Yet we are we told that the law,including the 10 commandments hang on Jesus's commandments, meaning the commandments are everything the have always been, commandments, and part of Christs 2 commandments...
Matthew 22:37-40 ...'Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.'
And if that doesn't convince you, there is no denying, a few verses prior to giving his 2 commandments, the man asked Christ what must he do in order to get to heaven, and Christ answered, keep the commandments.
Matthew 19:16-19
16 And, behold, one came and said unto him, Good Master, what good thing shall I do, that I may have eternal life?
17 And he said unto him, Why callest thou me good? there is none good but one, that is, God: but if thou wilt enter into life, keep the commandments.
18 He saith unto him, Which? Jesus said, Thou shalt do no murder, Thou shalt not commit adultery, Thou shalt not steal, Thou shalt not bear false witness,
19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
See, it confuses things for some to say the commanments were done away with, in that those who are newbs might get the idea they can break them as often as they like. I have seen that attitude before, and especially because there is every indication they were not done away with.
Sure, Christ simplified them in his 2 commandments, and we get that, but it may take some awhile to grasp the fact so till then they need the simple and easy to understand set of rules, that we will always know as and, will always be, The Ten commandments.
I do agree with most everything else you said in the post in question.
If you keep the two love commands you keep some of the ten commands, but for a completely different reason - however the two love commands far exceed the Decalogue in scope.
The ten commands as they pertain to our relationship with other people, are negative commands, that only limit 6 kinds of bad behavior, and they were kept out of fear of punishment - they had the death penalty by stoning, for breaking them.
There’s also not one drop of love for your neighbor commanded in the Decalogue.
Whereas the two love commands are positive commands, not negative ones.
If you love your neighbor as yourself, it’s true that you won’t kill him, steal from him, or lie against him, etc, and therefore in effect keep 6 of the ten command limitations on bad behavior - BUT if you love your neighbor as yourself, you’ll go far beyond a mere six negative commands in what harm you WONT do to your neighbor.
You won’t gossip about him for one example - and there’s no OT command that says thou shalt not gossip about your neighbor.
In fact you won’t do ANY of the things that would do some kind of harm to your neighbor, which far exceeds a mere 6 limitations.
Jesus didn’t say, love does none of the 6 things to harm your neighbor prohibited by the ten commands, thus love fulfills the law.
He said instead, that love does NO HARM to your neighbor, so love fulfills the law.
Get the difference?
The two love commands go far beyond the ten commands in how well you treat your fellow man - instead of limiting any harm you’d do to your neighbor to six, if you love him you won’t do ANY HARM to him in any way, shape or form.
And the two love commands also go beyond not doing any kind of harm to your neighbor - if you love him as yourself, besides not harming them, you will HELP him in every kind of way.
If you love your neighbor you’ll mow his lawn when he breaks his leg, for just one example.
If you’re just keeping the Decalogue, you can do things against him not prohibited by the 6 limitations to bad behavior in the Decalogue - and ignore any needs he has such as needing his lawn mowed if he breaks a leg, and still pat yourself on the back for keeping the Decalogue to a tee.
That’s why the two love commands are far superior to the very limited ten commands, and they’re kept for a very different motive than fear of being stoned to death under the law.
Thus you really can’t equate the ten commands to the two love commands, nor claim that the two merely restate the ten, when in reality they are far different, as different as night and day.