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Dodo_David

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Getting back to the topic of the OP, nowhere in the New Testament are believers in Messiah Jesus required to celebrate the birth of Jesus or to exchange gifts in celebration of the Messiah's birth. At the same time, the New Testament doesn't forbid such actions either.

Colossians 2:16 (ESV): "Therefore let no one pass judgment on you in questions of food and drink, or with regard to a festival or a new moon or a Sabbath."
 

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Dodo, for me it comes down to two things: First, December 25th is not his birthday and Jesus said those that must worship in spirit and in truth. Second, the evidence is pretty strong that that date was picked to coincide with a pagan festival. I don't believe in "christianizing" paganism. That's why I don't do it.

You're quote of Col 2:16 is about the strongest scripture I have seen in support of celebrating Christmas. Good job! However, I don't think Paul was supporting celebrating false doctrine. He was as big on truth as Jesus was.

That was the serious part of my post.... This is also truthful, but not quite as serious:

1. The Bible doesn't say there were three wise men.
2. They weren't there for Jesus' birthday.
3. They did it only once!
 

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FHII said:
This is also truthful, but not quite as serious:

1. The Bible doesn't say there were three wise men.
2. They weren't there for Jesus' birthday.
3. They did it only once!
I believe that #2 should be "They weren't there for Jesus' birth."
 

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Perhaps you might try gently explaining to your nephew that, for children, the Gospel is beautifully expressed in the idea that their father so loves them that even while they lay wrapped in the darkness of slumber he was busy at work bringing them a joyous gift, wrapped in sheets of white, tied up in scarlet ribbons, with their names carefully inscribed, a gift that can only be opened with the dawning of light.

It might be years before they fully understand and appreciate that simple Christmas message … but they will forever remember it.

As for the rest of the comments to your post, all the scriptural and historical evidence supports the date of December 25 as the actual date of Jesus’ nativity, attested to in Christian writings dating back to within 50 years of the Apostles.

In Christ,
Pilgrimer
 

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Pilgrimer said:
As for the rest of the comments to your post, all the scriptural and historical evidence supports the date of December 25 as the actual date of Jesus’ nativity, attested to in Christian writings dating back to within 50 years of the Apostles.

In Christ,
Pilgrimer

Hmmmmm........ :blink:
 

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Pilgrimer said:
Perhaps you might try gently explaining to your nephew that, for children, the Gospel is beautifully expressed in the idea that their father so loves them that even while they lay wrapped in the darkness of slumber he was busy at work bringing them a joyous gift, wrapped in sheets of white, tied up in scarlet ribbons, with their names carefully inscribed, a gift that can only be opened with the dawning of light.

It might be years before they fully understand and appreciate that simple Christmas message … but they will forever remember it.

As for the rest of the comments to your post, all the scriptural and historical evidence supports the date of December 25 as the actual date of Jesus’ nativity, attested to in Christian writings dating back to within 50 years of the Apostles.

In Christ,
Pilgrimer
Not true.... NO scriptural evidence supports Dec 25th, and nearly ALL historical evidence states that Dec 25th was picked due to pagan influences. Furthermore, the Christian writings you are referring to are closer to 100 years away from the Apostles and NOT based at all on what the Apostles said, making them virtually meaningless.
 

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The topic of this thread is about children and whether to celebrate christmas or not

Often it is Christians themselves who are against celebrating with gift giving

Guess what sometimes happens .... the idea backfires

Kids are not fools and in their little minds they wish their parents were not "weird religious" and it makes them think dumping the parents religion would be the solution to the issue.

Furthermore it puts the kids in the same category as the JW's , muslims, hindus, jews who do not celebrate christmas and gift giving.

I dislike the commercialization of christmas but getting rid of it would be even worse . Can you imagine a world without christmas ??
 

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Arnie Manitoba said:
The topic of this thread is about children and whether to celebrate christmas or not

Often it is Christians themselves who are against celebrating with gift giving
Really? I figure the majority of christians are all for it.


Arnie Manitoba said:
Furthermore it puts the kids in the same category as the JW's , muslims, hindus, jews who do not celebrate christmas and gift giving.

Yea.... Makes them "peculiar people" doesn't it? It sets them apart from the world and lets the world know they stand with God.


Arnie Manitoba said:
I dislike the commercialization of christmas but getting rid of it would be even worse . Can you imagine a world without christmas ??

