Being in Bethany is not the same as being called “Mary of Bethany.” Scripture describes her as Lazarus’s sister and calls her “Mary.” It never uses the title “Mary of Bethany,” just as it never uses the title “Mary Magdalene” for her. Those titles come from later tradition, not from Luke 10, John 11, or John 12.
You’ve said your belief that Mary of Bethany is Mary Magdalene is your opinion and not supported by Scripture — and I agree with you there. My only point is that Scripture itself never uses either title.
I just wanted to clarify the textual distinction between descriptions and later titles.
You’ve said John 11:2 is a non‑specific anointing event with no details, and also a third distinct anointing narrative with details. Those two claims cannot both be true. A non‑specific event cannot function as a narrative, and it cannot identify Mary unless it refers to a known past event.
John uses the anointing to identify which Mary Lazarus’s sister is. Identification requires a specific, recognizable past action. If you cannot name the event John is referring to, then your interpretation leaves John pointing to an event that doesn’t exist — which means the identifier fails.
You’ve now taken multiple mutually‑exclusive positions about John 11:2, and each new claim contradicts one or more of your earlier ones. Here is the sequence of what you’ve said:
1. You first acknowledged there are only two anointing narratives in the Gospels.
That means there is no third anointing narrative anywhere in Scripture.
2. Then you said John 11:2 does not refer to one of those two events — specifically not Luke 7.
But if John 11:2 does not refer to Luke 7, and John 12 hasn’t happened yet, then John is pointing to an event that does not exist.
3. Then you said John 11:2 is “just a previous event.”
But that contradicts your earlier claim that Scripture “does not imply a previous event,” and it contradicts your claim that John 11:2 does not refer to Luke 7.
4. Then you said John 11:2 is a “non‑specific event” that gives “no details.”
A non‑specific event cannot be a previous event, because a previous event must be specific enough to be recognized. And a non‑specific event cannot identify Mary, because identification requires a known, recognizable past action. It also contradicts your claim that John 11:2 does not refer to either of the only two anointings recorded in Scripture, because if it is non‑specific and refers to neither of them, then it refers to nothing at all — which makes identification impossible.
5. Then you said John 11:2 is a “third distinct anointing narrative,” and you added details not found in Scripture.
But a distinct narrative requires details, setting, timeline, and Jesus present — all of which contradict your claim that John 11:2 is non‑specific and gives no details. And claiming a third narrative contradicts your original statement that there are only two anointings.
6. Then you went back to saying John 11:2 is non‑specific.
Which contradicts your claim that it is a distinct narrative, and contradicts your claim that it is a previous event.
7. And now you are again saying it is a previous event, but this time adding “not a timeline, rather more or less a note to identify Mary.”
But calling it “a note to identify Mary” means you are now treating John 11:2 as an identifier — which requires a specific, known past event that the reader can recognize. That directly contradicts your earlier claim that John 11:2 is a non‑specific event with no details, because a non‑specific event cannot identify anyone. It also contradicts your earlier statement that “these scriptures do not imply a previous event,” because an identifier
is a reference to a previous event. And it contradicts your claim that John 11:2 is a third distinct anointing narrative, because an identifier is not a narrative and does not describe a new event happening in John 11.
So at this point you have claimed all of the following:
- only two anointings exist
- John 11:2 does not refer to either of them
- John 11:2 is a previous event
- John 11:2 is not a previous event
- John 11:2 is non‑specific
- John 11:2 is a distinct narrative
- John 11:2 gives no details
- John 11:2 has details (that you supplied)
- John 11:2 is not a timeline
- John 11:2 is a previous timeline event
- John 11:2 identifies Mary
- John 11:2 does not identify a previous event
- Scripture does not imply a previous event
- John 11:2 is a previous event and an identifier
These claims cannot all be true. Many of them cannot coexist with any of the others.
Meanwhile, the text itself still stands:
John 11:2 identifies and specifies
which Mary Lazarus’s sister is by referring to a past hair‑wiping event. John 12 has not happened yet. The Gospels contain only one earlier hair‑wiping event: Luke 7. John gives no alternative earlier event. The Gospels give no alternative earlier event.
So John’s identification only makes sense if Mary had already done this act — and the only earlier instance is the woman in Simon the Pharisee’s house.
I’ve laid out the textual and logical contradictions plainly. At this point, further explanation won’t resolve them if you’re committed to your conclusion. But personal commitment doesn’t alter the text. It remains exactly what it says.