I see Baptism as just the union of one coming into the church, water etc is just symbolic of what is represented, it's much like the welcoming into the tribe of Judah (people of God) some people make out that this saves them ? it does not save them at all, but is on the path that can lead to salvation.
Being born again is the hole point of the true Baptism and becoming an Israel (servant of God)
Some claim that the water baptism is some big deal and that it's up to you to do it of your own will, not your parents (shock horror), well Christians live in a community of Christ and it's such a persons responsibility is to baptise their own children or you would be a total fool if you did not because that means you must not be a Christian at all, if you did not do such for your children. like who does not baptise their own children ? Pagans !
I get sick of hearing some idiot claiming that one must take that baptism on his own accord or make out claims of the biblical account back in the day, fact is we are a Christian community now for 2000 years and if one makes claims of having to do as they did before Christ went to Heaven, you have lost the plot and are in fact rejecting Jesus.
If a person had no Christian up bringing well that's fine and that person has the right to do such if they want, but big deal it's the same thing as any other Christian has, such a one is no more a Christian than another.
The Christian community is here ! it's established, I hate the foolish Naming ceremony's that's totally Pagan rubbish and to hear the dribble of that a parent has no right to Baptise their child.
Their is not such a big deal in water baptism as some will try to make out, sure it's all great but as John the Baptist pointed out about Jesus that John and his Baptism is nothing compared to the Baptism of the Holy Spirit that Jesus was in fact.
I have even had a idiot claim that you get born again and then you go get Baptised if you want to, that's total rubbish, you are like coming into 'The people of God' (Judah) as was Saul in fact and then he got the Holy Spirit and became Paul.
No one came to Christ through just nothing a pagan never has ever been born again directly, he learns first and then he may get it, but never was it done the other way around.
Jews don't have to be baptised because they already are in a way if they are true to God well then they truly are Judah a person of God anyway, just as John the Baptist was, but he was doing this and the Jews were coming to him in good faith of who he was.
I have had clowns come to me and claim that they can tell a pagan or anyone how to get saved, by just saying repeating what they say after them and bingo that person is born again and that they claim they have just saved that person and get a reward for doing so, not to mention that that person can now go be as evil as he wants, he is still saved, they claim, what total nonsense !