Why do you dislike it? Could it be because you think it's wrong? If that's the case why are you doing something you think and know is wrong? Did you think being a Christian and doing what is right would be easy and acceptable to society?
 

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Getting back to the topic of the OP ...

Why should one adult interfere with the parental duties of another adult if the latter is not inflicting harm on the latter's children?
 

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Dodo_David said:
Getting back to the topic of the OP ...

Why should one adult interfere with the parental duties of another adult if the latter is not inflicting harm on the latter's children?

That is basically what I said in Option #1 of my original post. :rolleyes:
 

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FHII said:
Why do you dislike it? Could it be because you think it's wrong? If that's the case why are you doing something you think and know is wrong? Did you think being a Christian and doing what is right would be easy and acceptable to society?
When I say I dislike the commercialization of it it is because it has become a lot more about presents than about the birth of a Savior .... in the "Olden Days" it was more about celebrating a Savior , and the accompanying joyfulness and Hymns , with a few gifts here and there.
 

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Pilgrimer said:
As for the rest of the comments to your post, all the scriptural and historical evidence supports the date of December 25 as the actual date of Jesus’ nativity, attested to in Christian writings dating back to within 50 years of the Apostles.
I think it is a case of you want to believe that. In scripture it talks about shepherds being in a field watching their flock by night.

In December in Palestine it is winter and very often snow. That being the case, the shepherds would not keep their sheep outdoors in fields and that being the case, it must have been at a time when the temperatures were warmer.

That is why most scholars put the date somewhere in October.
 

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FHII said:
Not true.... NO scriptural evidence supports Dec 25th, and nearly ALL historical evidence states that Dec 25th was picked due to pagan influences. Furthermore, the Christian writings you are referring to are closer to 100 years away from the Apostles and NOT based at all on what the Apostles said, making them virtually meaningless.
The truth is that when we look at actual historical documents they do in fact support a December birth. You may call the writings of a Christian theologian that date to within 100 years of the Apostles “meaningless” and toss it in the trash if that’s the way you treat historical documents, but like it or not it does prove that the earliest Christians did in fact believe that Jesus was born on December 25.

So where is your evidence that they only picked that date because of pagan influences? Where is your 1900-year old document proving such a slanderous accusation? Bring it forth and let’s look it over.

In Christ,
Pilgrimer
marksman said:
I think it is a case of you want to believe that.
Actually that’s not true. As a young Christian I was stung by the words of some rather nasty folks to whom I naively showed every kindness and invited into my home to share coffee and Bible study when they accused me before my young children of “idolatry” for celebrating Christmas. So I determined to look into the matter and try, to the best of my ability, to determine the truth. It was of no consequence to me when Jesus was born, it only mattered that my walk with Christ through this life be as true and pure as a sincere and earnest hunger to know the truth could afford.

I do not defend the date that Christians have held as that of our Lord’s birth since the beginning of the faith because I want it to be so, but because I am convinced after years of study that it is in fact so. For me, truth is more important than some church or some men’s doctrine, and especially doctrines that are handed down from some kind of law-giver, whether it’s men in robes in cathedrals in Rome or men in suits in offices in Brooklyn.

marksman said:
In scripture it talks about shepherds being in a field watching their flock by night. In December in Palestine it is winter and very often snow. That being the case, the shepherds would not keep their sheep outdoors in fields and that being the case, it must have been at a time when the temperatures were warmer.
And where did you get this idea? Scripture also says that Jacob tended Laban’s sheep for 20 years and he was in the fields with the sheep in the drought of summer and in the frosty nights, so day and night year round. And in two different tractates of early Jewish writings it specifically states that during 2nd Temple times sheep laid out in the summer and in the rainy season.

Have you ever been to Bethlehem on Christmas Eve? Ever seen pictures of the midnight mass celebrated at Manger Square? The average nighttime low in Bethlehem on Christmas Eve is 42 degrees. Google it and check for yourself. Now are you honestly going to argue that 42 degrees is too cold for wool covered sheep to be outside? Why don’t you google “Christmas Eve Manger Square” images and take a look at the pictures. Not just one or two, but dozens. Then come back and tell us how people, even women and children, can be outside, dressed in rather light jackets and winter wear, and yet it’s too cold for wooly sheep to be outside!

marksman said:
That is why most scholars put the date somewhere in October.
Most scholars?” The December 25 date has 2000 years of Christian scholarship, the finest Christian thinkers and theologians since the Apostle Paul. What scholars are you referring to?

