt such, only because she did not want them to get the upper hand over her, but she is willing to have a go at anyone. Her old next door neighbour claimed at a party some rubbish that she will rule the roost in my family and over me, that was the intent they claimed. I just looked at them ! said nothing, they do not know me, I am not Andy Pandy. respect for each other is a two way street tho. My bubs would ask who is the boss, no one is the boss !
In Judo or Ju jitsu it's not about dominating or wining, it's about understanding, quality of character. Avoiding internal conflict regarding oneself or others is mastered. It's about being educated on the subjects at hand and proven. No boasting ! boasting has no power to drive it's self in reality, but for fools boasting strengthens the ego.
Being Tattooed does nothing at all for one, not one.