As extensively evidenced in this thread, what you (and Big Boy) reckon these "false beliefs" to be is/are itself/themselves false. And what is unfortunate is, that is... not always, but most of the time... how these "discussions" go.
Do not believe according to your opinion of what Calvin taught, which, like I said, is false. Not "stupid," but false.
If you don't believe, as Paul said, that for those in Christ, we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us, and nothing in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:37-39). If you are born again and in Christ, if you don't know the security you have in the Lord ~ which is faith itself according to Hebrews 11:1, the very assurance from God of things hoped for, the conviction by the Holy Spirit of things not seen ~ then that's... not a good place to be in. But faith itself is a gift of the Spirit (1 Corinthians 12:9) and all His gifts are apportioned to each indivitually as He wills (1 Corinthians 12:11), so, the faith some Christians have is not as strong as some other Christians. That's not to say they're "less Christian," but... it is what it is.
Fine. Maybe you got your misconceptions there. As an educated theologian, have you read Calvin's Institutes? It's not a hard read. If not, then I encourage you to read it, and if so, then I encourage you to read it again; perhaps a lot of your misconceptions would be... corrected.
I did not insinuate or say you said any of these things.
Because of your misconceptions of true Calvinistic beliefs. And you're not alone...
Pish.
No Calvinist worth his or her salt would say such a thing. Yet, God does work all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. And that's Romans 8:28, originally written by Paul, not John Calvin. <smile>
Well good, and yes, what it is truly about. <smile>
Grace and peace to you.