In Christ,
Pilgrimer
 

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Let's set the record straight on why Christmas is celebrated on December 25th. The winter solstice celebrations were popular in times when winter was hard and not as easily survived as it is today. People looked to the day when the days stopped getting shorter and started getting longer as a sign of hope, a harbinger of the coming Spring and warmer weather. Science has now given us a more specific date when this happens, usually the 21st or 22nd of December. But the concept is the same. Since we don't know the date Jesus was born, what a more fitting day than Solstice Day? Jesus is the harbinger of the dawning of the age of grace when people can come freely to the throne of God and receive salvation. 400 years of silence was broken when Gabriel said, "Hail thou, Full of Grace, the Lord is with thee!"

We can get so caught up in the Catholic Church attempting to displace the pagan Yule celebrations and miss the fact that if we were to pick a day to celebrate the Incarnation of God and the approaching redemption of man, there are no candidates more fitting than Solstice Day.
 

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Claimed it took away from the true meaning of Christmas. As such, his girls no longer get gifts at Christmas. I feel really bad for them. This guy has a good heart, but is making a huge mistake. Your kids only get one childhood. I feel bad because one day he'll wake up and realize that it was a mistake to rob these kids of Christmas.

Christmas is the day we celebrate the Nativity of our Lord Jesus Christ. Giving gifts or not giving gifts makes no difference when it comes to the meaning of Christmas. If our thoughts and affections are not with Jesus Christ on that day then we have robbed ourselves of Christmas.
 

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Pilgrimer said:
Have you ever been to Bethlehem on Christmas Eve? Ever seen pictures of the midnight mass celebrated at Manger Square? The average nighttime low in Bethlehem on Christmas Eve is 42 degrees. Google it and check for yourself. Now are you honestly going to argue that 42 degrees is too cold for wool covered sheep to be outside? Why don’t you google “Christmas Eve Manger Square” images and take a look at the pictures. Not just one or two, but dozens. Then come back and tell us how people, even women and children, can be outside, dressed in rather light jackets and winter wear, and yet it’s too cold for wooly sheep to be outside!
I read an article the other day about Syria written by someone who is there and they said that it was below freezing at night. As Syria is next to Israel, there must be some sort of barrier that lowers the temperature.

I had a look on the internet for photos of Jerusalem at Christmas and found a photo that I was going to post but couldn't for some reason but the photo of Jerusalem in December was covered in snow. It must be the only place on earth where snow does not melt in 40 degree heat.
This Vale Of Tears said:
Let's set the record straight on why Christmas is celebrated on December 25th. The winter solstice celebrations were popular in times when winter was hard and not as easily survived as it is today.
Pilgrimer said it was 42 degrees at Christmas so what is hard about that?

And here is an article from today's Jerusalem Post (31st Jan)

Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu recorded a Christmas greeting to Israel's Christian friends from a snowy Jerusalem, wishing them "the warmest Christmas greetings" from "the city of peace, Jerusalem."

"This is Jerusalem of gold, now it's Jerusalem of snow," Netanyahu said as snowflakes floated all around him.

"We celebrate Christmas with you. We know the importance you attach to our common heritage, to the State of Israel, and to the city of Jerusalem where so much of our common history was forged," he continued.

"We have a great past, we have common values, we have the desire to seize a common future of security, prosperity and peace," the prime minister added.

Pilgrimer said:
The truth is that when we look at actual historical documents they do in fact support a December birth. You may call the writings of a Christian theologian that date to within 100 years of the Apostles “meaningless” and toss it in the trash if that’s the way you treat historical documents, but like it or not it does prove that the earliest Christians did in fact believe that Jesus was born on December 25.
If they believed it was December 25th why is it not mentioned once in the scriptures?
 

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Elizabeth said:
Christmas is the day we celebrate the Nativity of our Lord Jesus Christ. Giving gifts or not giving gifts makes no difference when it comes to the meaning of Christmas. If our thoughts and affections are not with Jesus Christ on that day then we have robbed ourselves of Christmas.
Not exactly the most convincing of arguments. My thoughts and affections are with Jesus every day, so the Christmas special is a bit irrelevant, especially as it is not the day Christ was born. If we are going to celebrate anything, it might be a good idea to find out when it actually happened.

ATM it is a bit like someone asking me "We would like to remember your birthday so when is it" and I reply " Oh, any day of the year. I will let you decide."