Always appreciate your replies! It's my understanding that the more important issue for those reborn is the guiltlessness, because as long as we're here, the "old man" (sin nature) will indwell and affect our lives, but no longer in a dominative manner (Ro 6:12, 14), i.e. it can no longer cause us to desire sin. Thus when a believer sins it is not intentional nor desired, and nor our will as the "new man." It's the old man (sin nature) doing it and no longer the believer (Ro 7:17, 20); for our desire in the new nature is no longer after the old nature, because it's after the Spirit (Ro 8:9); who alone repeatedly confirms to us to be "children of God" (Ro 8:16).
Guiltlessness? Yes, I can see how if your conscience does not condemn you, you know that you are, by our new nature, keeping His commandments and are pleasing to God. 1 John 3:21-24.
What I find disturbing is your use of Romans 7:17, 20 that Romans 8:2 says the Spirit frees us from. So are we free or not? Jesus said the truth shall set us free, and He frees us completely (indeed) John 8:32-36. Isn't it the whole purpose of being born again? Jesus was manifest to take away our sin, and in Him there is no sin 1 John 3:5-9. Therefore to take away our sin, He must take away our old man and replace it completely with the new man that is in Christ. Then it is not by our own willpower, but relaxing or resting in the power of God.
It seems you believe that in reality Jesus doesn't take away our old man, but that we must choose daily or even moment to moment Who to serve and obey, and I can see your point in Romans 6. That to me is not complete freedom, but seems like the powerlessness of what it was like under the Law,
your Romans 7:17, 20. And I'm wondering if that has more to do with what in our mind is the
definition of
grace, whether in our mind it is "unmerited favor" or the "divine power of God." Here I think lies the importance of "the truth shall set you free." Which definition is truth? How powerful was the cleansing of ALL unrighteousness? Was that for good, or just until you sin again? It is a perplexing, mind boggling situation between the apostles that I'm wrestling with. How to match John's scripture with Paul's. And, of course, Peter in 2 Peter 1:2-11 shows a progressive growing in the fruit of the Spirit (5-7) in which if we do, we shall never stumble (10-11). But that still puts the ball, our choice, in our courtyard. Obey the Spirit, or quench Him.