While I agree that there is a narrative to divide society by gender. Which can be identified by it using terms like patriarchy, toxic masculinity, non binary, personal pronouns and such.
The way that the church treats women is questionable. Why was Joan of Arc burned at the stake by the church? Should Mother Teresa have been eligible to become a leader in the catholic church? What prevents women like Mother Teresa from becoming a bishop, cardinal or pope?
It seems that Mary Magdalene held a leadership role in the church of Jesus.
What prevents women from having leadership roles in today's church?
That is a good and fair question.
The reason is that the Bridegroom (male) had come for His bride (female); and the entire church age needed to understand by example that they were preparing for marriage in that biblical portrayal of the Head of the church (carried on by tradition as male), showing the church (men and women alike) as the Bride (female), to be portrayed for the benefit of all future generations, that they might understand.
So, there is no hierarchy between men and women, except in the service of properly portraying Christ (male) as Head, until the end.
But I will say also, the problem is not that women do not qualify in every other way--because they do, and are equal before God--as both men and women all being considered rather as being women (as a Bride). The problem rather is that every man and every women do not understand that, but have made it a male/female issue rather than an issue of all being betrothed to Christ. If and when they did or do understand, there would be no issue or problem and women could certainly take on any role. But as long as there are new people coming into the church...we are to portray Christ (male) as Husband and Head; and when there are no more new people coming into the church--the roles will no longer be needed, nor will they exist for they shall be One.